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SV999   
28 May 2010
Love / POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future [54]

Hello, i have met a polish girl that i have been speaking to on the internet fora few months. We met in Poland & spent 2 happy days together.

She says she really likes me but did not instantly feel in love with me so thinks that we have no future.
I really like her & find that immediate love very rarely happens.
Is this a normal reaction?
Help please, because i really like her
Thanks
SV999   
28 May 2010
Love / POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future [54]

i agree that instant infatuation is possible. We both really enjoyed the tome we spent together & we have spoken every day since on phone but she tells me she is very lost with her feelings & needs time.

I completely agree that instant infatuation does not last. But now i do not know what to do.
Should i cut contact & wait to see if she contacts me after she has had the time?
Any polish girls, i would appreciate your thoughts please
SV999   
28 May 2010
Love / POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future [54]

yes, all we did was laugh so much together. She says she trusts me which has built up over the months of speaking on internet & on phone. She says what is making her confused is that she did not feel instant love, like she did with her previous partner. should i just give her the time
SV999   
29 May 2010
Love / POLISH GIRL I REALLY LIKE, BUT she says we have no future [54]

Well, it is very difficult........we got to know each other well before we met but she said when we met she would know "instantly" if she could fall in love with me. I believe that this instant love is not love at all & rarely lasts. She recently split from a very long term partner & says she is lost. She tells me she really really likes me but does not think this is enough. I think loves grows from within over time & it is more important to really like the person & enjoy spending time with them when you first meet, which we both did. I know i am not in love yet but also know that i have never felt like this about anyone before & she tells me the same. Very difficult to know what to do next!