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Englishman   
23 May 2017
Love / ACCEPTABLE modest wear for Polish women? [49]

Pity. The few times I've seen Polish women without trousers or tights on I've thought they were blessed with really nice legs. It'd be great if they'd keep them bare :-)
Englishman   
11 Mar 2017
News / FEMI-FASCISTS MARCH AGAIN IN POLAND [126]

The sełf-centred egoists, materialistic careerists and the genitally obsessed fortunately do not represent the majority of Polish women.

I pity any woman who gets involved with you.
Englishman   
10 Mar 2017
News / FEMI-FASCISTS MARCH AGAIN IN POLAND [126]

really and you represent a fringe of one unhappy hateful old man who has mother issues and is not representative of normal males.

+1. Women in Poland and elsewhere should be free to do what they want with their bodies. If they oppose abortion, that's fine; no-one should force them to do it. But if they support it, no-one else should tell them they can't do it.

Many of the comments on this thread are deeply offensive in their image of the role of women: 'at home', not sexually or economically independent. What kind of man finds that appealing? One who gets off on oppressing women, not seeing a woman fulfil her potential and be happy.
Englishman   
16 Dec 2016
Love / Polish Girl & Me...Is She Interested? [57]

She is not so beautiful but won't mind banging her.

Show her some respect. And stay away from her. You're not good enough for her, you sexist dinosaur.
Englishman   
9 Sep 2016
Language / SEXUAL AND PASSIONATE WORDS IN POLISH [41]

Why? Why do men not do nice things for women anymore?

+1. And sometimes women need it more, if they wear painful high heels.

IMO no better way to help a woman to relax after a busy day than offering her a foot massage, chocolate, and oral sex :-)
Englishman   
21 Jun 2016
Life / In Poland, are women and girls obligated to wear head scarves in church? [36]

all that "Kinder, Küche, Kirche" (Children, Kitchen, Church) and compulsory dressing skirts probably wouldn't go down well

I guess that could be it. In comparison to other countries with a Catholic heritage, Poland is distinct in having been under Communist control for half a century, when equality between the sexes was a high priority and women did a lot of jobs that could not easily be done in skirts.

Also I know that Poland celebrates International Women's Day, which many countries don't, which suggests that Polish women are quite strongly feminist.

As I think feminism and gender equality are good things, I'm pleased that Polish women mostly wear jeans :-).
Englishman   
20 Jun 2016
News / Poland marching for life and family [132]

What do you call female sleep-arounds, girls with peanut-butter legs (easy to spread), ladies of ill-repute? Tarts, sluts, wh*res?

Do you enjoy sex? And do you think it's good that women should enjoy it too?

If you do, how about cutting out the insulting language when referring to women who have the temerity to enjoy their sexuality?
Englishman   
20 Jun 2016
Life / In Poland, are women and girls obligated to wear head scarves in church? [36]

True, but the same could be said about women of every nationality. What I don't get is why hardly any Polish women wear skirts and dresses compared with other nationalities, especially given the Catholic heritage which used to include banning women from wearing trousers in church.
Englishman   
20 Jun 2016
Life / In Poland, are women and girls obligated to wear head scarves in church? [36]

At one time women were not allowed to wear trousers in church, but all that has gone by the wayside.

It must have been difficult to enforce that rule in Poland. I've noticed that Polish women hardly ever wear skirts and dresses, only trousers. BTW I've never understood why this is. Any ideas?
Englishman   
2 May 2016
Love / Do women in Poland change their surnames to a feminine form of their husbands' surnames? [40]

I agree, mind you if my name was Pigg or Smellie or Hoare I might be delighted to change my name...;). Plus it is nice to share a name.

True, though it can also work the other way round. I once met a woman called Jenny who was very pleased her Italian boyfriend Roberto Talia wasn't upset she wanted to keep her original surname when they married...
Englishman   
2 Nov 2015
UK, Ireland / Why do UK people look down on us? Maybe because plenty of Polish people work in the sex and cleaning industry? [51]

I don't think the OP is right that most, or even many, Poles in Britain work in the sex industry or cleaning. However, as InPolska said, a high proportion (by no means all) do working-class jobs in the widest sense.

Does this mean British people look down on them? Yes... and no. Some working class British people resent competition from Polish people, and the fact that more supply of candidates for such roles drives down salaries. Most middle- and upper-income British people rather admire Poles for working hard and being generally polite, friendly and constructive citizens. We're more likely to resent British 'chavs' for living on benefits rather than working hard, like stereotypical Poles. Possibly we don't understand that some of our working-class countrypeople can't afford to take those low-income jobs because they have families or other commitments that some newer residents don't.

One solution to stereotyping is understanding; another is change and integration. As time progresses, more Polish people are moving into management and professional roles, which helps a lot, and through intermarriage etc are better known to us on a personal level.
Englishman   
27 Aug 2015
Love / I'm a Polish girl (my boyfriend is British) and I'm proud [58]

Russian client of mine told me since we were talking about that "if I spend over 1 hour to put my make up on, I want people to look at it"... In the West, most women want their make up to be discreet.

