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Fluffypanda   
30 Mar 2016
Love / I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]

I am 30 years old, artistic, creative and just one big walking cuddle! I am a big softy and will never harm a fly and generally accepting of other cultures but I could do with a little help with getting to know new people from Poland! My last experience long time ago has been pretty bad and weird! My last man from Poland he was a bit of rat!! He was pretty cheap; behaviour wise and more! He was all over me like crazy full of I love you rubbish, wants to be a dad at 40 so badly, trying to get me pregnant, then I find out in the end he is linked to criminals, he has a polish girlfriend ( I found bank statements belonging to her! I also found lovely subtle love messages which suggests she knows what is happening, she is waiting to get into the UK the quick way whilst he goes around getting as many other UK women pregnant! I lasted less than a month with him!

I was absolutely disgusted! He was talking to me like a dog and treated me like rubbish after being all lovely and charming in the beginning! He was very cheap and expected me to give him money and I bought him food and little wine glasses, drinks and when I did buy him food he wastes it! He never even got me flowers or anything. He never made much effort to keep me happy, he really didn't care as long as he got what he wanted! One of the times I was there, I was crying and feeling really frustrated because he was neglecting me and dismissing me!

He was focusing on his drunken Scottish and polish male friends more so than me! He was cleaning his house 20 hours a day for two days which didn't need cleaning! Pretty excessive! I came over to his place in the belief we would go for romantic walks enjoy nice romantic dinner too and spend quality time. I was really really upset! I couldn't go home because there were no buses, I didn't have any money left because I spent it on his food and drink! He was a complete dick!

The best part? When I was crying and feeling upset, I told him nicely whilst crying, I feel neglected and dismissed and bored to tears! I have never felt like this with a man before! He started swearing and being very Irate! He showed aggressive behaviour, he slammed his fist down on the table and started screaming and shouting calling me a little bas tard! That kind of energy could be channeled into giving cuddles and love! Seeing that made think I will not put up with that! No way! What is he going to be like in the future? Already he showed signs of being controlling towards me in the last days with don't wear make up, don't drink, what are you doing and where are you why are you at the pub? Why are you eating at a hotel with friends?.....too much! . . . Any way! After he left the room in a huff, I found bank statements belonging to some polish girl on the window sill, then Facebook messages of other girls in a flirty manner and in the end, I found out more stuff too! He pretty much scared me! Oh too much! So I just played cool and then went away early in the morning! Then I blocked him!

So if your a cheap type guy! ( I mean behaviour wise and how you treat women!) Please! Get lost! Polish or not! Rich or poor! You just simply don't use me and hurt me!

I am a very kind girl, I don't cause fights, I don't fights with people! I am a peaceful and caring type it just hurts me a lot when I do a lot of caring, I get stamped on! I am not interested in those who claim to be part of the mafia and those just act like dicks! Please! Just get lost if your going to hurt me and take advantage of me! I am not the type that will harm a fly!

These bloody types like the guy I have mentioned give good polish people a hard time and it always takes a minority or individual to cause friction with other people, particularly here! I know people in the UK are a random bunch of good and bad! I understand there are people wanting a new life and so on. I am Scottish and I do realise there are good and bad every where! I do want to engage with polish people and I also want to learn the polish language and culture more! I have major problems trusting people! Because of idiots taking the monkeys out of my good nature!

I am a girl that likes to share things with good people! Caring is in my nature and I guess that comes from my family of nurses! He he!:) l have a big heart, I don't follow convention so much! I just do my own thing!

I like to travel, I like painting, drawing, cooking, learning new languages, trying out new things! :) holistic therapies, etc.

I don't drink a lot, I don't smoke tobacco! I do support legalisation of cannabis! Hint hint!:)

I just simply want to meet nice friendly caring loyal trustworthy people!:)

I would love a decent polish boyfriend! I don't want to be strung into false promises and hopes! I am a romantic type! Just don't want another repeat of bad nonsense! As I am a very soft hearted affectionate type, don't see this as a chance to play around with me! I am not the type that is into playing games!

I welcome new friends both male and female! I really don't like ****** two faced type women! Not my style! I like girls that are just nice and honest and friendly! I am a very very friendly, laid back, easy going girl!:)

I don't like violent people, I like open minded, intelligent, sweet, caring types!

Thank you for reading this! I hope you you understand that I am a genuine girl and very accepting to good natured genuine people! I know your all out there!
Fluffypanda   
1 Apr 2016
Love / I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]

Forgive me for ranting about my last idiot! I am just putting my foot down and having a good shout out! I am fed up with coming across charming people who turn into nonsense! No! It's about time I started standing up and spouting how I feel and think! Reading this some of you guys will have thoughts about oh another typical moaning girl who is thinking where are all the nice men? No not at all! I am one of nice girls just in the same boat as the nice guys who has been screwed around a lot!!

