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h0mefry   
20 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Give the guy a ******* break, he just wants to party with his gf and get laid, is that too much to ask?

Amen brotha...amen;)

Yeah I mean I'm 18 years old... freshman in college... I'm not going to move to freaking Poland right now. And besides... we're not dating right now anyway until she gets here.
h0mefry   
20 Feb 2011
Love / Advice Please! Meeting my Polish boyfriend's parents!! Gifts, customs... [105]

I used to date a polish girl from southern poland also. I also remember meeting her parents for the first time.

I got her dad a bottle of vodka and her mom some flowers as a gesture for letting me stay in the house. Just be polite and confident. Offer to go to the pub with her dad and play some billiards or something. You will have to drink vodka... just get over it. Give her dad a firm handshake and look him in the eye, you can do the weird polish alternating cheek kiss thing if you want with her mom.

Also if her mom is anything like my ex's mom... she'll ask you if you are hungry every 5 minutes. Just eat, it makes them happy.
h0mefry   
15 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

I have two friends who are married and who lived nearly 7000 miles apart. Last I checked, neither of them are having sex with anyone else.

Really man you're being really judgmental... I only made out with a girl at a party when I was drunk. We're 18 years old now... cmon... expect me to pack all of my crap and move to Poland?

And you're wrong, that's not the way she is, but I'm not going to argue with you via polish forums.
h0mefry   
14 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Aren't you the gentleman?

No wonder you were unwilling to move here.

That's is not the problem. Don't judge me, we mean a lot to each other. Long distance relationships just don't work, as evidenced by the fact that we BOTH cheated on each other.

And she wouldn't let me move there. I'm pursuing an engineering degree at Virginia Tech. I mentioned it to her, and she was appalled. She wants to go to a college in the US close to me, even after all of this.
h0mefry   
12 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

He got dumped already, so that plan is out of the window.

Actually, you're wrong. Remember my posts asking for translations? My fears were correct, she cheated on me.

I broke up with her because of this. But in a way I can see why, she was lonely. We've been doing this for a year, it's just been too much now. As matter of fact, i cheated on her once too and never told her.

I've learned that long distance relationships just don't work. But she is still coming in the summer to see me, she got a 10 year visa.
h0mefry   
9 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / Info about USA VISA. Applying for a US visa, in Warsaw [4]

Specific travel plans mean you have exact plans for what you are going to do while you are in America. So for example, if you wanted to stay in Florida at the beach for a week, you would show the US consular your hotel reservation for exactly that. You basically just need to show the person what you will be doing in Poland so he knows you are there for holiday, not to stay.

By personal ties to Poland, I mean you need to show them that you have a stable job, family, life in Poland as a reason to return after your visit to America. You have to prove to them that these things will cause you to return and not stay illegally.
h0mefry   
9 Feb 2011
USA, Canada / Info about USA VISA. Applying for a US visa, in Warsaw [4]

I'd assume you are applying for a tourist visa?

Tourist visa is one of the hardest to get. You have to have proof that you are actually going there for enjoyment and not trying to immigrate illegally or for work. You are basically guilty until proven innocent.

I'm not familiar with Warsaw, but my girlfriend at the time was applying for a tourist visa in Krakow.

What you need is specific travel plans to be the most convincing. They also take into account your age, your personal ties to Poland, and your financial standing. If you are young, poor, and have no reason to stay in Poland, you will defiantly be denied a visa.

However, if you show that you are just looking for a vacation and some sight-seeing, they will be happy to give you a visa. My ex-girlfriend was a student, so she had definite reason to return to Poland. She was issued visa that won't expire for 10 years.

She's still coming to visit me this summer, but the distance was too hard on our relationship =/

Other things:

you have to apply for your visa online which is then submitted to the US consular in that particular city. Then you will have to make an appointment to go meet with them. You have to pay for this ahead of time and I'm pretty sure it costs about 300 zl. Speaking english if you do so fluently is a very good idea when you meet with the person. It could take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months to get an appointment, so make sure and schedule plenty ahead of time.
h0mefry   
3 Feb 2011
Law / Question about the drinking laws of Poland. [45]

Poland is very relaxed about enforcing drinking. I was actually kind of disappointed when I went after turning 18, because I was looking forward to getting ID'd legally. I never got ID'd once.
h0mefry   
26 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Yeah I'm going to a really big out-of-state school though, and I didn't qualify for any financial aid.. including loans. I'm sure I could get student loans outside of the college itself.. but at 30k per year in tuition/room/board I'd rather not be 120k in debt coming out of college.

My parents can only afford 10k per year, but fortunately enough for me my grandma contributes the rest.

