Love / Polish girls, how are they when they are in love? [86]

@ nomaderol,

No she does not have a boyfriend... If she did have one it would be much easy for me... the whole her - I don't know even what to call it - acting stuff is strange.

She even did "force" or "introduced" her mother to me via nasza-klasa ... the other day, mom did several times "spy" around.

Imagine if you look now back on everything an you try to put the puzzle toghether something is worng.

We are talking about a girl who is educated, making her master and so on.

Just the fact, what she told me to be her biography and where she have been to study and so on can't fit together unless we go back to 1998 and start there but hen she would be now 32 not 26.

For me it seems that the family is total break up tragedy... mom dad on each side, the brothers are far away, no contact at all, ... I have no idea what kind of trouble person I did meet. The fact is that someting somewhere is wrong.

The other day at a party a Polish girl who also is studying here aproach me and said like -"hey you must be XY-- well I have heard about you" --- I had eyes like windows! -"she kind of gave me advise to just show up at her place for Christmas" Because after Polish traditions, you always make one plate extra for unexpected guests.

I guess I got myself some personality that is simply strange.

Love / Polish girls, how are they when they are in love? [86]

Well I never expected or dream at all in my life to meet a Polish girl like the one I did.

Acctualy everuthing was going well bit too fast, but mainly from her side. She did spend as much as possible time with me, staying at my place and so on.

Maybe my behavior was not okay, because when she aske would I like to walk her home (just 200m form my place) I did hand in hand. We did go out to eat, cinema and so on... I did enjoy it. She did kind of force me to learn Polish well no big deal : ) my mother language is not that difficult form Polish. Making planes and so on. And one day I did make small lie to her, about a diagram that I said I did draw it but I didn't - just a reason to se her. Somehow she did find it out that it was a lie. Now she can't come over it. But what she is doing now is fra beyonde what you can expect.

I get e-mails with contradictions on contradiction. Every 2nd week she has a "new boyfriend"... she did aslo act with one of her friends that he was her boyfriend in formt of me out in the city and she was crying next to him. Later she wrote to me like it was just acting to se my behaviour... I was calm and cool I did tell the guy well you not the only one (when I saw him later on my own). She writes to me that she is bored to talk about us to her friends all the time, but I don't know any of her friends. And the best thing is or at least that dosen't give me any logic - sorry I might be worng - her mother is soon to be 60, the oldest son is around 36, and she tells me that she has a younger brother age 12. By all respect I can't believe that. She writes sometimes I hate you, then I don't hate you. She has no interest to se me ever, but then well later like I would. I feel sometimes what ever she tells me it is something between honesty and lies.

I am not making a generalisation, but this is too strange. Sounds like is she is 16, but no she is 26.

I ask myself what did I do worng or what is worng with her. Yes she know how much I love her...

That's my experiance with a Polish girl.
PS; I still love her. I guess I am stupid after all - at least my sister and brother do say that.