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Any English guys give me advice please. Are Polish women very different to English women? [46]
SMP Oct 22, 2012, 11:09am #29
I am in a relationship with a Polish girl after having been with an English girl.
Things started amazing with the Polish girl, she is beautiful, we did everything for each other ... but now our relationship is in tatters. Her moods swings are killer and she seems in constant conflict with herself about what she wants in life. She is torn between her love for me and then her desire to be free. Just a sip of alcohol turns her feelings against me every time and leads to massive arguments.
I can sympathise with the above comment from smp, I was until recently in a 11 year relationship with a Polish lady and we went through thick and thin. The big issues for me was a sip of alcohol and she turned into a living nightmare, culminating in broken bones and bruises, mine. I found that over time she had no idea what she wanted to do and no matter how much support it was never enough and it was ALWAYS my fault. I found her not interested in material things but again not interested in anything per say.
I would say I'm my particular situation ( this not being critical in all Polish women) that she had issues with a great deal of things English, by that I mean she ate like there was no tomorrow and just couldn't leave a cup of tea or a drink until it had all gone. She blamed this on her upbringing as her family were quite poor, she blamed the binge drinking on her parents break up and blamed her physically abusing me on her father hitting her mother.
So you see ladies and gentleman their are pros and cons about Polish / English women but it's all about the individuals f you get a good partner you can and want to share your whole life with and the highs and lows are not too big a swing then go for it and good luck