Lucynda
10 Dec 2007
Love / My Polish wife doesn't want to move to the UK with me - what to do? [96]
I wonder about her commitment to you. I mean, isn't a wife meant to "leave her father and mother" and "cleave to her husband"? Seems like she doesn't believe in you all that much....that's actually not a good sign.
Perhaps you could plan to live in a Polish area in London....here in Chicago it's like "Little Warsaw" and Poles feel quite at home.
I know family is important, but sooner or later, you are going to have to strike out on your own.
You might also consider simply going back to Blighty on your own, and reevaluate the relationship in about six months. Your absence might speak louder to her than your presence.
I wonder about her commitment to you. I mean, isn't a wife meant to "leave her father and mother" and "cleave to her husband"? Seems like she doesn't believe in you all that much....that's actually not a good sign.
Perhaps you could plan to live in a Polish area in London....here in Chicago it's like "Little Warsaw" and Poles feel quite at home.
I know family is important, but sooner or later, you are going to have to strike out on your own.
You might also consider simply going back to Blighty on your own, and reevaluate the relationship in about six months. Your absence might speak louder to her than your presence.