One increasingly hears TV presenters say things like "zapoznał się z obydwoma sprawami" rather than "obydwiema". We all know what the norm is, but is there a tendency to ignore the distinction and use obydwoma throughout? Is that already regarded as admissible?
Another point: tę v tą. More and more one hears and occasionally even reads: Poproszę tą czerwoną apaszkę or Weź tą łapę! Is this becoming acceptable?
The bottom line is: does it grate you when you hear obydwoma for females or tą in the feminine accusative singular? If it doesn't, then that means that it will eventually (maybe quite soon) become the norm. Languages evolve and when something gains general acceptance it soon becomes the norm.
In future please provide a translation for the benefit of those members who don't understand Polish.
Another point: tę v tą. More and more one hears and occasionally even reads: Poproszę tą czerwoną apaszkę or Weź tą łapę! Is this becoming acceptable?
The bottom line is: does it grate you when you hear obydwoma for females or tą in the feminine accusative singular? If it doesn't, then that means that it will eventually (maybe quite soon) become the norm. Languages evolve and when something gains general acceptance it soon becomes the norm.
In future please provide a translation for the benefit of those members who don't understand Polish.