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bita4u   
19 Oct 2011
Love / Help me understand the different mannerisms and mentality of men in Przemysl area! [28]

Thanks for the last three replies.
I am not embarassed or worried about my nationality, gosh I was raised in Plymouth, (a small english town, that do have the 'pitchforks'), If I can take it there, even by the teachers-(the adults were the worst!), I'm pretty confident in my-self anywhere I go.

I was only thinking of my partner, I don't wish him to be uncomfotable.
In any case, I was thinking of taking him during Christmas. I want to book a room at 'Zamek W Krasiczynie', as he did mention it and how much him and his mum always wanted to go and have a look at the place, (don't know why they never just walked in and nosed about?) Anyways, whilst I'm doing stuff there, (want to go exploring about the hills, etc.), he can go and visit his family.

I think it would be a great Christmas surprise. I work two jobs, as well as online surveys, so I don't have a lot of money, but I managed to find flights for £75 Return, yeah.. so I wouldn't be spending a fortune on him, (I probably would if I did have money though), but thank-you so much for the advice.

As for the sex..well when he kisses me I just melt, he seems to want to squeeze me alot and kisses me a lot and he's always playing with my hair and smelling me, all of which is very sweet, different, and lovingly done, but slightly claustrophobic, and so tight that I can't breath, but affectionate :) yeah kissing is great, which is very important to me, as you can't teach someone to be a great kisser, as for sex, well it's 'old fashioned', I guess you can say, but i have a lot to teach him and it be very fun doing so...just wish he could last longer! But am a great teacher.

Also is it a normal thing for Polish men to say I LOVE YOU, after just a week? we might have been together every bit of the day, (had 2 weeks off work), it usual takes me a year, and guys here between 3-9 weeks before they come out with I Love You. He says it all the time, which I find this annoying, I've told him you can't possiable love me this quick, especially as you don't know me. Everytime I seem to ask him a question he doesn't want to answer or know how to, he smiles, grabs me and strokes my hair and tells me he loves me...???

Does he think this is what English girls like to hear all the time ?

Anyways coming end of the month I'll book the ticket to Poland, and i can't imagine him being angry about it, and his mum will be really happy, and I can have a great time wondering around Przemysl. Are there plenty of pubs dotted around, and how would it be a woman by her-self walking in. Do they sell a meter of beer there :)

Any advice of places I can go. Also although i speak french, Farsi, a bit of German and Arabic, I can't seem to get my head around, or my tongue around the Polish language. I have even got my-self a translator so when i'm at work i can type in some words to learn, but I'm finding it hard to pronounce the words, and on the internet they say the words too fast, and I've been told I sound Italian when I try to speak polish. My question is, if i try to speak Polish, via using my very limited word translator, and phrase book, and say things wrong, (which i'll obviously will!), will that offend people?? Is it best if i just keep my mouth shut and just nod and point and look stupid?
bita4u   
18 Oct 2011
Love / Help me understand the different mannerisms and mentality of men in Przemysl area! [28]

Oh my gosh, lots of angry people. I wasn't refering to none of that above, sorry guys.

I didn't write what I was thinking at the time, and I have just re-read what I've written.

In my head I was ONLY refering to the period of time when the British and Russians were HELPING the Polish over but ended up dying because of the food and hygiene that was given to them. It was only refering to that ONE incident when they were entering Iran, with the help of the British !!

**** I really ought to have read my script before sending it out there, sorry but it was late and it was rushed, I should have explained FULLY, if at all !!

I know my WW history and I had no intention of upsetting anyone, I have full respect and have been to MANY memorials, in England and France. Sorry for not explaining my-self. I have none of those horriable things said about me, in my heart, honestly

But Thank-you all for your lovely, kind, understanding words. so much love xxxx

Gosh you are one angry person.

I miswrote something. I was thinking of one particular story in my head, but not writtng it down!! I was only referring to one incident, and that was on the arrivals of the Polish into Iran, that's all.

I didn't realise EVERY little comment would be digested and pulled out of proportion. You sound like a woman. Oh my God.. I must not like woman !!??

I'm being sarcastic by the way. Perhaps you should take up sport instead of fuming out hate!!

I just didn't explain my-self better.

Also you have NO idea of the history of Iran, besides the propaganda snipets you've read.

Read the MIRROR or Daily Mail by any chance????

The above comments are for ISTHATUZ. No I am not a asylum seeker, my father worked hard, and all my family work hard!!
bita4u   
13 Oct 2011
Love / Help me understand the different mannerisms and mentality of men in Przemysl area! [28]

what are families in rural Przemysl like?

In the past two months I've met a lovely Polish guy from Przemysl, from a small town. He has talked about wanting to go and visit his family and how much he misses it there. I want to take him there as I don't think he has any money. The only problem is I'm originally from Tehran, of middle eastern descent, and I don't know how his family would feel towards me. Although I might add that whilst looking up Polish history etc. I found out that during the war Tehran helped thousands of Polish people (unlike the british and russia), so that's a good thing, but I don't wish to make my Polish guy embarrassed or anything.

Also I want to know what the mentality of men are like in that area, as I sometimes think he lies to me but I can't tell,(I always know when English people are lying to me, but completely hopeless on all others). I have LOADS of questions to ask, and I don't have anyone here to help, and he doesn't seem to understand a lot of what I say, but he is learning fast :) Please help me understand the different mannerisms, as I have gotten cross with him a few times and then find out later how upset he's gotten over it, he feels sorry, I feel sorry, over what I HOPE is miss communacation- (otherwise he's a good actor and a liar :(, please help as I have been hurt very badly in the past.

Thank-you