Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks all of you who responded on my post.
Polishmama - Ever since I left their home, I learn from my mistake and now I am living in a flat in warsaw in the heart of city and next week i will have my work permit. I already informed my wife about all this and also informed that in next one month I am opening my Indian restaurent here in warsaw. But her mother is not letting her speak to me and they are not even allowing me to meet my son who is just 1 month old.

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks for immediate response.
All i heard is my mother in law is planning to file divorce and they put some allegations on me that I was harrasing my wife and physically abused her. Where as the fact is my wifes parents abused me physically and I have all the marks on my body. I come from a good family in India where I had never done such things what I was doing there, like going to forest to bring wood, cutting grass in the garden, cooking, making laundry, cleaning their home. They said to police that they have threat on their life because of me and I want to hurt my own son. My wife delivered the baby in Wolomin, where all the staff said to her that your husband is like diamond, dont loose it. Peditrician of my son (minsk) also used the same thing about me, and they say I will hurt my son.

Last year when I was coming to poland I spend some 125,000/- Pln in less than 2 months for my wife & my in laws. I took a flat for my wife on rent where she was living and sometime her parents as they live 50 kms away from warsaw. All these time I was a star for them and now when I was left with no money, they treated me like this :(

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks Polishmama for all your responses.
I do agree with your point as being stranger its hard to pass any judgement of being good or bad. Anyways I am here to seek guidance from nice people like you as if their is something called marriage councellors who are helping couples to resolve conflicts to avoid consequences of divorce/separation. All I need to meet my wife for few minutes and I know everything will be back to normal. Till she is there with her parents she may not talk to me :(

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks Mick.

Thats what I am trying all the way but my mother in law is not allowing her to talk as she knows what will happen when my wife will meet me even for 5 mins. But in the due course she separated me from my new born son & i dont know from last one week how is he :( I dont even know if he is alive or dead :( :(

My wife is not responding to my text messages or mails, she is not even taking my calls, I have no news how is she :(

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Dear Marek,

thanks for the response. Yes you are 100% right. They are not educated people. My father in law is an alcoholic & works as a part time driver in their relatives place. Durring summer, he is selling strawberries & black berries. My mother in law works in warsaw as a part time nurse in some hospital. They dont leave in warsaw, they are located some 50 kms away from warsaw in a small place (village)

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Mick - I have been trying to talk to her in all the ways but she is not available. I dont know if she is sick:( Because I know she also loves me

Marek - I got in touch with the President of Indian association in Poland and he is a big time guy. I involved him in this matter and he had some meetings with my parents in laws and all the time he forced me to go from Poland as your wife will anyway give you divorce. You have no career here and you will spoil your future, its just 2 days when I am not in touch with this guy but he is not happy with me as I didnt followed what he advise. My concern is my family (my wife & kid) & i will not give up that easily. But at this time just feeling helpess :( & broken

I am not like other Indians who are just interested to live in Europe, I never wanted to live here, because of my wife I landed here and all the time I was looking for work but unfortuantely things didnt turned up on time and I am here with a disaster of family life :(

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks all for the responses. I know situation is out of control. I am keeping my fingure crossed & I will fight till the end. So far I havent receieved any divorce notice, its what I heard and still have some hopes they will come back. Thats the only reason I am here in Poland & will do every possible thing to get them back to me.

Marek - I already inquired about that through my lawyer & he confirmed that the cops that night came to threaten me as they cant take any action on me knowing that I am a legal resident of that address and thats my registered address in poland. They didnt had any proof and I didnt offended them by any means.

Rest I dont know what it is :(

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Thanks a ton my friends for sharing your thoughts & knowledge about my issue. It is certainly helping me to deal with the situation and reduceing a little bit of stress.

Sunil - I already started doing the same thing. Informed her about my new place (apartment) where I shifted, also informed that my work permit is in process (so that they shouldn't feel that I am after them to have my stay arrangement in Poland, and shared about new restuarent. In all this the best thing happen today that my wife started sending me sms & mms for my kid and even she made me to hear his voice twice when she called today. As far as divorce is concern, I still doubt as they have to spend some money to file divorce and as I studied about divorce law in Poland, which says in case of minor (small kids) Family court usually bring marriage councellors if it can fix the conflicts, if not they insist for legal separation unless both the spouse are asking for divorce. So I am sure they also know about this else it will be a long period case with huge money (expenditure) which they will never do.

Jon - My brother, I already spoke with lawyer & they clearly said if you need some compensation from your parents in law, it will be easy, as you are here in Poland on a valid Family visa which was issued on the invitation from your in-laws. Moreover your registered address is their home address in records of Poland, and they treated you like this, which is illegal as per law. If at all their are some serious concerns related to my stay in their home, they need to make other arrangements (home) for me to stay in Poland till I am here, but my friend, I am not here to grab some money from them, I dont even wish to stay in Poland or any European Countries. The moment I will have my family back, I will leave this country & they are the only reason I am here.

Harry - Soon you will come to know if you are in warsaw.

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

Leman - Thanks for your msg bro. Seriously I have no idea what you have been through but my situation seems to be on a positive side today, as my wife started responding a bit :)

But seriously praying to go that things should get back to track soon and hope the same for you. Good luck !!

Love / Indian national is seeking help to get my Polish wife back! [30]

gean - I never forced anyone to believe on this story. I am out here to seek some advise. If you cant, than please dont make such comments.