sleepingbeauty
24 Apr 2012
Love / How to read the signals from this Polish Guy? [19]
I have a huge admiration for a polish guy for a month. We talks everyday, and i think we are match. If i don't send him a message, he will text me first. He says that he like talking to me. And i feel the same too. After talking for some time, i've found out that he doesn't interested with relationship or marriage. It seems like he likes freedom, but he won't avoid if love comes to him. I'm hoping i could be the one who change his mind set, and will enjoying relationship with me.
The problem is, we haven't meet in person. In next few months, we will meet and he will take me for date. Still not sure if he will come here. I'm not stupid, i know if he really wants to meet me, he would be on plane by now. We have talked about this for couple times, that now its time to know each other. Then if we meet, it just to make sure our feeling and we will figure something out. Long distance relationship can't work.
Last night, he just said that before we meet he would have a date or two, and i can have as many boyfriends as i like. I guess this is fair, the fact is we both are free. Then i replied, that's ok if you explore many women first and make me your last.
My questions here:
- Is that a symptom he loves me (send messages everyday, talks in hours)? Well, its shallow to say 'i love you' online. He would never do that before we meet.
- Do you think he will come to meet me?
- Lately, i've tried not to text him first, and he always text me. Does he really like me/miss me?
At last, i hope he will never read this post!
I have a huge admiration for a polish guy for a month. We talks everyday, and i think we are match. If i don't send him a message, he will text me first. He says that he like talking to me. And i feel the same too. After talking for some time, i've found out that he doesn't interested with relationship or marriage. It seems like he likes freedom, but he won't avoid if love comes to him. I'm hoping i could be the one who change his mind set, and will enjoying relationship with me.
The problem is, we haven't meet in person. In next few months, we will meet and he will take me for date. Still not sure if he will come here. I'm not stupid, i know if he really wants to meet me, he would be on plane by now. We have talked about this for couple times, that now its time to know each other. Then if we meet, it just to make sure our feeling and we will figure something out. Long distance relationship can't work.
Last night, he just said that before we meet he would have a date or two, and i can have as many boyfriends as i like. I guess this is fair, the fact is we both are free. Then i replied, that's ok if you explore many women first and make me your last.
My questions here:
- Is that a symptom he loves me (send messages everyday, talks in hours)? Well, its shallow to say 'i love you' online. He would never do that before we meet.
- Do you think he will come to meet me?
- Lately, i've tried not to text him first, and he always text me. Does he really like me/miss me?
At last, i hope he will never read this post!