Love /
How do Polish guys feel about having an older girlfriend/wife? [30]
well it doesn't really matter the nationality in this case. I think it's more about how mature the guy is, how comfortable he is with you being this older. 8years my dear is quite a gap and you not taking it in consideration would look like a dreamer. The age is not the problem neither, we have seen even here in England, the case of Diraeli, former British prime minister,who married a woman 12years older than him and they were happy. But in your case the guy is not in himself at mature age but what you should look at is more his strenghts, his weaknesses and his ability and his motivation to adapt to changes. It sound a bit complaicated but you should be the one have feet on the ground and be realistic. because the chances are being that older you could fade quicker than him as the years go by..so if you are really up for 'happiness' move one step at the time.
wish you well