iwonadem
25 Jun 2016
Life / Poland after one year of living here [105]
Luke - I don't know if it is any help but I can tell you my experience from other side. I am polish and have been living in UK for a while. I think that you are making the same mistake as me at the beginning.... you compare too much. It does not help. I think as someone wrote you before you have to get more open and flexible, ready for changes... it is different country, different culture. I was exactly like you at the beginning I got fixated about finding friends and I struggled. It is strange as when I relaxed I got just myself ( bit bland in european manners but honest and witty) I seem to bond very well with British people.I changed my attitude but it also helped that I moved. I live now in vibrant ,university, touristic town. I think location is one of your problems. Is it any chance that you could move to Krakow? I suppose your wife is in her homeland close to her family so she can do this sacrifice and move to bigger town. I think you would be much happier there.
Small towns have their specifics - It is the same in Poland and in England. If you don't quite fit you will not be accepted....bit brutal true.
Probably by politeness :-)
I definitely prefer polish ones.
Luke - I don't know if it is any help but I can tell you my experience from other side. I am polish and have been living in UK for a while. I think that you are making the same mistake as me at the beginning.... you compare too much. It does not help. I think as someone wrote you before you have to get more open and flexible, ready for changes... it is different country, different culture. I was exactly like you at the beginning I got fixated about finding friends and I struggled. It is strange as when I relaxed I got just myself ( bit bland in european manners but honest and witty) I seem to bond very well with British people.I changed my attitude but it also helped that I moved. I live now in vibrant ,university, touristic town. I think location is one of your problems. Is it any chance that you could move to Krakow? I suppose your wife is in her homeland close to her family so she can do this sacrifice and move to bigger town. I think you would be much happier there.
Small towns have their specifics - It is the same in Poland and in England. If you don't quite fit you will not be accepted....bit brutal true.
English cakes are so much nicer than Polish I have to say and Poles seem to agree.
Probably by politeness :-)
I definitely prefer polish ones.