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I am in a serious relationship with a girl i met on-line from Poland - advice needed [19]
Hey guys,
Well, as it starts. I am an Australian 24, i had found a polish girl online 6 months ago, i had found her off a pen pal website, We have been exchanging emails at first, then we started to talk on skype, webcam and now we talk on kik ( an app on a iphone which is like texting but for free ) we text every day when we are awake, past month we have talked about what it would be like if i moved to Poland, things about what would happen, how her parents would react, how would i get a job etc etc.
And im currently thinking about moving, but i had told her if we do keep talking by the end of the year i would move to Poland for her. ( Does this seem drastic ? ).
A bit about me, I used to go university ( i had to drop it to pay bills as both parents had passed away, i was studying bachelor of mathematics ), i currently work at a bank and live a nice life. I am religious, opened in thoughts, love keeping fit, eat well.
Things i have not told her ( I own $20,000 + another $20,000 in assets including car, computer, belongings etcs[ which i would sell if i moved to Poland ] ) i also own a 1/3 of my parents house which the house is worth considerably alot.
Things about her, shes 20, shes currently in university, she lives with a roommate, she has strong family ties, shes very pretty, shes also religious, she also loves sports and keeps very fit. ( this is all id like to say )
Things i would like to know:
1/ How would i be able to get a citizenship if i were to marry her?
2/ I am Tanned skinned ( middle eastern/spanish background, people say i look italian ) i know most polish are white. Are there many racists in Poland, i know she has said her parents wont mind, but she has told me they are old fashioned and religious, so im considering they may be racists?
3/ With my current financials, would i be able to move to Poland ( i would not see the house money until the house is sold and that is when my youngest brother turns 18, which is in a few years time ] )
4/ I do not speak Polish but i am planning to learn all the basics from now, starting with the alphabet and its pronunciations how hard is it to learn Polish?
5/ How hard would it be for me to find a job? ( I find my self to be well educated, and speak very fluent English, I do not speak Polish but i will learn.)
If there is anything else i need to know please let me know.