Posts by FilAm

FilAm

21 Dec 2009

Love / Opinion from Polish men on this please (Polish men so 'spiritually' romantic?) [43]

Hello guys :-) I need serious answers to this, please. So we're in love, about to be engaged (As he says) after a month of knowing each other, 24/7 talking, spending time together, etc.. However, I chose not to sleep with him (He is Polish but has been in the U.S. more than 1/2 his life), not until after the marriage - This has always been by principle. He told me he's "going to wait forever" but I'm afraid, with how super nice he's been treating me, I might just give in, omg!!! It's so difficult because he is really so romantic and the kindest man I have ever met! Are most Polish men so 'spiritually' romantic? He made me fall for him ... I feel I can tell him anything under the sun and he will still have undying admiration for me just as well. He seems to really want a productive future for both of us as he shares plans and ideas a lot on how we will live our lives together. How will my Polish Misiu react or what would he think if I start to keep a distance first so I can 'hold up' until well, marriage. Likewise, he could also just be 'leading me on' to marriage to get me to bed ...

I thank you in advance for entertaining my Qs.

FilAm

21 Dec 2009

Love / Opinion from Polish men on this please (Polish men so 'spiritually' romantic?) [43]

A tinie tiny month ... He said he just fell flat when he saw me ...

Aphrodisiac, well I know it could be any man but is it common or likely for Polish men to know their destinity just by 'feeling' the 'existence' of the woman of interest? He said me being 'the one' showed in my eyes ...

FilAm

21 Dec 2009

Love / Opinion from Polish men on this please (Polish men so 'spiritually' romantic?) [43]

I thank each and everyone for your opinions and advices. You may not believe it, but every input picked me up from confusion and really helped me form a general idea of what a Polish man's mentality would be pertaining to my situation. So generally, like the more 'conservative' cultures, Polish men do respect and do understand values like mine. Yes, he has an American passporte and I am American (Filipina). I was glad to finally close-in that he didn't think I was just playing coy or games, Polish men do understand then.

So to surmise, I should really hold up and not give in ... For all my life, well, I might as well - No matter what else charming courtship tricks he does. He got the ring yesterday ... He's unto to this planning for a wedding already and I said, I'd like to have a long engagement please. He agreed but stayed on until I politely insisted him to go home. Well, just this morning he said he could be 'going crazy' already. This might be a form of pressure operandi. Then again, if and only if he really cares about me (and no other different agendum), I would not want to lose all the ways coming to me, the interesting ways he shows his 'love', he says, that is how a Polish man is when in love.

Yes, he invited me to visit Poland with him, like in 1st weeks of January. I don't think Winter is the best time to visit? Maybe, for more chances to cuddle up, lol. I've never been to the eastern part of Europe. What language is similar in structure to the Polish language? It kind of sounds like German which I am familiar with. Then again, it also sounds like Russian. Could I literally translate English to Polish or is there specificity on Nouns, etc.? Is conjugation of Verbs complicated like French or Spanish?