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dhrynio   
8 Jun 2008
Life / What would it be like to live in Lomza? [60]

Hey andysterdam,

Don't know what your status is with this whole situation. But thought I would try and help. I am an American living here in Lomza. My husband is from here. I taught at a private school teaching Callan method. Super easy and very easy to get a job teahing it here if you are a native speaker. If you wife want a contact number just email me and I will get the info for my former school.

As for Lomza...huh...well, dont expect a huge night life or much to do, some pubs, more to do in the summer but not so bad really. But the bright side is that if you are into nature you have it made here. River for swimming and fishing, Mazury just a short hour or 2 away. My favorite is Ruciana Nida, because it is only an hour and we have a friend that owns a beauitful hotel/camping/boat rental place on a lake. Also fantastic fresh fish! MMM!

Warsaw is only 2 hours away and Bialystok about an hour...if you drive like a crazy Polish person. Bialystok now has a shopping mall with cinema, bowling and the works. Also the area around Bialystok is lovely.

If you can afford a care get one, or better yet send on from Canada, we are buying a few cars in the states to send here and sell since the dollar is so low. After you finish you can sell it and probably still make money!

You will also really get the Polish experience here as the number of people who speak English are low. But that can be really good.

As for restaurant and shopping well, it is getting better. There are a few more restaurant in the last few years and there are now 2 larger grocery stores like a Tesco.

Also (shameless self promotion to follow) there is one of the best meat production factories in the country here (it is owned by our family) ask anyone around here about meat from Podgorze and they will tell you.

I know only a few other native speakers here, one Canadian woman from Manitoba and another American. There may be a few more, but I have 2 kids now so I am sort of out of the loop.

Your pay should take you a long way here. Rent is fairly low. But I find food and clothes expensive. I only buy clothes and shoes in the states. Gas is outrageous.

if you have any question just ask away!
dhrynio   
16 Feb 2011
Life / What would it be like to live in Lomza? [60]

My good friend Ania teaches Helen Doron classes at an English school in Lomza called Educo. They are excellent for yong kids.

You can call the office at 512-022271
dhrynio   
31 Mar 2011
Feedback / A Personal Request to all PF members [119]

That was an excellent post. I have been a member here for a while. I am an expat in Poland living here for 7 years. I would love to take part here more, but honestly some of the people admin allows to stay here and take part are just plain horrid and do not add much of anything.

I am a moderator on another parenting forum, we allow open membership, but trolls and pot stirrers will be banned. We allow free speaking but when you cross the line and make the forum an unpleasant place to be you will be banned.

Sadly the riff raff here are allowed to rome free, they jump in an mock people who are only looking for help and information. This forum could be a really great resource for those living in or interested in information about this wonderful country....but fact is that it is overrun by a few bullies who contribute nothing good.

I rarely post here and sadly I find myself reading even less due to those posters who should have been banned long ago.
dhrynio   
1 Apr 2011
Off-Topic / So...which of you are actually IN Poland? [41]

Just curious. Not having siggy's makes it hard to keep people staight or to know much about anyone.

I am here. I am American and married to a Pole. We live in Lomza.
dhrynio   
2 Apr 2011
Off-Topic / So...which of you are actually IN Poland? [41]

I am so pleased to read that so many of the transplants like it here. It took me a while to adjust, the first 3 years were really hard. Lack of decent Polish made it so hard. But now after this long my Polish is quite good and I can get by, that opens up a whole new comfort level being here.

I spent the first few years asking when we would be moving home to the states. I was afraid of what would happen when our kids got to school age, how would I help them with homework, how could I check it, how would I go to teacher meetings? Now I am not so worried.

