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How can I meet a Polish lady for a serious relationship ? [45]
Hi Em Wave-
No need to sugar coat and not offended at all. Just like to talk sometiems. I am more trying to pin point certain hidden agendas/intentions that may exist here amongst some women. I am from Australia, people are fairly relaxed with 'casual' relationships, one night stands etc. Its rather the norm, usually without expectation. But what is possibly seen as 'easy' here, from what I know, can come with different intent, misleading, expectation.
There is still a 'survival instinct' that exists here. And when reading about foreigners hoping to find a nice, 'naive' 'easy' Polish girl to marry and take home to their homeland, because rumour has it Polish girls are apparently easy, sets off alarm bells for me. I am just saying, for people not to be so fooled that when 'they' are so easy, I bet they are not so 'naive'.
Most Polish women are from naive and it's imbedded here that you have to find a rich, educated man. Even coming from Australia I have all my family here saying, oh you will have to find a rich man. practically one of the first things most of my family said to me soon after I stepped off the plane! Where I automatically first think, I want a guy who has a nice smile , who has a sense of humour, who is good looking, etc.
But here for the majority it's all about what you can get, what position you can hold in society with your relationship and if you can get out of the working class Polish system, even better, because its hard work for the everyday person in Poland to have a good life. And If the guy seems 'nice' then that is enough just as long as he is successful. Different mindset here, so a different game is played, and many foreigners etc don't realise it. But as I am also Polish I would have to add that Polish women do make the best wives, lovers, partners, mothers :) so if the Polish women seem to be easy, then the boys should count themselves lucky! :)
