Myself
29 Aug 2016
Love / Polish guy and courting? Confusion. [35]
dreamer girl, I have just mentioned we'r in UK, not London. UK...... I don't think it is important whether we live in Liverpool, Dover, London or Manchester.....
Thank you for your offering your standpoint on this :)
I see your point. Overall you are right. But when we look into individuals (the individuals that are beyond the sexual gender) there are not only black and white actions. There is grey as well. There are people who are not sure, there are people who are wounded, there are people who have their own peculiarity (which maybe is a better definition instead of "awkward". Yes I am in my 30s and don't you think there is a reason if I wrote here? If I was in a regular situation I would have had no need for this. So let's keep judgments on a side.... But yet thank you for your opinion..
I have put that into practice on the first time I met him).I think it was a very Good idea . He looked for it too. At the end I didn't feel too awkward
And... he offered me to go somewhere again :O
Overall, time will tell. But at least now I have got a bit more orientation....
@Paulina
Piazza San Marco in Venice.... I know what u mean. It happens to me when I visit Italy, because usually nobody thinks I am from there. Usually people think I am from east or north Europe and they start talking in English and doing exactly as you described. Ahahahahahha!
I grew up in myCountry but I emigrated quite long time ago.
UK is full of different cultures. My ex was from another part of Europe, but still Latin-ish.
I personally never felt comfortable with the "Venice approach"( the one you described). Sometimes those men can be very "alpha" in a bad way, this is why I never felt very attracted to people who show that way of doing. Too many bad experiences,u feel like a toy most part of the time and finding a guy who is interested in You is rare. Their woman is their mum.... They grow up with mothers who make them feel like kings, so why should they spend time approaching a woman who might let them feel like a jerk? I know 40yo men who still ask their mom before making a leap into something.
on the other side, Italian men are also used to women (not then us of course) who play a lot with them, without getting anywhere .. and this feeds their way of approaching you like this.
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dreamer girl, I have just mentioned we'r in UK, not London. UK...... I don't think it is important whether we live in Liverpool, Dover, London or Manchester.....
Thank you for your offering your standpoint on this :)
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I see your point. Overall you are right. But when we look into individuals (the individuals that are beyond the sexual gender) there are not only black and white actions. There is grey as well. There are people who are not sure, there are people who are wounded, there are people who have their own peculiarity (which maybe is a better definition instead of "awkward". Yes I am in my 30s and don't you think there is a reason if I wrote here? If I was in a regular situation I would have had no need for this. So let's keep judgments on a side.... But yet thank you for your opinion..
Use some body language - find some opportunities to touch him, like holding hands or... um... I don't know the name for this gesture in
I have put that into practice on the first time I met him).I think it was a very Good idea . He looked for it too. At the end I didn't feel too awkward
And... he offered me to go somewhere again :O
Overall, time will tell. But at least now I have got a bit more orientation....
@Paulina
Piazza San Marco in Venice.... I know what u mean. It happens to me when I visit Italy, because usually nobody thinks I am from there. Usually people think I am from east or north Europe and they start talking in English and doing exactly as you described. Ahahahahahha!
I grew up in myCountry but I emigrated quite long time ago.
UK is full of different cultures. My ex was from another part of Europe, but still Latin-ish.
I personally never felt comfortable with the "Venice approach"( the one you described). Sometimes those men can be very "alpha" in a bad way, this is why I never felt very attracted to people who show that way of doing. Too many bad experiences,u feel like a toy most part of the time and finding a guy who is interested in You is rare. Their woman is their mum.... They grow up with mothers who make them feel like kings, so why should they spend time approaching a woman who might let them feel like a jerk? I know 40yo men who still ask their mom before making a leap into something.
on the other side, Italian men are also used to women (not then us of course) who play a lot with them, without getting anywhere .. and this feeds their way of approaching you like this.