The longer I am here the easier it all becomes. I can now appreciate the great things about this country. Up this way we have great access to traditional all natural meat (yeah it helps that it is produced at our factory), locally grown produce, local cheeses, serek, and general dairy (Piątnica) and other great local food. I love being close to Mazury. I can appreciate the people more now and I have finally figured out how to deal with the over pushiness of Polish hospitality ;), I have stopped pining for things from home, I find myself buying less and les when I make trip stateside. I also have figured out how to deal with the lack of conveniences that we have everywhere in the states.

I have come to love this country as my own and I am proud to be a permanent transplant!
dhrynio   
2 Apr 2011
Off-Topic / So...which of you are actually IN Poland? [41]

Simply gorgeous chichimera. I am so thankful we are fairly close to Mazury. We do short trip all around the lakes area in the summer and Autumn.

I can't wait to start sailing again. I had just started to learn to sail before we had kids and they are just now old enough to take out. I hope we can get on a boat with them this summer!

If you don't mind sharing where are you located? PM if you like!
dhrynio   
5 Apr 2011
Travel / Indian or Mexican food in Warsaw. [60]

One of my Warsaw foodie friends took us here to the one in Żoliborz. The Indian food was food but the Thai was fantastic!
dzikiryz.pl/

The food was out of this world and the atmosphere and staff were awesome. Prices were not that bad for Warsaw either.
dhrynio   
5 Oct 2011
Life / Expats/Immigrants in Poland: Needy, Greedy or contributor. Which one are you? [118]

Odd categories. Your definition of needy is a peculiar one, you must know some strange expats, and that definition does not include those who reltaionships are stable.

I must admit that my view of many expats is an unusual one. I find many of them social misfits, it seems many left home to find a place where no one knows them and they can start over, but the misfit part always shows through.

I am married to a Pole. I have lived here for 9 years and we have two bilingual children. I have taught English, but have stopped for now to stay at home.

So I guess from the choices in the OP I am a contributor/needy...just not sure what is so needy about a stable marriage and family.

There are many reasons to come to this wonderful country, some are selfish, some to take, some to give and some for love. For me the more important category for this thread would have been are you a contributor/integrator or not.
dhrynio   
21 Oct 2011
Love / I'm a black African man and can't cope with my Polish mother in law [34]

Hi Negra,
I have been married to a Polish man for 9 years and I have had a few issues with my MIL. But looking back I realized that most of them were just me trying to butt heads with her culture. The role of the Polish Babcia is very defined and it is instilled in them from an early age. I could not understand the soup thing for a very long time, but now I see it's value. First of all it is a great way to get veggies into a kid. But second and most importantly is it part of the culture and I live here as a non native and since it is not one that harms anyone I decided to stop resisting it a long time ago.

As for doing daily shopping...well again falls under culture. The older/middle age generations grew up like this and they are rather grossed out by supermarkets...and again age and time has taught me that fresh is best. If she wants to go do the shopping why would you want to stop her? I have two kids and take all the help I can get. My father in law goes to the bakery and brings us fresh bread every day, it used to bug me. But I decided to embrace it and after some time my preception changed.

As for the money spent, you need to sit down with her and have a good long talk. But it will not be taken well if it is you laying down the law and expecting her to be the only one to admit fault and to change. IMO it should look something like this:

You: I greatly appreciate all the help you give to us and I think it is wonderful that you make some fantastic homemade food, you are a great cook and after doing some thinking I see that since soup is important to you for the kids that maybe I should look at it differently. But we really need to work on a budget.

It really sounds to me like you are fighting her culture...but you live here in Poland. It is rude to fight the culture of the place where you live. I think you could do well to take a good hard look at yourself and your perceptions of things. I know it is hard to veer from our own upbringing and embrace that of another but polish culture and their ideas do have value. If you plan to stay here you would be wise to work on changing your perception, stop trying to fight who she is and work harder and making compromise on your side and getting your wife to work with her mom to get some compromise from her side.
dhrynio   
20 Nov 2011
Language / 'lubię, lubisz' - Infinitive [86]

The same as in English. When we say I like to listen to music. It the same. In Polish you use the infinitive after the verb like.
dhrynio   
9 Jan 2012
Life / Life in Lomza - Is it a cheap place to live? [9]

This one I can help with! I live in Lomza and have for 7 years now. The owner of Lingua (Steph) is a Canadian who had also lived and taught here in Lomza for about 8 years. She decided to open her own school this year and has many students who followed her from the old school to this new one. However, I know very little about the school other than that she and the few teachers that I know are excellent teachers.

