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Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I've got 2 stories to tell, but will save the other for another time. Recently I dated a Polish girl for a few months. Got on well and really like her a lot, but nothing happened. She seemed to like me but ended up rejecting me, to my shock to be honest, but we decided to stay friends. I was upset, texted her, called. She was really hard to talk to, i had questions, but getting an answer was hard.

Now she goes days ignoring me, right after saying she wants me to be her friend. So hard to understand her her. Whats the best way forward, how to get her to talk again? Polish girls seem really changeable and have an incredible ability to ignore you. Seems cold. Is it their mentality or what?
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Some good posts there thanks. We weren't actually together so why shouldn't we be able to be friends? Well the thing is she changes her mind all the time about everything and well I guess the other story explains it all better.

I was seeing a young, gorgeous, tall Polish girl for about 7 months, was pretty serious. She was amazing, until the end. We moved to different cities, and she was so damn cruel. She moved to Scotland, me to London. I took a 12 hour bus ride to go and see her, her job was taking up so much time, it was all I could do to try to stay with her. I got there, her attitude had really changed with this sales job she was doing. I gave up my job to be with her, we argued about the fact she was living with a bunch of guys and spending more time with them than me when I was there. She came back early from work one day. Grinned at me as I asked why. She just whispered to me then and then stood there grinning while this black guy and another work colleague threatened me and got me to leave. So off I went on a long bus ride with no job. After so long together, she never spoke to me again. All I got was a call from this black guy saying they were together. She was a cruel b*tch make no mistake about it. Even her Polish girlfriends started to dislike her. With her job she had suddenly changed and become very bossy. I had lent her money she never paid back, and then she was accusing me of looking at her money, incredible. But to never speak again and finish it like that was just disgusting.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Poleaxe, duh, she said she wants me to be her friends. So it makes no sense that she would ignore me.

Also, I'm not blaming anything on nationality. I'm trying to understand the mentality. Some of the best people I have met are Polish and many of them are great. Please don't misunderstand me.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

We dated, but we weren't together... If you go on a date with someone, does it automatically mean you're together that instant?
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

It's a shame people feel the need to be hostile, I thought I'd share a few experiences, try to understand some things. Saw plenty of posts here on this forum about how Polish girls think, act, etc.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I simply wanted to discuss the mentality and find out more, not just say they are evil or something, ha. I really don't think in this way. I just see some similarities with them. Maybe coincidence
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

changing?? yeah thats the hurting truth about most Polish girls.

Well that's well over, the girl I was with last year, it doesn't matter anymore. That girl is pregnant now to the black guy, may have given birth actually, think he grew up in the US. They'll probably be off to the US soon I bet. Still, I don't regret all that, as she was an incredibly beautiful girl, and when it was good, it was really really good :)
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Well, I see differences. I dated a German girl before, English, obviously. The only girl to completely ignore me after a relationship was the Polish one.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Well we were dating, but we never did anything more than kiss. I didn't do anything wrong. Simply she changed her mind, the problem for me was trying to understand it and talk to her about it, was almost impossible. But don't get me wrong, she's a sweet girl, I want to be friends with her if nothing else.

But you never went out with her, you just saw her.

haha, erm, some of it is right but. The girl I was in a relationship with was the one that totally ignored me. I only became unemployed because I moved to the other end of the country to be with her, thinking I could work and live with her, but it didn't happen.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I just want to be friends with the girl i saw recently yes, not the one I was in the serious relationship with. I'm trying to understand if there is a common link regarding the 'ignoring', regarding the mind-changing. I'm not saying there is, I'm exploring the possibility. I'm not wanting to make generalisations or anything like that. I just want to discuss.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I've confused everyone with combining two stories in one haven't I, haha. Well that girl that I did see naked, etc ;) ;) we don't talk at all, and we won't be friends. The girl that I dated, but never had anything serious with, and unfortunately never saw naked, I want to be friends with her.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

SeanBM:
Irish, huh
I was about say that explains it :-)

hmm?

Barr_2009:
I'd like to see her as a friend
I don't think that would work, you have feelings other than friendship.

well we'll see
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Right, thing is she said, she wants me to be her friend..... that was the last thing she said when she text me last week. Since then she didn't respond. So, it's not quite as you think. Anyhow, I stopped texting her, I guess she just wants some space before we speak again.
Barr_2009   
11 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

This one is interested, who knows what will be with the sweet polish girl, we'll see, and i'm a nice boy i try my best not to argue ;)
Barr_2009   
13 Oct 2009
Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Thanks justysia, good to someone can recognise how biatch-like that was. Anyhow, the girl that was ignoring me sent an e-mail saying we can't be friends right, then i deleted her number, but two days later she's calling me saying she made a mistake and wants us to be friends, haha, so changeable it's incredible!