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Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

There has to be some nice polish women out there?, that aren't complete nut case's and out to drain some one dry?
Anyone like to hear my story?
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

This is not about someone draining dry or running off with cash, this one drained the life out of me! you still wanna hear?, if you have been with a polish woman would like to hear if that one was a complete nutter?
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I’ll try to make this short with out going into great detail a little background information, my story begins when I met this what seemed at first to be a really nice sweet attractive polish girl working behind a bar in a Cheltenham night club, and you would guess the friendship quickly turned into a relationship. As the relationship progressed it was going well, we spent some time together. The weeks turned into months and that’s when things started to go wrong, because of her job in the nite club she started to have a little more fun than what could be allowed for someone who was in a relationship, a very loving one at that.

By the four month things had turned sour she was chatting up guys and I think she started to go out on dates with them?( as friends! Yeah right!)
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

By the four month things had turned sour she was chatting up guys and I think she started to go out on dates with them?( as friends! Yeah right!)

Anyway I ended up calling it off and she went home for the Christmas holidays and as it turns out that two days after she was there she ended up sleeping with a guy for four days and nights. That aside if I would be honest ending it really didn’t go well for me for a couple of months. So when she returned after the holidays. A couple of months went by I was fine about the spilt and was being civil towards her, I was making friends with other women, then out of the blue she contacted me to see if wanted to go out sometime, and me being the nice kind of guy that I am had no problem with that. So on the night we went out just as friends and it was going well, with in the first hour she was kissing me then from then on things started to come back round, we were having a bit of fun as you do! Then things started to get more and more serious and it came to a head when all these people questioned us why aren’t we together which made me wonder aswell. Then one night we were in this club talking to people who were trying to get us back together again, by this time we had sex several times before we got back together. Then it was time to make it official with each other, but agreed to not to tell anyone so for the duration of the relationship not many people knew that we were back together, and again things were going good. Then came Easter to most of the polish in this country go back home and she was one of them,
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

At this point I will give a bit more detail about her behavior, In the beginning she was great to be with she was warm, loving didn’t really show much affection but every ones different. So after a couple of weeks in to the first part of the relationship she began to change, the conversation was difficult not because of the language barrier. She would blow hot then be as cold as ice, and in the beginning they call it the honeymoon period this honeymoon lasted two to three weeks. Now don’t misunderstand me I know I’m a guy so like and having sex as much as possible comes with the territory so when she cut sex down to maybe once or twice a week it started to make me wonder if shes not giving it to me who is she giving too?

I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!

So I put it this way, the day I don’t want to have sex with you is the day to worry about because if I’m not giving it to you I’m doing someone else.
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

She's 22 and I'm 33 now it was her who wanted a relationship and everything that goes with it! Marrage, kids etc etc!
My state of mind!? lol I'm talking to you from a metal hospital!!! LMAO!!!
This crazy arsed b*tch screwed with my head and luved it. I ended up loosing 3/4stone in weight ( which is not a bad thing really! needed to loose it, just not a quick as I did!)
Lt Navy   
9 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

She would blow hot then be as cold as ice, and in the beginning they call it the honeymoon period this honeymoon lasted two to three weeks. Now don’t misunderstand me I know I’m a guy so like and having sex as much as possible comes with the territory so when she cut sex down to maybe once or twice a week it started to make me wonder if she’s not giving it to me who is she giving too?

I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!

So I put it this way, the day I don’t want to have sex with you is the day to worry about because if I’m not giving it to you I’m doing someone else. That’s was one or two little things that started the chain reaction down wards. Now when we had spilt up fist time see saw me with other women and according to her she didn’t like it made her jealous, which was not my aim to do that, it made her even more jealous when her friend started to become friendly now her friend managed to break us up in the first place, but in fairness I had more conversation with her than I did with my ex. So this made her do something about it and this came the second try, now up to the point of us getting back to together she would say things like I don’t want to loose you, you mean so much to me etc and things like that!

All the way though both parts of our relationship she really didn’t act like a girlfriend should act, I spoke to several different people and quite a few women and they all said the same thing it was not normal behavior. But when you’re in love you get blinded and don’t listen to what people say. Part of us getting back together was I had to prove myself to her! (How?) She didn’t know! But some of it was not to get jealous in I was proved myself time again not to have. Before I took her to the airport we managed to have an argument about her flirting with mine and her boss, I’m sure that he said something to her about giving him a blow job! Now Ive known this guy for 10 yrs so I was a little bit pissed off that he would make such a remark, but she took as a joke. Anyway got her to the airport so it was two weeks with out her, now this is where it went very strange! I wouldn’t hear from her as much as you would expect a so called girlfriend do contact you, she would never tell me that she is missing me but she would say that she loves me. It was her birthday while she was away and for some strange reason she won’t give me a address to where she was, it was because she thought I would turn up there! Now I’ve spoke to women about this and they said it would be romantic if their partner just turned up out of the blue. But she said she wouldn’t know what to say or do if I turned up there! Which again made me think what is she hiding.

Anyway she came back to the UK and I had to talk to her to find out what the situation was between us, she said we were a couple which I was happy about. It was then a couple of days later when I saw her and she wasn’t speaking to me so when I asked her what the problem was she said it was nothing. Then later when I jokingly suggested getting married she turned around and said that someone had already told her we were engaged!, and when I asked who said it she wouldn’t tell me, now I wouldn’t have gone up to the twat who said this and told him that. The bottom line is she took there word over mine and didn’t ask me why I would say that! So we ended up talking again and that’s when she told me that she really didn’t love me and didn’t like being with me and any other nasty thing she could think of. She came close to get a smack in the mouth that night even when she said she was pregnant and I would have nothing to do the it. We parted on a bad note it was only the next day when I got a text from her saying she was sorry about last night and hope I was ok and to have a good day. So when I rang her to find if I was speaking to the right person I said what you sorry for? You know what she said! It was for slamming my car door and nothing else!

