Love / Should i wear this to a polish wedding or not? :) [27]

the dress is beautiful, go for it! I wore a very colorful strapless mini dress for my cousin's wedding in June and got more compliments than strange stares. Have fun!

Love / How common is it for husbands in Poland to open their wife's mail ? [30]

heyy, not true. I open my own mail and also take care of most, if not all, house duties :)
kojak, very touching and IMHO I think a letter w/pictures through-out your life is a great first start. Showing up unannounced could be shocking and unsettling.

Work / I want to move to Poland (but of course we need to find a good job) [117]

Korek, I'm an american living in poland. my advice to you is give it a shot. If it doesn't work out, you can always go back home. Be prepared to deal w/alot and IMO finish college in the US. You won't go far w/o a degree unless you give private english lessons. Jobs are also scarce in Poland, so don't be surprised. Good Luck.

Work / I want to move to Poland (but of course we need to find a good job) [117]

I work in poland but I am moving back to good ol' U S A. I've been living here for 3 years and also have polish roots. Like I mentioned before, it will be difficult to find skilled work w/o a degree. What part of PL are you thinking about moving to?