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I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]
I am 30 years old, artistic, creative and just one big walking cuddle! I am a big softy and will never harm a fly and generally accepting of other cultures but I could do with a little help with getting to know new people from Poland! My last experience long time ago has been pretty bad and weird! My last man from Poland he was a bit of rat!! He was pretty cheap; behaviour wise and more! He was all over me like crazy full of I love you rubbish, wants to be a dad at 40 so badly, trying to get me pregnant, then I find out in the end he is linked to criminals, he has a polish girlfriend ( I found bank statements belonging to her! I also found lovely subtle love messages which suggests she knows what is happening, she is waiting to get into the UK the quick way whilst he goes around getting as many other UK women pregnant! I lasted less than a month with him!
I was absolutely disgusted! He was talking to me like a dog and treated me like rubbish after being all lovely and charming in the beginning! He was very cheap and expected me to give him money and I bought him food and little wine glasses, drinks and when I did buy him food he wastes it! He never even got me flowers or anything. He never made much effort to keep me happy, he really didn't care as long as he got what he wanted! One of the times I was there, I was crying and feeling really frustrated because he was neglecting me and dismissing me!
He was focusing on his drunken Scottish and polish male friends more so than me! He was cleaning his house 20 hours a day for two days which didn't need cleaning! Pretty excessive! I came over to his place in the belief we would go for romantic walks enjoy nice romantic dinner too and spend quality time. I was really really upset! I couldn't go home because there were no buses, I didn't have any money left because I spent it on his food and drink! He was a complete dick!
The best part? When I was crying and feeling upset, I told him nicely whilst crying, I feel neglected and dismissed and bored to tears! I have never felt like this with a man before! He started swearing and being very Irate! He showed aggressive behaviour, he slammed his fist down on the table and started screaming and shouting calling me a little bas tard! That kind of energy could be channeled into giving cuddles and love! Seeing that made think I will not put up with that! No way! What is he going to be like in the future? Already he showed signs of being controlling towards me in the last days with don't wear make up, don't drink, what are you doing and where are you why are you at the pub? Why are you eating at a hotel with friends?.....too much! . . . Any way! After he left the room in a huff, I found bank statements belonging to some polish girl on the window sill, then Facebook messages of other girls in a flirty manner and in the end, I found out more stuff too! He pretty much scared me! Oh too much! So I just played cool and then went away early in the morning! Then I blocked him!
So if your a cheap type guy! ( I mean behaviour wise and how you treat women!) Please! Get lost! Polish or not! Rich or poor! You just simply don't use me and hurt me!
I am a very kind girl, I don't cause fights, I don't fights with people! I am a peaceful and caring type it just hurts me a lot when I do a lot of caring, I get stamped on! I am not interested in those who claim to be part of the mafia and those just act like dicks! Please! Just get lost if your going to hurt me and take advantage of me! I am not the type that will harm a fly!
These bloody types like the guy I have mentioned give good polish people a hard time and it always takes a minority or individual to cause friction with other people, particularly here! I know people in the UK are a random bunch of good and bad! I understand there are people wanting a new life and so on. I am Scottish and I do realise there are good and bad every where! I do want to engage with polish people and I also want to learn the polish language and culture more! I have major problems trusting people! Because of idiots taking the monkeys out of my good nature!
I am a girl that likes to share things with good people! Caring is in my nature and I guess that comes from my family of nurses! He he!:) l have a big heart, I don't follow convention so much! I just do my own thing!
I like to travel, I like painting, drawing, cooking, learning new languages, trying out new things! :) holistic therapies, etc.
I don't drink a lot, I don't smoke tobacco! I do support legalisation of cannabis! Hint hint!:)
I just simply want to meet nice friendly caring loyal trustworthy people!:)
I would love a decent polish boyfriend! I don't want to be strung into false promises and hopes! I am a romantic type! Just don't want another repeat of bad nonsense! As I am a very soft hearted affectionate type, don't see this as a chance to play around with me! I am not the type that is into playing games!
I welcome new friends both male and female! I really don't like ****** two faced type women! Not my style! I like girls that are just nice and honest and friendly! I am a very very friendly, laid back, easy going girl!:)
I don't like violent people, I like open minded, intelligent, sweet, caring types!
Thank you for reading this! I hope you you understand that I am a genuine girl and very accepting to good natured genuine people! I know your all out there!
