Love / Polish Catholic girl - do you have the same relationship problem as me? [28]

Relationships are complicated nowadays espicially if both parties don't want to compromise.
You can't let your parents choose what kind of person will share your life,cuz you will be the one who will suffer all your life,if you have kids with your partner then you know you are even stuck,it doesn't matter if you are separated,divorce or whatever the case might be.

You have to know your partner,at least find some major common value,interests and other points between you too.Some differences in languages,cultures,way of thinking will make the relationship amazing!There would be a lot then to talk about,share and to know with your partner.

There are things you have to agree on before the marriage of course.
Trust me,you will never fully know somebody till you are married to him,or her.Just have faith in God to help you find the right partner.¨Plus you can't control life,no matter how smart you are,or controlling.Your partner will do what he wants,THERE SHOULD BE ALWAYS RESPECT AND COMPROMISING AND DISCUSSING between the couple members.That's what will keep the marriage.

Even if you will go with your partner to the catholic church on Sunday,and be surrounded with the catholic people,that won't assure you will stay together.

I don't agree with your dad!Sometimes old people are closed minded or they are very emotional,or tend to sth.They shouldn't though impose their ideas or way of life on their kids.We are all created free:free to think,free to act,free to love and choose the partner.That's what I think.My standpoint is right and might be wrong,yours too is wrong and might be right!We ask God to guide us the right path and to help us make the right decision espicially when it comes to make such an important step like marriage.We know it's not sex,flowers and having a good time.It's paying bills,taking a lot of responsiblities,and respecting the partner's religion,way of thinking,the state and condition too.It's a lot of things,do you understand?

I myself hate cheating,that's sth I know,it makes people apart!if you cheat on me,I'm done and we will never be back together even if you 'd be down on yr knees.

Love / Polish Catholic girl - do you have the same relationship problem as me? [28]

Can't agree with you on such things.
Maybe they can,I like to be in control of things haha
I don't think such crazy things make the relationship going on!Different but crazy things no!
That's why people shouldn't get married!it'll end up bad or they just have accept the constact huge gap haha
I'd choose the first one haha
Have a goodnight
Gotta bounce off!

Love / Polish Catholic girl - do you have the same relationship problem as me? [28]

Oh!Yup,it could work out of course
I'm Muslim too.I think the husband or the wife got to compromise about the children's religion.Cuz when you have kids with someone means you are stucked up to them,and if so,you gotta talk before marriage about major issues,like when you have kids which religion they will be affiliated to.That's the way to work out things,so that the couple will not argue and have problems within the marriage.

That's the way I think,and I might be wrong.
I'm just talking about someone who is reallly serious guy,and look forward to be happily married.Marriage is investment,and everybody learns that the hard way.

Marriage isn't all love and flowers,it'll be love,paying bills,kids,problems...lot of them.The strongest the couple is,the more the relationship could work out.

It's not like,the wife would be saying,okay it's night time I wanna go with my friends to the disco to have fun.That wouldn't be a marriage.Or the husband would be like,Okay,I'm going somewhere I ain't coming back tonight!That would be really ****** up and I saw a lot of people like that.I think they were not ready for marriage,and they thought it is like dating,it'd be fun.People still lower their expectations and don't wanna be taken for granted even when married!that makes them irresponsible and could behave recklessly.

Marriage is destiny anyway,so you will know the first moment when you meet the right guy.
Do you savvy that?

Love / Polish Catholic girl - do you have the same relationship problem as me? [28]

Oh!I got you.
But I respect people's believes!If my partner practises different religion it's okay for me,I really don't worry about what she would do.It's just I ain't allowed in my religion to marry an atheist,or idols worshippers,you feel me?

I don't think there would be a religion clash between the couple.Everybody can practise what he or she believes in,but the problem will come after later when the kids will come up.

Trust me,nowadays guys like old fashioned girls,cuz guys don't need a modernized girl,who will stay up the whole night in a disco and needs her boy to be dressed up Gucci haha.Everybody needs that humble,shallow girl,that enjoys life with its ups and downs.

