Love / English women and polish man who ran off with my life savings [22]

My polish partner who I met in Krakow has just left after 5 years....

He went to Poland and never told me but that is not all..........He has my life savings in his bank.........

Everyone reading this may think how could I be such a fool...........Well we were saving to buy a property outside of London in a cheaper area so I put my savings in his bank with his savings into an ISA (interest savings account.) .

We put it there for a while to get the best interest and I trusted him because we had been together 5 years this week,

He had drinking problems and would go out drinking with friends and lose track of time and come back drunk and not remember much about the night before.

I told him he drank too much although it was mainly at weekends .He did have a scaffolding job all week so was his outlet at weekends.

I did got to Poland to meet his mother but never at their family home which I found really weird as we stayed in Krakow in cafes and bars all day talking and getting to know each other all though she could not speak English my boyfriend translated for me .

I asked my boyfriend on many occasions why I could not visit the family home and feel more comfortable and see the town he grew up in {miechow } near Krakow.

He just avoided the question and said his mums house needed work and renovation so what more could I do to get him to take me there ?

Anyway now I cant find him .his phone number don't answer and I don't know where his mum lives only the town.

Do I contact the polish police to find him and tell him i want my money back that is in his Barclays bank here in England ?

He could deny the money is mine and say he don't know anything and then what .

I feel gutted and sick that I trusted him .I don't think I will ever see him again as cant contact him....