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FutureInPoland   
30 Jun 2019
Love / Advice for a non-Pole - more than friendship? [5]

Thank you Pawian,
No one believed the 8 days away in the same room was only friendship. No sex or anything.
I think he is super polite/respectful etc. Don't get me wrong, this is refreshing in my experience. It's lovely. However, it is somewhat confusing to know if this man wants more eventually or is just being a good guy. Platonic. I am used to Spanish men and you know where you stand quite quickly into a friendship. Are Poles different? Heck yes. But in a good way. I guess time will tell
FutureInPoland   
29 Jun 2019
Love / Advice for a non-Pole - more than friendship? [5]

Hey guys,
This is my first post and I am quite confused about a situation. I'm a woman in her early 40s. I met a man and so far it is just friendship but it feels like more.

I met this guy in February on a residential course. We talked all the time and although he is a quiet soul, we spent most available time together. We met up for a weekend in February and shared a room (single beds) and subsequently went on an 8 day roadtrip of Poland and shared rooms again. I have stayed with him in his home several times and we have so much fun. Talking,laughing, seeing new things together. We 'flirt' a lot. We can talk about everything and anything and I feel so very comfortable being with him.

Now, he has introduced me to his sister and her family. That was pure chance. The family know about me too and seem positive. I am currently staying at his home while he is away seeing his family.

We message each other every day and it seems that we are getting closer. I know more and more about him every day. He saw me off to the train when I left after the 8 day road trip and he gave me 3 kisses on the cheek. The next time, the train came in and we did the 3 kisses things but it seemed rushed. Like he was aiming for the lips. But I may be seeing too much into this.

But, here is the confusing bit. I have told him that I hope this friendship progresses to something more than just friendship and I respect that he wants to take his time. His response was 'OK'.

So, am I seeing things? Is it only friendship?
Any advice will be helpful.