Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


Brillant post mr caldwell - I think you have nailed it,
you could write the same post for polish men me thinks.

mkd

As an Irish woman in Poland having grown up and in Ireland there are some things I really like about being a woman in Poland -

Its ok to be feminine - Irish and english women try to keep up too much with the guys, the result is a pisshead, with a foul mouth who has no respect for herself and then complains because guys don't she she is girlfriend material - 'act like a lady be treated like a lady' I can't imagine any man being impressed with a woman who can drink him under the table, he can play that game with his friends. These tough act girls are hard going. Women and men are not the same, thats whats so great about the attraction and I like being a woman and love being feminine, but thinks its easier here than in Ireland.

I think that Polish women have a great sense of style and I like going out here, I like to wear feminine sexy clothes which I can look a bit too dressed up in, in ireland. Maybe its the weather but its a different style completely in ireland and england, women are way more casual, I like to relax too but its nice to push the boat out every now and then.

However Polish woman are a bit too insecure about weight beauty e.t.c and even for me a girl having to listen to them going on about the various flaws e.t.c and never actually enjoying a meal, is hard going. A bit more self acceptance would be much more attractive. Its important to take care of yourself, but its not the only thing a guy goes for, so its good to be a bit relaxed and be able to not obsess all the time. Moaning on and on about weight is soooooo boring.

Polish women never ever pay their own way and this is not good and explains why alot of them are a bit slutty - 'there is no such thing as a free lunch' if a guy has been forking out for you all night he expects something.... fact. I like the going dutch approach or if someone asks you out then its ok but expecting the guy to pay for everything is a bit weird and creates a pressure thats not good. many of the girls I know do this and then get pissed off when the chips are called in at the end of the night. Pay your own way ladies and you won't have this problem !!!

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

Slutty was not the best use of words to be honest, but I was not sure what exactly what to say. Old fashioned is not the word either, because if that was the case they would maintain this stand on all areas, ie not have sex until the engagement ring was in place, more liberal attitudes are taking in some but not all areas.

I speak with alot of my female friends who complain about men taking assumtions at the end of a night, but don't connect the guy paying for everything giving him a feeling that 'hes in there' with friends I would never expect the guys to pay my way - we always pay our own way, they would stop hanging out with me if they had to pay for me everytime.

re the relationship one year down the line, my polish male friends also complain about this and say that so many Polish women are conservative in that area and that it causes problems. I have one polish girlfriend who complained constantly when she got married that all her husband seemed to do was work, however she wanted holidays, meals in nice restaurants and didn't seem to make the connection between having to work and earning the money to pay for all these nice things, she was such a princes, I was really tough on her, she spent all her wages on clothes beauty e.t.c she really thought he was neglecting her but did not understand that the poor guy was trying his best to give her everything she wanted. hence why its important to chill out - relationships are a partnership - however you still have to surprise your man every now and then and not get too chilled out but see the small things that he does, breakfast in bed wins me over everytime - money isn't the key. many polish women think that the guy shows his love by spending, i'd have his time over the roses anyday.

my observations anyway.
mkd

Real Estate / Substantial amount of agricultural land in Poland - what to do with it [23]

Yes the vultures are out!!

Savilles have an office in warsaw - use this company to value your property, it will cost a bit more but its worth it, they can advise in advance if its worth your while to spend alot on the valuation. Contact a bank like wbk, deutshe bank - in Warsaw and ask them to recommend Valuer in that area.

you don't know what you could be sitting on so be careful of agents and do your homework and maximise your sale potential.

best of luck.