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filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

Latina, I think the older women would not be wholly approved by the family and friends. Not really, but mostly the opinion of Mum and Dad would make it or brake it (most likely).

Eurola is right. The family usually does not approve of the older woman, especially the women in the family. This includes aunts, cousins. But the men in the family treat the older woman like she's a sleaze and like they can easily have their chance with her. I know because I dated a guy who was 8 years younger.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

I'm not sure about that - my husband is 7 years younger than I am and we've never had any problems with his family.

Lucky you! My ex-boyfriend's family would say all sorts of rude things in front of me. They totally voiced their opinions indirectly.

But I'm just in LOVE/lust?

It's usually lust at the beginning, especially if you've just met him but it can turn into real love with time.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

Hmmmm, I dated a Polish guy name Grzegorz.....he was younger and definitely the pursuer

You knew Grzegorz, too? So did I. He sure does get around. :)
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

6 Months going out. Is it love or lust?

By then, yes, you're developing real feelings, if you've spent a lot of time together during those 6 months.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That kind of relationship. Gotchya

I was only kidding of course.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

I think that's the way most people feel and that's the way it should be but I think that my Boy Toy is very worried about our age difference. He is too polite to say it but I could feel it.

Enjoy him to the fullest. No relationship is guaranteed to last. And you'll regret it if you don't just have fun.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

Yes we are back together. But now it's very different because I'm angry and confused. It's not the way it used to be.

Why did you take him back if he did that to you?
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

i dont mean this rudely, but have some respect for yourself, drop his arse like a bad bean pie.

I have to agree with King Sobieski even though I don't know what a bean pie is. I don't want to sound harsh but my opinion is that the guy already showed you how he felt when he dumped you for the stripper. I don't see this as a sign that he loves you. Maybe I'm wrong.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

I dropped him like a hot potato and never looked back. And it was hard as hell but sometimes you just deserve better no matter how much it hurts. But it's your decision.
filmcasting   
7 Mar 2007
Love / DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN? [169]

You are very strong. I wish I was that strong. I'm going through really mixed feelings and I am very hurt. I have been thinking of totally breaking it off with him though but it IS VERY HARD!

I can understand. You should definitely not do anything until you're sure. In my case it was painful but I was sure that I was not going to be in that situation. Maybe even time will make the decision for you.