So I fu*ked off for a couple of days to get away from it all a couple of days later I get a text from her asking me for all the things she still had at my house back even the things we bought together. So when I spoke to her she told that she had been in hospital for a few days, what for I asked!, its not to do with you it not your problem we are strangers now. So why did you tell me that you have been in hospital, no reply, then she said because you so far away it would have been nice for you to here.

So I left it at that, while I was I spoke to some friends saying having a good time etc! when I returned I got a phone call from her, she was going mad at me because people kept asking her had she heard from me! She was pissed off at me because these people knew more about where I was and what I was doing than she did! ( I Know!)

So she said well if you can go away so can I, which she didn’t she moved house and in to a house full of polish guys. Then rang me up on the weekend telling me that she was in love with one of them and asking me what should she do?

Is that normal behavior!
A word of warning if you come to Cheltenham and you meet a polish women call ania run for you life, that is one crazy arsed b*tch
Lt Navy   
10 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

In my defence, I did everything that a bf should do! but theres only so much a guy can do to please a woman. It wasn't an angry posting I told my story and waited to see what the feed back was? But I do think that there is some form of Borderline Personality Disorder

One other thing it was her that wanted love it wasnt sex, you have to HAVE Sex for it to be a one night stand

She got 7/8 that aint bad!!!
Lt Navy   
11 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

You know what the sad thing about this is, a little part of me still misses her! I know that is with someone else ( have you heard of the saying! What goes around comes around!) I really hope that who ever she see from now on does to her what she did to me!

But I'm not bitter about it!
Lt Navy   
11 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Yeah Yeah I keep tell myself that!, lol Its a damn shame though!!
Do you still talk to your ex?
even though she is a psycho and anything else I would mind her just being a friend!
Lt Navy   
11 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I hear you daffy, dont get me wrong I WOULDN"T take her back even if she crawled on her arse cheeks over a field of broken glass!

She wasnt an only child she has a bro & sis but I think shes a daddys girl spoilt, always has to have attention, but like being bored on her own? (I know! she was an odd one!)

I got the same thing if I was talking to her there are time you would like some kind of responce!! nope she just had this blank look on her face! she did this with not just me but to some of her friends

Some where down the line I will look back on this and maybe laugh! but it has been a learning curve I know the signs and what to look for if I get another one turns up!! lol
Lt Navy   
23 May 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Nice one sparky its good to hear that there are some nice ones out there! Hopefully when I start my polish lessons in june at uni it would nice to see if theres any there?

To up date! Spoke to her a couple of days ago and she's having some problems of sorts? What ever! the thing is she knows that music and esp songs have sum kind of meaning to me! Anyway she told me about this song she likes called lips of an angel by Hinder. If you have heard this song you will know its about missing and thinking of someone in the past!

Does anyone else think she's trying to say something??
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Just to add, went out with ex a week ago just as friends and as it turns out its wasnt a bad night, she told me about some of the guys shes been seeing and even that she is getting paid for it! (so she says!)

The problem was that while were talking wwe couldnt help but kiss, I it felt good and she felt the same. One thing I cant understand she showed me where she was living now Why? it was a secret before!

Then last weekend I get a phone call at 05.45 sunday morning with her in tears about her leaving a job in the place we both worked! She would tell me what the boss said to her but she told me other things.

I asked her why she rang me, you know what her answer was? I wanted to talk to someone and all I could think of was me!! (what the ell it that suppose to mean!)
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

This wasnt a stole kiss in the heat of the moment, this was a kiss in every sence of the word with tongues she leaned over to me while I was talking. We even kissed in the car, she said she wanted to kiss me because she doesn't kiss the other guys (LOL! Yeah right!)
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Even fools fall galdly! She knows that theres no chance we will ever get back togther, she already broke my heart twice she aint gonna get it again! I'm getting stronger. The thing is I dont fall in love that easy and with every woman I meet, even with this one it took a bit of time to fall, but when I did oh ****!!

The funny thing is that she was pretty pissed off when I refused to have sex with her, she was thought that she still had control over me! She hasnt got that much!

I have to kill the part of me that wont let her go, even after all she did!
I know I know! what your thinking! I'm off my head and you would be right! But untill she one else comes along that will wipe out all my thoughts of my ex I'm screwed its just not as painful as before lol!
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

yeah I know your not criticzing me (you should! :) )
But I've not met anyone to spend time with! I've been waiting for her to show herself to me! and I've even been looking but with no luck!

But I know what you mean!!
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Well the funny thing is I've been told that I was too good to her! maybe if a treated her like sh i t like possibly guys before me did it could have been a different story.

She can't drag me down any more than she did, I loss quite alot when we broke up, I'm sure in the years to come I will look back and **** myself laughing, how can you lose your partner, two jobs, your home, and all your money in aweek! lol lol!!!??
Lt Navy   
16 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Yeah I know she's a selfish *****, and she has replaced me lol!
Poor bastard that end up with her!
Thanks shopgirl, are you a nice person?
Lt Navy   
17 Jun 2007
Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Really!!
Aint life a b*tch!
Thank you for your insite
What might have worked for you, doesnt mean its works for any one else!
Again thank you