Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

6 - Polish men don't shower as often

I have to say , that this is sadly TRUE. I'm dating a Polish guy who might not have all those bad characteristics listed above BUT he definitely doesn't shower as often and it really irritates me. I personally like to shower once or even twice a day, but I think he does it once or twice a week. Actually I don't know what to do about it, we've just started dating and it was the first thing I didn't like, I don't know what to do, specially because is the beginning of the relation and I don't feel comfortable neither suggesting nor standing it. Other thing I don't enjoy is his poor sense of fashion. I don't want a fashionable man, but he doesn't care much about his appearance (things like black pants, black shoes and WHITE SOCKS!!!!!!), also his entire wardrobe is from the early 90's!!!!!!. I could stand the clothing but the every day shower?????...... I don't know what to do. If anyone has any suggestions, please help me!!! I really like him, he is nice, he treats me well, pays for everything, he is not stupid, he is an intelligent man, he is got a profession back from Poland, he is a man with feelings and good sense of humour. I really can see a lot of potential and good things I really like from him; but the poor interest on his appearance turn me off, specially because it's one of the most important aspects from myself I always take care of . WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't want to let him go because of that but I can't stand it either and I don't feel like saying or suggesting anything that is just common sense on any human being and also it's just the beginning of the relationship. He was a Doctor in Poland that's why I just can't get it. I thought all Polish were like that because to me, doesn't make sense being a doctor and not take care of your appearance, but after I read what you said I don't know what to think. PLEASE HEEEEEEELP

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I haven't met a man who thinks it's a great idea going shopping on the third date. Most men hate shopping malls, and he certainly is not really into that. Also, I don't want to seem to bossy by suggesting a new wardrobe. He may think I 'm one of those who want to change him right away, and men don't like that. Shelley you and me are women that's why, going shopping might seem the solution, but from a man point's of view....(specially at the beginning of the relationship) . Also it's not the right time to start buying things for him like clothing.


Then again it's not the right time to buy a perfume , and actually that won't solve the problem, I don't want him to be covered by perfume, I want him to shower everyday!!!

How can I tell him guys? I really like him but.... remember we been out for only 2 or 3 times.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]

Shelley and Sapphire !!!!

You two are terrible. You really made me laugh. How could you dare to do that to those lovely jeans. Next time I see him I'm gonna start to think about your tactics and if I start laughing for no reason (apparently) , it's gonna be all your fault!!!! (I'm gonna keep the iron in mind anyway)

Any other suggestions guys?


Grzegorz!! Cavalier is not here anymore!! Why you dont give me an advise. I want to know a man's point of view in regards my situation. You are a man so you can give me some advice.

Love / Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands? [418]


Go home and have a nap!!!!!, nobody needs you here loser!!!