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15 Feb 2013
Love / Why a polish girl would prefer a relationship with a foreign man? [30]
I still don't have a clear opinion about the topic we discuss here. I think it like an investigation.
Nobody told that polish men are not that 'good'.
Nobody told that polish women desperately seeks a foreigner for relationship.
Is that clear?
I just say that in every nation, some women, and men also, seek their match, in other nationalities. This happens for several reasons I think. Not just because of the attraction of a 'new'/stranger person. Such a simplistic approach seems silly to me.
Let me mention here, an example, it is just an example. I have some friends of mine in Russia, and this thing happens there for sure. So, there in russia, there are: 1) many areas that for historic reasons have many women and far less men, 2) there are areas that russian men drink a lot, and this have many negative consequences in any relationship with women, 3) there are lots of russian areas that men have not good manners, generally speaking, so an eclectic women will find them uncouth. 4) some women would like to live in warmer climate areas (think of Siberia for example) 5) and so on...(the catalog of reasons goes on...)
So, there are specific reasons for many areas there in russia, that women do prefer a foreigner for a long term relationship, instead of choosing a local guy.
Do you get it?
Nobody told a bad thing either for polish women or men. This is not the case.
And please, I do not want anybody to feel any offense, because there is not any blame for anybody.
We just discuss, we just want to find out.
If a woman do not look at me, there is no problem, we just don't match. It does not mean that I am an awful guy! I reject women too, we cannot force a relationship to exist! So, no problem! Sometimes we reject, sometimes we accept! This is the love game.
All I asked here, is it to find out, why a polish women would prefer a foreign guy to make a relationship.
I said about the russia example. No money reasons, no 'prestige' reasons, nothing common. Although I can understand that there are women who fall in the very useful catalog APF posted above.
It is just the russian reality, as some russian women feel it.
Maybe there are other social reasons in Poland, that make some women to look for a foreigner to be together.
I don't know if the polish men know such reasons or if they want to contribute here, maybe polish women here in this topic could help us better with their opinions, based on what they know from themselves or other friends they have.
I still don't have a clear opinion about the topic we discuss here. I think it like an investigation.
Nobody told that polish men are not that 'good'.
Nobody told that polish women desperately seeks a foreigner for relationship.
Is that clear?
I just say that in every nation, some women, and men also, seek their match, in other nationalities. This happens for several reasons I think. Not just because of the attraction of a 'new'/stranger person. Such a simplistic approach seems silly to me.
Let me mention here, an example, it is just an example. I have some friends of mine in Russia, and this thing happens there for sure. So, there in russia, there are: 1) many areas that for historic reasons have many women and far less men, 2) there are areas that russian men drink a lot, and this have many negative consequences in any relationship with women, 3) there are lots of russian areas that men have not good manners, generally speaking, so an eclectic women will find them uncouth. 4) some women would like to live in warmer climate areas (think of Siberia for example) 5) and so on...(the catalog of reasons goes on...)
So, there are specific reasons for many areas there in russia, that women do prefer a foreigner for a long term relationship, instead of choosing a local guy.
Do you get it?
Nobody told a bad thing either for polish women or men. This is not the case.
And please, I do not want anybody to feel any offense, because there is not any blame for anybody.
We just discuss, we just want to find out.
If a woman do not look at me, there is no problem, we just don't match. It does not mean that I am an awful guy! I reject women too, we cannot force a relationship to exist! So, no problem! Sometimes we reject, sometimes we accept! This is the love game.
All I asked here, is it to find out, why a polish women would prefer a foreign guy to make a relationship.
I said about the russia example. No money reasons, no 'prestige' reasons, nothing common. Although I can understand that there are women who fall in the very useful catalog APF posted above.
It is just the russian reality, as some russian women feel it.
Maybe there are other social reasons in Poland, that make some women to look for a foreigner to be together.
I don't know if the polish men know such reasons or if they want to contribute here, maybe polish women here in this topic could help us better with their opinions, based on what they know from themselves or other friends they have.