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Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]
Ken, there is what is on your inside and there is what you show to a woman, especially if you are trying to woo her. These are very different things. You need to show confidence and a bit of interest but not too much. Even for a while after you start going out with her you need to contain your emotions a bit and not be too heavy with your feelings.
None of this is easy but it comes with practice. I found that the best way to behave this way is to go after more than one girl at a time. That way, you show less emotion, you are busier and thus less inpatient with any particular outcome and you are lighter with your feelings. Sometimes this strategy is so successful you end up getting all the girls. Anyway, as I explained to you in the past, it is all a sales game. You have to start with a certain number of prospects, make your move, whittle them down, and so on. Thus you need to be involved in some activity where you get the traffic. Otherwise it will take you ages before you get the confidence which that other bloke possessed when he chatted up your Polish girl... get the practice and next it is your prey.
It is possible to say that me or southern are pratts and lots of other names. Unfortunately, life does not follow the laws of holywood. Getting yourself a girls, is nothing more than a practical subject that requires some experience. Believe me when we all started we were as bad or worse than you. Practice makes perfect. And for her, your next girlfriend, when you fillany woo her, it will all happen so naturally she will think you are a natural!
Book yourself into same dance classes, that is my recommendation.
their so called results may possibly get you sex, but I doubt they would lead to a lasting relationship with a woman of any intelligence..
Getting a lasting relationship is a subset of getting any relationship. In other words, if you end up with 2 or 3 relationships then perhaps one of these could be a lasting relationship, perhaps even true love for both of you. So again go after people you really fancy and then you have a chance, after a while, to get there. On the way there will be a bit of a trail of wreckage, but hey, not possible to make omelette with out breaking some eggs.