I just want a good man who can share things and I do the same! Not take take take and play the peasant card! Yeah he is a stone age man! At least thinks and acts like one! Lol

This man lives in a rough end of town on the outskirts of Glasgow... say no more! As for normal behaviour? My god! There is drinking then drinking to excess! Not to mention the mix of sectarian rubbish and spouting i r.A and mafia rubbish too and how they are all part of it! Followed by his peasant like mentality by treating and talking to a woman like rubbish!! I am really not the type of girl who is into all that nonsense! I am anti war, anti violence and really don't care about Irish politics and all the unionist / I .r.A stuff! Total bull in my view !..same with mafia stuff! I just don't want to be part of any rubbish and fall into that kind of rubbish!

Granted you get good and bad everywhere, I just want to meet good people and not be taken advantage of either! I don't own a crystal ball to tell the future! No one does! However, please! Just don't be a total horrible person to me and don't play me around either! Just because I am a softy and a kind girl does not mean take full advantage of me either!

I am not a rich lady! I am working class! I certainly have morals and decency about me! I am not a plastic snob either!

Thanks for the little cultural tips! Please keep them coming! I am interested and curious about polish culture and social culture and more! I want to meet good people and I am trying to accept people but I have problems trusting people! The last idiot? Oh! Pretty bad experience! People can come here work, claim benefits, etc. It's just that the last man was up to no good! He just saw me as an easy target and thought hey! I will just romance her, treat her like rubbish, try and get her pregnant, get what I can from the state, tell polish girlfriend hey I can help you get settled in the UK quicker! Baby pops, claim the child benefit, take it off her and probably other girls who are UK citizens that he has tried getting pregnant and does the same, gets UK citizenship from one of them ....The lovely polish lady gets settled and lives comfortable with the guy...fantastic scam! I just thought get out of this so called relationship and his rubbish behaviour? His aggressive manner? Get that to hell!

Love the last post up there about Ireland lol fantastic!

Love the post about the stone age man lol

Love all the posts here! Glad to hear people with a sense of humour! Well I realise that times change but we are still in the dark ages! Sadly lady here in the future is slammed down on psychiatric medicine, told by people your not right in the head what? Because I don't want to cause wars and love and cuddle and show world peace? but government in the us and UK are and stone age man from Poland is very normal? Maybe I should join them on their vodka sprees and go crazy!!!
Fluffypanda   
1 Apr 2016
Love / I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]

No but I love how you guys talk:) lol its comical:) to me it sounds like vampires on speed lol I don't know it's a cool accent!

Listen! I was being sarcastic about being on psychiatric medicine! I was meaning it literally because there seems too much bull in the world and too much idiots in the world hurting others and too many ending up being pointed out as sick in the head when really they are not! They are just people with souls that want a lover and good company! I am not on any and I don't have a mental problem!

I have dated many other people and I was once in a relationship with a polish man who I ended up being engaged too but sadly went missing years ago somewhere in Poland! That was around 7 years ago. He was a really nice guy!

I have dated many other guys from here and other countries. The chemistry and circumstances didn't work out. Some of them ended up being my friend.some ended up serious and turned into total nonsense and dumped me!
Fluffypanda   
1 Apr 2016
Love / I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha I love your post land of thunder! Ha ha ha ha

It made me giggle!

Hey Mr tamberine man! ..forgot the lyrics lol!

I am a wee short arse cuddly bear:) full of fluff inside:) oh well that's me bombed out! I got big Irish blue puppy dog eyes and feminine features! ... oh well! Lol that explains it! Lol
Fluffypanda   
1 Apr 2016
Love / I am a friendly wee bubbly soft hearted artistic scots lady come talk to me:) [23]

Well another stone age man will get stoned!!! Even better! I will use what the Colombians use on their victims! That special flower dust that makes peasants think everything is real and nice and will do anything for you!! they follow your instructions, they empty their bank accounts...oh this will be great to use on those who claim they have no money and treat women like rubbish!...then I get them to wine and dine me! :) buy me flowers and instruct them to leave and go home! The next day, they will not remember anything!

Excellent:)

Roz I love to get stoned! I am little hippy in a way so yeah:)
Fluffypanda   
1 Apr 2016
Love / Polish relationships with over seas ladies and men [2]

Alright! Can some one tell me about some cultural stuff about love and relationships social etiquette and so on? Your experiences with polish men and women and those who are polish what are your experiences with British girls and guys and other over seas girls and guys?

Also want to know what a traditional polish gentleman does for a woman in relationships? Same with modern polish gentleman relationships? What about the polish ladies? What are her roles in a relationship?