ynajane
21 Oct 2013
Love / Filipino guy with a Polish girl.. [60]
Czesc!
I'm a Filipina and I used to have a Polish boyfriend and we were together for 7 months. We met in another country as exchange students and I was supposed to live with him next year in Poland but he broke up with me because of our cultural differences and he thinks that there's no job for me in Poland. He always insists me to be someone else that I am not. He would always compare me on how I behave and how his friends behave. He was really romantic, kind and thoughtful but when I came back to the Philippines, he started to doubt on our relationship and never shared it to me. When he came back to Poland, his life went back to normal and his friends keep on telling him that I will not get along with them because I am different and I don't speak Polish. So I believe that was one of the reasons why he broke up with me.
Don't get me wrong, I love Polish people. I enjoy being with them. I have lots of Polish friends but our relationship did not work out because he's not willing to work on our cultural differences. He wants me to be someone like his friends.
He, by the way, introduced me to his parents. We had a one-week vacation together and everything seemed to be normal that time. He is still a student so I assume that he is not mature enough to be committed.
I still plan to go to Poland in the future. :)
Czesc!
I'm a Filipina and I used to have a Polish boyfriend and we were together for 7 months. We met in another country as exchange students and I was supposed to live with him next year in Poland but he broke up with me because of our cultural differences and he thinks that there's no job for me in Poland. He always insists me to be someone else that I am not. He would always compare me on how I behave and how his friends behave. He was really romantic, kind and thoughtful but when I came back to the Philippines, he started to doubt on our relationship and never shared it to me. When he came back to Poland, his life went back to normal and his friends keep on telling him that I will not get along with them because I am different and I don't speak Polish. So I believe that was one of the reasons why he broke up with me.
Don't get me wrong, I love Polish people. I enjoy being with them. I have lots of Polish friends but our relationship did not work out because he's not willing to work on our cultural differences. He wants me to be someone like his friends.
He, by the way, introduced me to his parents. We had a one-week vacation together and everything seemed to be normal that time. He is still a student so I assume that he is not mature enough to be committed.
I still plan to go to Poland in the future. :)