Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

frd thanks for your response.
I think that everybody should be free to choose the man/woman that suits bests to him/her.
It is a matter of preferences. That's all. I think that a polish girl would be better for me than other girls from other nationalities. I don't think there is something wrong about it.

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Of course this is an absolutely personal matter but I can tell I am bored seeing around rude girls. As far as I know polish girls have a more gentle character. And that's important for me. There are also additional reasons but that's not the point here.

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

I am Greek.
A close friend of mine lived for some time in Poland many years ago and told me about the experience he had with polish girls.

Ok, I think am under pressure from you, maybe you think I am asking to have the whole universe! I think I am misunderstood.

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

Thanks God! Somebody to understand me!

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

king polkakamon you gave valuable information.
When you say that they do not get along with us, in comparison with russians, what do you really mean? Maybe a bad opinion for greeks? Or something else? And why this happens?

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

In fact, nowadays internet is part of our everyday lives! And brings the space gaps bringing people together in many ways. You start with internet with no geography barriers and you can continue in person if you can.

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]


I doubt about it. You can choose the age range. So why it is only teens? There many women, not teens, over 20s'.

Love / Find a Polish girl using Internet [67]

JustysiaS I really find importance in your thoughts.

Your doubts seem to have a real base.
The problems is that every coin has two sides.
You get something, you loose something.

It is impossible to have communication with many people in the real world, especially if you live in another country.
Internet provides such connectivity and ease of use. You can communicate from your desk. No money, no time lost.
What is better? Not having such try at all? Refuse the approach using internet due to our fears of getting knowing the right person?

As someone said above, I am not rich, most of us are just normal people. Is it better not to have a chance to approach some girls through their profiles, because we do not have the money/time to go to Poland and do such a searching?

Is it all or nothing?
And who can tell that even somebody come to Poland for a month, that will find the 'perfect' person?

So, I think internet facilitate the process for us, to our benefit.

Of course, real world meetings are irreplaceable. I agree on this.

After all, the possibility of failure in a relationship could always happen in any case, even if you know the other person for some time.

At last, I think internet just facilitate the way someone can communicate with the other person. No guarantee for a successful ending, as it happens in the real meetings too.

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JustysiaS, useful advice indeed.

I did not said that I am a poor man, I said I am not rich. Above the average level in any case at all.

After all if a girl is attracted only from money then I did not want her at all!
I understand the joke but I wanted to comment on this.

I have money/time to come to Poland but I cannot do it often! I think I cannot depend on this!

By the way, do young polish people know english, generally speaking?

Love / Inside polish women's psychology and mind [109]


Always there should be an explanation for specific decisions in life. I agree with you.

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I 've heard of it too.

But I examine the circumstances of these women that declare 'do not have children' and 'do not wish to have children'.
They are not the majority of polish women for sure. It is the minority, but that's exactly what we talk about.

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You are welcome to our conversation! I am really glad to hear that there are actual reasons for some women for not wanting to have kids.

Please tell me, do you imagine yourself without having kids for the rest of your life?

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vetala I think that your point of view is very interesting.

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We have to respect the opinions of minority.
We all know the most common path: family, babies, all related stuff.

So, it is an opportunity here to discuss the other way, this one that does not include kids.
Polish women have the first role to explain us, and of course anybody else who know about their thought on the topic.

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You are not alone!
When you know too little about kids, everything seems easy.
When you get older and see how difficult is to grow them up, you think it twice!

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This is another explanation for finding out why some polish girls 'do not want kids'.

Love / Why a polish girl would prefer a relationship with a foreign man? [30]

I think that it is rather not a very serious explanation, that a this dating is caused mainly because other nationalities seems more exotic.

Love / Why a polish girl would prefer a relationship with a foreign man? [30]

I still don't have a clear opinion about the topic we discuss here. I think it like an investigation.
Nobody told that polish men are not that 'good'.
Nobody told that polish women desperately seeks a foreigner for relationship.
Is that clear?

I just say that in every nation, some women, and men also, seek their match, in other nationalities. This happens for several reasons I think. Not just because of the attraction of a 'new'/stranger person. Such a simplistic approach seems silly to me.

Let me mention here, an example, it is just an example. I have some friends of mine in Russia, and this thing happens there for sure. So, there in russia, there are: 1) many areas that for historic reasons have many women and far less men, 2) there are areas that russian men drink a lot, and this have many negative consequences in any relationship with women, 3) there are lots of russian areas that men have not good manners, generally speaking, so an eclectic women will find them uncouth. 4) some women would like to live in warmer climate areas (think of Siberia for example) 5) and so on...(the catalog of reasons goes on...)

So, there are specific reasons for many areas there in russia, that women do prefer a foreigner for a long term relationship, instead of choosing a local guy.

Do you get it?

Nobody told a bad thing either for polish women or men. This is not the case.
And please, I do not want anybody to feel any offense, because there is not any blame for anybody.
We just discuss, we just want to find out.

If a woman do not look at me, there is no problem, we just don't match. It does not mean that I am an awful guy! I reject women too, we cannot force a relationship to exist! So, no problem! Sometimes we reject, sometimes we accept! This is the love game.

All I asked here, is it to find out, why a polish women would prefer a foreign guy to make a relationship.
I said about the russia example. No money reasons, no 'prestige' reasons, nothing common. Although I can understand that there are women who fall in the very useful catalog APF posted above.

It is just the russian reality, as some russian women feel it.

Maybe there are other social reasons in Poland, that make some women to look for a foreigner to be together.
I don't know if the polish men know such reasons or if they want to contribute here, maybe polish women here in this topic could help us better with their opinions, based on what they know from themselves or other friends they have.