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Should I still go to my Polish ex boyfriends parents house for Christmas? [13]
I would still go and in fact, I would try again with the relationship...
I'm 27-years-old and my wife and I have been married for 10 years. I'm still immature, but only with my wife. I like putting a smile on her face with a little childish play. At first, she hated the way I acted and would remind me everyday of how annoying I was. However, she got used to my personality over the years and even-though I'm much older now and want to act more maturely, she can't live without my silly sense of humor. We have a 4-year-old daughter together who has my sense of humor, and my wife is perfectly fine with it. As a result of an ongoing "immature" relationship, we are happy, worry and stress free. We understand and respect each other for who we are. We are well mannered and appropriate in public, but at home, we are ourselves and enjoy every moment.
Give your partner a chance (6 months- 1 year at least), so you can really get to know each other. It's not easy going from partner to partner in search of that "perfect one", because in reality, that's really hard to accomplish. If my wife hadn't given me the chance "way back when", we wouldn't have been so happy and full of life today. Give it a try and good luck! :)
Note: If immaturity is the only problem, then give it a chance, you might be thankful for it in the future. If it's a drug, alcohol, gambling, violent or cheating problem, then that would be a different story and you would have no choice but to move on.
"Your choices. Your decisions. Your life."
Good Luck!
Jay
