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Polish-American Grandma used to say this word!


erinegront  1 | 4  
26 Apr 2019 /  #1
Bear with me, bc I know very little, if any at all of Polish, so i will type it the way I 'remember' her saying it. If my Grandma were alive today, she would be in her late 80's and both her parents from from Poland, so this maybe a word that she 'made up' or is no longer in use, but she used to call me her pŏŏtka, or pŏŏptka, or something along those lines, is what it sounded like to me. When i asked her what it meant, she would tell me it meant, 'doll' or 'baby doll' in Polish. Like a term of endearment Can anyone help? :) thanks a ton!!!
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
26 Apr 2019 /  #2
That is my old grandmas should be kept away from babies. Contaminating their trusting minds with made-up meaningless foreign words borders on child abuse. Polish language is full of those. This is why we never allowed foreign baby talk. It was always face, nie buziuchna, or some other linguistic tumor.
OP erinegront  1 | 4  
26 Apr 2019 /  #3
I am confused....why is this so bad??
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
26 Apr 2019 /  #4
Because I have seen the results. Instead of getting and learning straight American English, kids growing up on the mixture of Polish and English suffer when interacting with their peers who quickly find them different and weird. No child ever wants to be different, ridiculed, harassed or bullied.

If that Polish were at least the reference-grade Polish - that would be tolerable. Typically, it's not. It's a mixture of cute local made up words and phrases from various regions, not what you hear on the Polish radio.

Before I left, I would seldom hear the word "kobieta" pronounced properly. It was "kobita". Just an example.
kaprys  3 | 2076  
26 Apr 2019 /  #5
@erinegront
It might have been germanism in a regional dialect. Pupka from German 'Puppe'. In Polish it's 'lalka' , 'laleczka'
OP erinegront  1 | 4  
26 Apr 2019 /  #6
@Rich Mazur
It still makes no sense to me....there was never any ridicule, or suffering, I never learned Polish or even tried to....most of the grandchildren/children in America have 'pet names' given to them by their family members,. I am not sure your ethnicity, and/or where you grew up, but in the US, this is not uncommon and no cause for harassment
Jaskier  
26 Apr 2019 /  #7
"kobieta" pronounced properly. It was "kobita". Just an example.

Kobita is not a pronunciation option but a slang version
mafketis  38 | 10963  
26 Apr 2019 /  #8
.why is this so bad??

Pay no attention to him, he pretends to be an immigrant to the US from Poland but often displays frank ignorance of Polish realities.

pŏŏtka - what does ŏŏ represent? the oo sound like boot or the oh sounds in boat? Something else?

Nothing so far is ringing a bell...

I would seldom hear the word "kobieta" pronounced properly. It was "kobita".

In other words you grew up in a melina?
DominicB  - | 2706  
26 Apr 2019 /  #9
pŏŏtka, or pŏŏptka, ... she would tell me it meant, 'doll' or 'baby doll' in Polish.

It's German dialect, not Polish. Puppke is a diminutive of Puppe, which means doll in English, so little doll is a good translation.

Your grandma apparently lived in an area under German or Austrian rule at the time, and/or spoke a dialect of Polish which was heavily influenced by German.
mafketis  38 | 10963  
26 Apr 2019 /  #10
Puppke is a diminutive of Puppe, which means doll in English

I was wondering about that possibility, or if it was a non-standard version of pupcia (behind, buttocks) and she was being diplomatic by saying it was a doll...
OP erinegront  1 | 4  
26 Apr 2019 /  #11
@Rich Mazur
my grandma was fluent in both English and Polish, thank you @mafketis Thank you, Geesh, I never thought a simple question would bring up so much hostility from someone! lol I didnt want to learn "Polish" at the time and wasnt trying to, but anyway, yes the double o thing, was to represent the sound I was trying to make oo as in boot, yes :) @DominicB This is Probably correct, as it was my great Grandparents who were born in Poland, which would have been around the early 1900's...I did read somewhere that province Silesia had a lot of German, Czech, and Polish heritage/influence, so could be they were from that area.

@mafketis @kaprys @DominicB @Jaskier thank you all so much for your help, info and guidance!!

@mafketis lol, my grandma always used to say that i had such a 'cute little dupek' as well, she used that as a slang for butt/booty lol who knows, my family obviously has a lot different cultural influences. Ill have to sign up for an ancestry.com account!
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
26 Apr 2019 /  #12
Don't! Today, the law enforcement agencies go there with the DNA samples collected from the crime scenes. If your DNA matches their sample even marginally, you may get the visitors at your door step you really don't want.
kaprys  3 | 2076  
26 Apr 2019 /  #13
@erinegront
You're right about Silesia having a lot of German and Czech influences.
Dupka is butt in Polish indeed ; )
Lyzko  41 | 9592  
26 Apr 2019 /  #14
And "dupA"? We all know about that one:-)
OP erinegront  1 | 4  
26 Apr 2019 /  #15
what is Dupa? that means butt, as well, correct?
kaprys  3 | 2076  
26 Apr 2019 /  #16
It's basically a**.

As for learning more about your family, you may start by looking for some information online yourself - starting with some birth records or simply reading about Silesia.

Although things may really vary. I remember one article by a guy from Silesia who wrote that even people living in one street would use different words for the same thing like babcia, oma and starka for grandma.

Do you remember any other words she used?
Ziemowit  14 | 3936  
26 Apr 2019 /  #17
babcia, oma and starka for grandma

Babcia is standard Polish. Starka is truly Silesian.
kaprys  3 | 2076  
26 Apr 2019 /  #18
google.com/amp/s/slask.onet.pl/starki-i-starziki-felieton-marka-szoltyska-po-slasku/xce89.amp
Have a look at it.

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