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Joined: 8 Mar 2015 / Female ♀
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Last Post: 10 Apr 2015
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From: London
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cipkathcheetah   
8 Mar 2015
Love / How many Polish men are Violent how much is domestic abuse reported. [129]

Merged: how do I do whatever, go wherever I want without him getting jealous and beating

Ive been with my bf for 4 years, he is polish/im black..

He wont let me do anything. I cant go to the shops or to my friends house without his following. He is constantly on my phone and is extremely paranoid and on top of that his friends tell him to beat me more and that its not enough, girl like this get taken very easy. I want to go to parties with my friends and dress sexy. He wants me to dress like a mother all the time and I cant be friends with unmarried girls. it can be a very violent relationship. Last week the police got called because he punched me in the eye and head cause i would not let him see my phone. When i was pregnant he dragged me on the street by my hair all the way home. He is not ashamed to make a scene. Im living in fear all the time because most of his friends here in london are against me. They are always watching me and tell him things about me thats got nothing to do with them. They will tell him i was on the street talking to men or that my dress was too short and breasts were showing. Im young i can dress how i want. So what if i talk to men, i like it. I cant get him to understand that. And there no argueing back as well, he just beats me and then go get drunk with his spy friends and come home and beats again. Sometimes its like walking on eggshells but i still love him and i can see he loves me too cause he works very hard to give me everything i want., we have a two year old daughter together. His friends and family in poland tries to protect us and give us advice. Here in the uk not really.
cipkathcheetah   
17 Mar 2015
Love / I feel like me and my Polish boyfriend dont have much of a love relationship. is this normal [18]

Im a black girl and me and him been together for four years with a baby girl. I feel like I cant talk to him about my feelings. And our relationship is all about work and him giving me money. I cant talk about my feelings cause to him as he says its ********. We dont do a lot of things together. He doesn't talk to me about deep things. He only talks to me if its domething important and serious. He kisses me and tells me he loves everyday before he goes to eork but I feel like I need something more and deeper much more often. We are like an old married couple. Im 23 and he is 34. We have polish friends who are a couple with 2 kids, tge girl is 24 and man 35. She complains to me about the same problem cause we sometimes drink together and ***** about the men. My man also do not want to drink with me but if his friends ask him to drink he will not think about twice. Sorry if I have any spelling mistakes, Im typing really fast. Im sure you ewill figure it out. Please help!
cipkathcheetah   
17 Mar 2015
Love / I feel like me and my Polish boyfriend dont have much of a love relationship. is this normal [18]

When I need your opinion on what my name is and if I should be posting on here or not I will ask you, no I didnt. Yes get a life if you are writting me just to tell me that im a troll then so are you. Raising my daughter in a voilent home is a life. Where is yours? And I have a job. Anyway isnt it a mans job to provide. You should go and do that and then you can talk. And this is a question for people who are experienced not amateur like you.
cipkathcheetah   
18 Mar 2015
Life / Why people from western European countries are ashamed to hang out with Polish emigrants [15]

Because they can see that you are too desperate to fit in with the citizens. You dont take enough pride in being Polish. You want to be Americans or British. And that is why. I have met a lot of Polish girls who change their accent when they're talking to me. Its sad its stupid and ashame and funny at times heheee. Im black btw.
cipkathcheetah   
18 Mar 2015
Life / Why people from western European countries are ashamed to hang out with Polish emigrants [15]

I'm not from America. American accent is not one of my favourite. I just think that everyone should be proud of who they are and how they speak, stop trying to impress other people. I love all accents and most English people do. I believe accents are beautiful its kinda part of your signature. I have a lovely polish friend named Anna her English is not very good but ill take her as a friend any day over all of these Polish English and American wannabes. And that is why they don't want to hang out with you. They are probably laughing at you behind your back and its not because of your accent. British people normally have long term foreign friends with very strong accents

I see this everyday in the environment that I work in.