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dancer7   
6 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

As far as I experienced Poland and Polish people, they tend to be very warm and friendly, interested in other cultures. Inviting you over for christmas, meeting his friends and family and telling you Polish are pretty much open to forneigers is a way of showing you his culture and a way of showing you who HE is. The chatting on a daily basis and willing to save up money to visit you in the near future may also indicate that he really likes you.
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Send you home? Do you mean; He brings you home/to your place? Anyway, you are in a privileged position because you can chat and figure things out before you show up at christmas, Im sure you can find a subtle way so things wont get awkward! I wish I was chatting with the Polish guy I like! Good luck!
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Is that you wrong name:)? My suggestion; learn a few Polish words and phrases, they love that, also reveals effort coming from you. And bring a little gift from your country for the host! Or a delicacy everyone can enjoy! When I came over to Poland for christmas, they really appriciated it!
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Understanding Polish men and when they are flirting [4]

Hey! Check my thread; How do guys from Poland flirt. I would keep your cards, and only kiss when you feel like it or want to, he seems he little pushy. As far as I know Polish men dont give compliments that easy, however thats just my observation, should vary from one person to another. He sure seems to like you, figure out to which extend though.
dancer7   
7 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

I brought some small souvenirs from Holland and Dutch cake, its was just a nice gesture. They were not into giving christmas presents to one another but I dont know how its done among other familys in Poland. Here in Holland it can vary. Christmas in Poland is a bigger thing when you compare with Holland, but we do find christmas the most important celebration of the year.
dancer7   
8 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

I travelled to Poland because Im of Polish/Jewish descent. I was curious about my roots, since there are no Polish tradtions left in our family. I had met a few people form Poland at work and they invited me over, however this is a long time ago. I remember they had fortune cookies at christmas (thats Chinese isnt it?)) for everyone and they loved it!

About your presents, I agree, dont over do it. You could ask your crush about this and what might be expected in terms of giving Christmas presents. Although I would bring at least the cookies ( fortune cookies, or any cookie you like) This way you can show something about your culture too.

While chatting, cant you just ask him a little bit more about his love life? Like if theres someone he really likes? Youre friends so questions about this topic shouldnt be that strange (without coming on to strong). I have male friends in which I have no romantic intrest at all and I ask them all the time.
dancer7   
8 Oct 2012
Love / Are polish men very welcoming to foreigner and my doubts? [30]

Youre so sweet, he is a lucky guy! A psychologist would say; how would you bring this up? Be creative! Talk about your daily life, ask about his, if he sums up the negative sides, you could ask him if theres anyone he likes that cheers him up or whatever, test the water a little bit. He might be hesitant to tell you cause my bets are on you, you both seem rather shy. Bring up dating in Poland and China, his opinion and observations cannot be free from his own experiences and outlook on the matter. And slowly ask a little more specific questions, that what I would do although my questions would be very much depending on his anwsers and openness about the topic.

There is this Polish guy here in Holland i really like, if it works out, I give you a call at Christmas time ;)