Your partner would respect your religion most of the time,people nowadays are open to everything!
I remember back in the day,when I went to a catholic church and the priest said that who would give out charity will not be blessed by him and God!He was such a greedy man and definitely it looked awful while he said that.

Canada is a multi-pot spot,you will learn a lot.You just have to open your mind.People have different religions,and way of things even members of the same family.People have partners,from the same religion,city,age range but the relationship wouldn't work out still.You know why?cuz the couple doesn't have common values and interests.For instance the husband likes to be honest and the wife tends to lie all the time,or for instance the girl likes to stay athletic and go to Zumba or yoga class while the dumbass husband prefers to be a couch potato,and watch 24/7 TV!

It's a lot of stuff,but you get the point,don't chu?

Love / Polish women and foreign men [76]

Oh boy!
I ain't being xenophobic cuz I ain't a Polish guy,I was being very objective!
Trust me,you got to own up to your mistakes!
I'm very open to all cultures,and I think Polish people are great people!Not all of them,bad people are everywhere!
In general,I like Polish girls
So everybody I knew in my life
I remember this Polish dude who was messing up with some Irish girl,she was so messed up and got him in a lot of troubles!

I myself told him to date some Polish girl if he doesn't like Polish girls!

Love / Polish Catholic girl - do you have the same relationship problem as me? [28]

Oh haha!
It's hilareous but true!
But it's sth like prearranged marriage,you parents can't show you the standards of picking up the right partner
When you will find the right partner,you will have that strange different feeling.He might be from different religion,culture,but surely you would have together common values,points...

I had a friend before,he was a polish guy,although he married a polish girl and who was catholic like him,It didn't work out.So you got me?

I think it's what I said,and willingness to compromise is what makes any relationship to work out!
I myself ain't allowed to marry an atheist.I think they are too material,and physical.I'm a guy who believes in destiny and God fearing,so sometimes religion is important even if it's not the same religion.

Your parents can't tell you what to do!Pick up the right guy for you.Even if you screw up,still some people will learn the hard way,but eventually life is the best teacher and you will find out the right guy.

Everybody experiences sth different,you can never tell!Just look deep inside yourself and see what you want!
Therefore we are created all different,that makes life enjoyable
Do you agree with me?

Life / Foreigners in Poland - the identities of our native or the host country [66]

That's some great topic!
Foreigners are marginalized everywhere!Plus the economic problems make governments don't do much for foreigners everywhere
Foreigners have to struggle everywhere!
But the feeling of intergeting with new communities,is a great feelings that I myself enjoyed experiencing before!
Even if there is some cultural clash,that it would rise esp if people don't try to compromise

Love / Are all women in Warsaw opposed to short term friendship? [5]

Oh haha
Most people name it friendship,I think it's rather dating?and I don't think one night stand is acceptable but in America haha

Having friends is okay,if that is not going to surpass the boundaries
But nobody can control his feelings,you don't know where friendship will take you
I think women all around the world are against short term friendship,cuz it wouldn't make sense having short and shallow conversations with ppl!

That's to answer your question haha

Love / Polish women and foreign men [76]

Wow!How xenophobic are you!
You might be married a drunk polish guy,and you will look for a foreign rebound,trust me!
You can't judge all people!There are great people everywhere!I myself like polish people even if I ain't one of them!
Polish girls are pretty,smart,and they are open minded!even if we are taught that they are strongheaded,catholics and so on!
Even if your relationship might not work out cuz you are not doing your best,or cheating,or maybe you don't have common points,the same values with your foreign partner

You should change the way you think,it's all wrong!trust me

UK, Ireland / Do Poles in the UK pretend to be uppity because they have an inferiority complex? [60]

I can't agree with you
I think English people for instance are ********
While polish people are cool!
Some of them would have inferiority complex,but I don't think everybody is the same
I've never felt down in any spot I went to.
Eastern europeans are not anymore like they used to be!Now I think they are better than the westerns.
They used to teach us too that catholic people are screwed up and that's cuz being catholic means you need to be strict!
You can't judge everybody people are different