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All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]
She would blow hot then be as cold as ice, and in the beginning they call it the honeymoon period this honeymoon lasted two to three weeks. Now don’t misunderstand me I know I’m a guy so like and having sex as much as possible comes with the territory so when she cut sex down to maybe once or twice a week it started to make me wonder if she’s not giving it to me who is she giving too?
I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!
So I put it this way, the day I don’t want to have sex with you is the day to worry about because if I’m not giving it to you I’m doing someone else. That’s was one or two little things that started the chain reaction down wards. Now when we had spilt up fist time see saw me with other women and according to her she didn’t like it made her jealous, which was not my aim to do that, it made her even more jealous when her friend started to become friendly now her friend managed to break us up in the first place, but in fairness I had more conversation with her than I did with my ex. So this made her do something about it and this came the second try, now up to the point of us getting back to together she would say things like I don’t want to loose you, you mean so much to me etc and things like that!
All the way though both parts of our relationship she really didn’t act like a girlfriend should act, I spoke to several different people and quite a few women and they all said the same thing it was not normal behavior. But when you’re in love you get blinded and don’t listen to what people say. Part of us getting back together was I had to prove myself to her! (How?) She didn’t know! But some of it was not to get jealous in I was proved myself time again not to have. Before I took her to the airport we managed to have an argument about her flirting with mine and her boss, I’m sure that he said something to her about giving him a blow job! Now Ive known this guy for 10 yrs so I was a little bit pissed off that he would make such a remark, but she took as a joke. Anyway got her to the airport so it was two weeks with out her, now this is where it went very strange! I wouldn’t hear from her as much as you would expect a so called girlfriend do contact you, she would never tell me that she is missing me but she would say that she loves me. It was her birthday while she was away and for some strange reason she won’t give me a address to where she was, it was because she thought I would turn up there! Now I’ve spoke to women about this and they said it would be romantic if their partner just turned up out of the blue. But she said she wouldn’t know what to say or do if I turned up there! Which again made me think what is she hiding.
Anyway she came back to the UK and I had to talk to her to find out what the situation was between us, she said we were a couple which I was happy about. It was then a couple of days later when I saw her and she wasn’t speaking to me so when I asked her what the problem was she said it was nothing. Then later when I jokingly suggested getting married she turned around and said that someone had already told her we were engaged!, and when I asked who said it she wouldn’t tell me, now I wouldn’t have gone up to the twat who said this and told him that. The bottom line is she took there word over mine and didn’t ask me why I would say that! So we ended up talking again and that’s when she told me that she really didn’t love me and didn’t like being with me and any other nasty thing she could think of. She came close to get a smack in the mouth that night even when she said she was pregnant and I would have nothing to do the it. We parted on a bad note it was only the next day when I got a text from her saying she was sorry about last night and hope I was ok and to have a good day. So when I rang her to find if I was speaking to the right person I said what you sorry for? You know what she said! It was for slamming my car door and nothing else!
So I fu*ked off for a couple of days to get away from it all a couple of days later I get a text from her asking me for all the things she still had at my house back even the things we bought together. So when I spoke to her she told that she had been in hospital for a few days, what for I asked!, its not to do with you it not your problem we are strangers now. So why did you tell me that you have been in hospital, no reply, then she said because you so far away it would have been nice for you to here.
So I left it at that, while I was I spoke to some friends saying having a good time etc! when I returned I got a phone call from her, she was going mad at me because people kept asking her had she heard from me! She was pissed off at me because these people knew more about where I was and what I was doing than she did! ( I Know!)
So she said well if you can go away so can I, which she didn’t she moved house and in to a house full of polish guys. Then rang me up on the weekend telling me that she was in love with one of them and asking me what should she do?
Is that normal behavior!
A word of warning if you come to Cheltenham and you meet a polish women call ania run for you life, that is one crazy arsed b*tch
