Love / Polish relationsip and translation - help needed... [11]

Merged: Relationship trouble- possibly translate ... 😞

hi everyone
Am in a long term relationship, with polish guy- 10 years now, for last 6 he was saying yes one day we will marry but nothing comes of it- he knows I want to... We have a child also

Couple of years ago we had a heart to heart I told him how hurt I was that I felt he put it off and didn't want it

Even reminded him of times we spent in Poland with his family where they all ask again and again when is the wedding,( he's from a small village and to be honest they are all surprised we didn't marry and I'm sure think it's my doing ..?)

....and I felt like a fool - once about 6 years ago we argued about it and he promised the next year he would "surprise me"

Time goes by and I guess it has eaten away at me,and to be honest my self esteem
His English is fine but I wondered about telling him in polish how I feel - in his native tongue would it help??