And thank you for the input about her visa. I'm worried because she doesn't already have plans booked as proof of her intentions, after all, why spend money on an expensive plane ticket when you don't even know if you get to go?
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

No-one is going to hire a very young American to teach in Poland over the summer - so forget about that. There's precious few jobs as it is - it's highly unlikely that you'll find such a thing.

I thought I read somewhere that private schools would be very willing to hire native english speakers even with no teaching experience because of the need for people of native tongue? Even if it's for lousy pay and crappy hours, it would suffice.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Incidentally, I'd say that it might not be so clear cut in your situation that she'll get a visa. With no commitments in Poland and rich parents to bail her out, she might very well overstay her visa - especially if she has no fixed plans in Poland.

Her commitment is to return to school and finish her LAST year of highschool? Isn't that a pretty huge commitment?

And she returned 3 months before her student visa expired last time.

Although I am thinking about possibly getting a job teaching english in poland for the summer if the visa doesn't pass.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Do you know the cost of college? I don't think you would seeing as how you would never be smart enough to go. My parents pull 6 figures a year, meaning that I qualify for NO financial aid. That means that everything that is paid has to be straight cash, no loans, no nothing.

Even my parents, upper-middle class can't afford that kind of out of state tuition. Everyone needs financial aid for college, you ignorant fool.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

I don't care what they think as long as I am getting my unemployment check every week.

You know what you are pathetic. You make me so angry, because it is people like you that are the exact reason why Poland still doesn't have a visa waiver. And because of people like you that I have to be in this position that could affect the rest of my life. Do you think I want the decision of whether or not I get to see the girl I'm in love with up to a cranky U.S. consular? Way to go jerk off. I hope you get deported.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Agreed. Personally I think that the US consular should switch that guy and my girlfriend. She will at least have the decency to work when we apply for a fiance visa in a few years.

Speaking of which, by applying for a fiance visa and getting married, would she qualify for financial aid at a US college with a green card?
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

Why don't you send her $140 (you know they are very poor over there, $140 is like 2 months average salary) so she can apply for a visa? And you will soon find out what her chances are.Cheaper than spending thousends to fly there and back.

Um actually her family is upper class in poland... and would be considered upper-middle class in America. Her dad OWNS an advertisement company which is large enough that it has American investors, and her mom has an important position in another world-wide company. If i had to guess... they're easily pulling 6 figures per year. They own 2 houses.

So lets not make assumptions here. I'm sure you're bitter and angry about something.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

IF you really like this girl and see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, marry her, problem solved.

The problem is, we're only 18 and she still has a year of highschool left for christ's sake. If her visa gets denied this will create serious problems. I've already been to Poland twice and it just costs a lot of money to keep going there... thousands. Like i said i'm a student in college and only 18.
h0mefry   
25 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

grubas

Where do you draw your conclusion from? Do you really think she's going to drop out of school 1 year before finishing to go work illegally on a farm in the US?

I already stated that she had a visa before and she returned 3 months before it expired. Don't you think some trust will have been built?
h0mefry   
21 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

I hope so. I really hope so. Thank you.

Merged thread:
Chances of my polish girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa?

My girlfriend and I met when we were 17 years old. She was a foreign exchange student in my highschool and I was a senior in highschool. I graduated and she went back to Poland to finish her school. We are now 18 years old and because of the year in America she still has the rest of this year and then another year of school left.

She still lives in home with her parents and has very strong ties to her home, seeing as she is still dependent on them. She still has one year of school so in order to finish school she needs to return to poland. She is a really good student and she has already proven herself trustworthy by returning to Poland well before her first student visa expired. Her plans are to come and visit me, some friends, and her former host family. She wishes to stay for 3 months during the summer and then return in time to go back to school.

Based off of this information, what are the chances that the USA consular in Krakow will decide to issue her a 3 month tourist visa?
h0mefry   
20 Jan 2011
USA, Canada / What are the odds of my girlfriend getting a USA tourist visa? [70]

I met my girlfriend in the USA my senior year of highschool when we were 17. She was a foreign exchange student for the school year and had a student visa. She stayed for 10 months and returned to Poland well before her visa expired.

Now we are both 18. She is still in school, and has this year and one more year of highschool left before she graduates because she had to retake the year she spent in the USA. This means that she has definate obligations to return to Poland and finish her school. She has good grades and lives with her parents and will continue to do so for the next year also.

She wants to get a tourist visa to come see me and some other friends for the summer. I've been to Poland twice since she went home, now she wants to come here for 3 months and then return home. She has no intention of staying illegally and has already proven herself trustworthy by respecting her previous visa.

How likely is it that she will be issued a visa? Based on the information provided, what are the chances that the U.S. Consular in Krakow will rule in her favor?