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I sat with a screwed up face after a while and told her I was getting jealous while he was away from us. she told me not to worry, he is just friend and shes out with me. basically I ****** up in my reaction but the other two are not without blame.

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midas you been like s big brother to me, giving great advice all along

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haha, I treat a girl like a queen and you guys want ti crucify me. I treat a girl like a hoe and you still want to.

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skysoulmate, I regret that anyway and would never enter a relationship with a girl who slept with me on the first night. that is why I dont even take her number whereas the other girl I would happily of waited aslong as she wanted because I believed her to be worth it.

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its ok, I will just play around until I can find another diamond like this one.

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I tried to hint for her to tell him to go but maybe want direct enough. she has told me she doesnt want to date me any more so there you go, done.

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I'm trying bro, I had a one night stand on Saturday and woke up thinking about this other chick, I don't know how she has infected my mind so much!

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Thank you all for your replies both supportive and critical, I think it has helped me to gain a balanced perspective on the situation. I think in different ways, all three parties did things that were wrong. The guy should have known better than to come and interrupt, she should have made it clear to him that we were out on a date and he could join us for a drink maybe but that should have been it and I should have raised my concerns with her then either she could have asked him for some privacy or I could have left. I would love this girl to give me another shot, but I think it's abundantly clear that is not going to happen.

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OK guys, I think I'm gonna sign out now, but I will come back with an update next weekend.

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Brutal assessment @plgrl
It's more ego damage at this stage than anything, your right if had got more down the line it could have been more messy, I've been through a custody case with mother of my child and all sorts over the last 3/4 years, so not much can really upset me with chicks @Wroclaw Boy

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He did seem to give a fairly decent assessment of the situation @plgrl

This forum is so addictive...

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I think you misinterpret me, I don't mind girls having male friends, I wouldn't even mind him staying for a drink but two hours nah mate, I'm not having it. When I take a chick out, I do not consider her fair game and would normally have reacted a lot quicker, so don't give me this no claims thing. If she told me look I don't think we are going anywhere I would have been disappointed but accepted graciously. @ZIMMY

Fully agree with you, I got carried away on how I was feeling and she seemed to be keen on how things were going till this point. Will not make this mistake again. @Wroclaw Boy

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I thought this was my a game haha, but maybe I got too sucked in by her apparent kindness and thought she would appreciate the manners etc. The old saying treat em mean is true. @midas

Not love my friend but was very interested, I'm used to having pretty girls though, it's nothing to me. She really seemed to have the nicest personality until this @SeanusThreads

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I've googled that word boor now, you should stop chucking it around so freely @grubas

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He got up and walked off as soon as she arrived back at the table, I was just moving back to my seat because I sat beside him to ensure he understood what I meant, he actually tried to half threaten me. Tried to say he was house mates with the bouncer, but I honestly couldn't care less who he is friends with. She asked me why he left and I was honest with her, she went mental and to be fair, yes I was slightly aggressive when telling her if she comes out with me, shes out with me not her friends. @zimmy

I agree, it is not ideal for a date, but after leaving bowling she wasn't hungry and neither of us were ready to go home so we decided on drinking. Maybe I shouldn't have said anything to the guy but I thought I'd made it clear to her I didn't want him around with looks etc. He knew what he was doing I think in hindsight, at the time I just thought he was a chump. @plggrl

Maybe she did like him better, I don't think he is better looking, more intelligent, would treat her better or has a better job but they have more common interests @wroclaw boy

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You have to understand that I'm only like that with chicks that I see something special in and to be honest the only one who I've been like that so quick with other than this chick - is the mother of my child and that didn't go too well either. I'm not like some hopeless romantic, just thought there was something about this chick, guess there was she was as midas put it a "polish princess". @isthatu2

I actually stopped drinking and don't drink pints either, last thing I want is a drink when I'm annoyed, I want whatever is annoying me to stop! @Wroclaw

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I think I will ignore her until she gets in touch, but she will not get the special treatment from me again and will be just like any other chick I've dealt with since I split with the mother of my child and maybe in another 3 years something else will catch my eye that I think is worth putting some effort into @midas

Thank you guys for all your time and thoughts, if I don't keep in touch with this chick I'll probably have no reason to come here but you guys have been awesome.

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You are right, I was a chump. Walking off would have been the best thing and that would have had her either following me or on the phone within an hour. @isthatus2

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The guy does work in a factory with a lot of polish people so you could be on the money, to be honest I didn't even look at the chump as competition until this morning. It's ok, he said he goes in that bar regularly and so do I, he will be told in no uncertain terms next time I see him if that happens again I won't be telling him I don't appreciate his behaviour next time. I gotta give the guy credit I suppose, he tried his luck and seems to have worked but I won't have it again. And I wasn't specifically looking for some polish p&%^y, there would be much easier ways to get that than treating this girl so good. @midas

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But then she went mental at me when I did, normally I would have told the guy to f&*k off, but she is such a nice girl, I wanted to impress and missed the mark. @seanus

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Life is one long lesson, although I'm not sure what to take from this one yet, what do you see as some of the things I can learn? I try to be as reflective as I can be, but all I can get from this is I shouldn't have gone to that bar, but I'm sure there are other things. @seanus

I'm from yorkshire myself and to be honest am anything but meek. Problem is, in trying to perhaps impress this chick by not reacting to this guy to begin with - I did the opposite and got myself wound up by his presence @Isthatu2

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She told me she would phone me today, I sent an email this morning to explain my point of view as I feel she didn't listen yesterday when she was angry, also we were drunk and have a different first language. If she rings today - great, if not I will consider the matter closed. @seanus

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I don't normally get like this about chicks to be honest - normally I don't give a f&*k but this one is different, I can't tell you why. Please don't try to pigeon hole me into some stereotype. @isthatus2

I am pretty blunt to be honest and maybe that does come of as abrasive. I find southern people to be maybe a bit more tactful. @seanus

To be honest some of what you guys are saying is probably right, my last relationship was pretty f&%ked up and this the first time I've considered a relationship other than very casual for 3 years

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If I hadn't got so into her too quickly I could have played it cooler, its my fault for liking her too much - I normally don't do this @grubas

That's pretty damning of polish girls @southern
I know what your saying, I was a sloppy sucker @seanus
I think in reality I should have just got up and said you too seem more interested in each other, bye. Oh well never mind, she still not been in touch - not looking promising. I let myself get too angry and then didn't consider the effects of my communication.

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I'm developer, so it's in my nature to be both pedantic and anal ;) Although the guy himself was an English guy, so he should have known better in my opinion @seanus

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If there were no rules I would have broken his jaw @grubas

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Thank you for attempting to understand my point of view, I was not trying to be an arsehole - precisely the opposite and feel like I got stung for it. I'm used to strong minded women, the mother of my child is half caribbean half scottish. Also thank you for answering my question, that yes this can be normal @ Seanus

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I did try - trust me, I tolerated him for more than 2 hours before this point, but he was just continually focusing on talking to her, really though she is beautiful but it is not just that she has something special about her, got me whipped without even trying and I don't fall for chicks easy @smurf

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I guess I find out if she gets in touch later today or not, I wasn't saying the fact I really like her means it is the basis of a solid relationship more trying to explain the insecurity you pointed out @grubas

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haha, OK thats your opinion. @skysoulmate
Maybe I am a little possessive but when a woman is with me I treat her like a queen and maybe I am a little insecure about this girl, I really like her @grubas