I agree with you about Russian women - typically they're heavily made up, and also prefer clothing such as leopard-skin dresses and real fur coats that would be seen as trashy in the West. It has occurred to me that Poland's geographical location and history may mean it is pulled in both directions, so the style and tastes of its women might depend on whether they're from the west or east of the country and how international they are in their outlook (correlated to education levels).
Englishman   
27 Aug 2015
UK, Ireland / Why English do not like Polish? [417]

Through personal experiences of course;I know many who are disrespectful,rude,murderes and criminals;some have sex slaves.

Sex slaves? In the UK? Which city? Obviously I'm moving in the wrong circles.
Englishman   
27 Aug 2015
Love / I'm a Polish girl (my boyfriend is British) and I'm proud [58]

It seems to me that Polish girls/women vary quite a lot. Some go for the natural look, minimal make-up, no padded bras, no fake tan, no hair colouring. Others look like explosions in cosmetics factories. And many others are somewhere between the two.

This may be stereotyping but I suspect the more educated and socially upscale are less likely to do a lot to change their looks. So the OP, being a graduate, probably favours the natural look.
Englishman   
17 Aug 2015
News / Polish-foreigner marriages increasing [48]

+1. In fact the OP reports that most of the marriages are with other EU citizens, so it is self-evident that the majority of such unions have nothing to do with passports, or Arabs.
Englishman   
17 Aug 2015
News / Is Kinga Duda of Poland the most beautiful first-daughter of the world? [50]

Your second sentence is probably true, but that doesn't change the fact that Kinga is abnormally attractive compared to most of the world's women - it's just that Polish women are uniquely good-looking, so she's not exceptional relative to her fellow countrywomen.
Englishman   
10 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

@English: the Belgians may talk "funny" with their "70, 90, "une fois", "ça va" etc...... " but as you said they ARE native speakers of French

It's true :-). In my class, taught by a Belgian, we had two native French speakers - a Mauritian girl and a boy brought up in the UK but whose mother came from a very working class family in Marseille and spoke some kind of Provencal dialogue with her son at home, so his French was not of the sort normally heard in the Grandes Ecoles. So my experience of learning French was somewhat unusual...
Englishman   
10 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

That definition simply doesn't work in a linguistics sense. There are plenty of Poles with accents that are almost indistinguishable from someone from America or England, so what about them? They aren't 'native speakers', yet they function as one.

If you re-read my post, you'll find that I was referring to the accent, not the person. A person of Polish nationality and descent who has spent so long in the UK or US that they have no Polish accent when speaking English but instead sound like a native speaker has the accent of a native speaker, and therefore someone wishing to learn English from them can be confident of learning the language without acquiring a non-native accent.

As an aside, like many British people I learned to speak French at school. My teacher came from the French-speaking part of Belgium. Consequently, when I am in France (I have a second home there), the locals joke that they should buy me some chips covered in mayonnaise - the stereotypical diet of a Belgian...
Englishman   
10 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

My 'foreign accent' I mean an accent associated with a country where English is not the native tongue. An American, Canadian, Australian or Kiwi who speaks English with the accent of their home country is a native English speaker, just as a Scottish, Welsh, Irish person or someone from the North of England is a native English speaker, albeit one with a regional accent.

You also mentioned a stereotypical south London accent. Its owner is also a native speaker, albeit one with a (class-based) accent.
Englishman   
9 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

@ Vincent, I define 'native standard' as using grammatically and idiomatically correct English, pronounced without any discernible foreign accent. An authentic regional British accent is acceptable, though Received Pronunciation (RP - the accent used by educated people from London and the South East of England) is preferable.

Yes, a person with an accent or who makes some idiomatic errors but who is a great teacher could help a pupil to speak English to a high standard. But their speech will never be to native standard unless they also invest a lot of time conversing with genuine native speakers.
Englishman   
9 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

True, which makes me think (although you might speak and write good English) you might not have teaching skills, and your advise to the OP is irreverent.

I don't claim to have any teaching skills; but then, I'm not marketing myself as a teacher. My point was simply that the OP, though she may be a fantastic teacher, is a good rather than great English speaker, since I and others can tell from what she writes that she is not using the language to a native standard.

BTW I think you mean 'irrelevant' rather than 'irreverent' :-)
Englishman   
8 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

@ Vincent, the difference is that I'm not marketing myself as a teacher of English to Poles or other foreign nationals. I'm just supporting others in pointing out that while her English is easily understood, it isn't idiomatically perfect. That may not matter to most potential clients, but some might be concerned by it.

@ InAmerica, are you seriously suggesting that ProfTeacher's English is better than mine? Or that yours is? I'm a native speaker, from the mother country rather than a former colony.
Englishman   
8 Aug 2015
Classifieds / Private English Lessons by Experienced Professional Teacher in Poland (Warsaw) [107]

As a person who is 100% British, born to British parents, always had the UK as my main home, I agree with Smileitout (with the possible exception, as someone else pointed out, that 'infested with' is more commonplace than 'infested by', which he or she subsequently corrected). Despite hailing from a country to which we sent our convicts, Smileitout is a native English speaker and his/her observations are correct.

As InPolska pointed out, while the OP's English is very good, it isn't quite at the level of an idiomatically correct native speaker, plenty of whom live in Poland's main cities and provide English language lessons. So it may be that the OP would achieve more success teaching and translating to and from Russian, that being his or her own tongue.