Love / Are Polish Women cold and aloof? [249]

Based purely on my limited personal experience, most of the Polish women I've met are attractive. But boy do they know it!

And - again based only on my limited sample - their apparent friendliness is more often than not affected. I think they actually look down on British people, and have come to believe that they are superior. Mind you, I'm having terrible problems with my Polish partner, so take everything I say with a pinch of salt, bearing in mind that I'm probably pretty biased right now.

I'm guessing there's a whole world out there of extremely pleasant, balanced, non-manipulative Polish women - I just haven't met any.

Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]

Hi, Shekofte

My friend, you seem like a very pleasant guy, and clearly romantic in your approach to women. Speaking as someone a little older - and I hate to sound overly cynical - this sounds like a far-away dream which (sorry) is very unlikely to come true.

Being honest, you are more likely simply to walk around the corner one day and bump into your future love; or you may meet her through work, hobbies, interests, even shopping in the supermarket.

The internet seems wonderful, and it's easy to become fascinated with a pretty picture, but face the truth: what are the chances? I apologise for being straight with you, but please, don't lose any sleep over this.

Love / Met this gorgeous Polish lady [27]

My advice is - be careful. Many of these Polish girls are, as you say, 'gorgeous'. But remember, if it looks too good to be true...

My own experience, coupled with much anecdotal evidence, suggests that these shiny apple Polish girls are often rotten inside. They have learned the power of their looks over us blokes and turn it to their advantage. You may have been lucky this time - and I do hope so - but watch for the tell-tale signs: prying into everything you do, using emotional blackmail to get her own way, making you jealous with other guys...JUST BE CAREFUL!