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Cannot get married as a catholic in Poland if I don't have sacraments - No kids without Church marriage [9]
Hi everybody
I'm married to an amazing polish girl, I love her and she loves me back. We've been married since 2011, and together since 2006. Considering I'm almost in my thirties, I'd love to have kids considering we're both working. The problem is that I don't have any of the sacraments and my wife won't have any children unless we're married in church. I have proposed her to make a small ceremony(of course me getting married even as an atheist:which I'm not but I can't get married as a catholic if I don't have the sacraments) for 2 of us and go somewhere a on a little holiday because I don't have 30-40 k to spend on the wedding but she doesn't agree. It has to be a wedding as everybody she says :(, the thing though is that her friends got money from their parents and our parents are not rich or not even close to rich so we do have to pay for everything ourselves.
Now, everytime this comes up we finish having an argument,with her saying that she doesn't want kids unless we get married in church and me saying that we don't have money for a big ceremony. I have to say that I wasn't baptized because when I was born, my country was communist and I have tried later but it takes till 2 years ( from what I've heard ) and I go in my country only for 2 weeks/year, to visit my parents, here in PL I can't because my polish is very basic.
Any advice/opinion is welcomed.