Lomza is a fairy cheap place to live. Rent is cheap compared to a big city and food is very reasonable.

Entertainment...huh that is a tough one. There is a movie theatre but they are now building a new shoppng center. I have heard rumors that it will be a Tesco and others that say it will be a mall with a theatre and a Tesco. One thing I can say is that Lomza is growing and getting better every year. Shopping is also better than it used to be.

Yes there is a hospital. Quite a good one. I delivered both of my children there and also was in a few other times. It also helps to know doctors. I am quite sure though that Steph and the others will help you out if the need arises.

If you have any more questions feel free to contact me on here. I will be happy to help. There are actually only a handful of expats in town but there are a few great bars with lots of people who are very interested in meeting English speaking people.

May I ask...and I know this may seem strange, but are you introverted? Extroverted? Shy? Outgoing? What are your interests?
dhrynio   
9 Jan 2012
Life / English channels on Poland's Cyfra+ [13]

Anybody know if you can do this to n Television?

Yes you can!! We got N a few months ago and there are many channels that you can change to English! The other thing I like about N is that it remembers your setting for each channel, so once you set a channel to English it will stay that way until you switch it.
dhrynio   
10 Jan 2012
Study / Opinions about '2 weeks intensive Polish course' [26]

I took a 3 week intensive course in Warsaw at IKO. It was great. It was my 4th Polish class and my only intensive. It was tough though. The amount of stuff we learned was the same as a full time course but we attended 5 days a week for about 4-5 hours if I recall correctly.
dhrynio   
10 Jan 2012
Study / Opinions about '2 weeks intensive Polish course' [26]

We were discouraged from speaking English. This was also my third or fourth level, so I knew quite a lot. I would not want an intensive for my first.

We were able to speak to each other in English during the breaks. Also thr groups were small, like 5 people maybe. Ideal really.
dhrynio   
26 Feb 2012
Study / Polish language courses....Suggestions wanted. [12]

[Moved from]: Polishonlinenow - Anyone know about these new online Polish courses?

I saw it advertised in the online version of the New Poland Express.
polishonlinenow.com/en/lessons-courses
dhrynio   
27 Feb 2012
Life / Polish plantlife and similar flora where you live. [81]

Merged: Let's talk gardening in Poland!!

I have lived here for 8 years and have yet to make a garden. But this is the year!!

So what do you grow? How has it turned out? Any tips for me?
dhrynio   
28 Feb 2012
Life / Polish plantlife and similar flora where you live. [81]

well, it depends what you like. I don' have a garden, but my father does and I help him every year.

Yes should have been more specific...veggie garden is what I meant. In American garden means a place where you grow food. Here garden is your yard.

I keep being told that tomatoes won't do well unless in a hot house. I think i will give them a go. I do hope this summer is less rainy than last.

I will be doing raised bed or square foot gardening, so almost no weeding and no digging! Right now I am planning beets, cucumber, lettuce, parsley, radishes, spinach, strawberries, tomatoes, beans and other hebs. Although I am thinking that may be a bit ambitious for my first time here.

Oh and we are planting pigwa to make more nalewka! This last yeas was amazing.
dhrynio   
28 Feb 2012
Law / American Presidential Elections - where to vote in Poland? [3]

I got an email from the embassy with a link to find my state to apply online to get my absentee ballot. They will usually send it to you in an email, you print it out then mail it back in.

Here is the email I got:

2012 ELECTION CYCLE - ALREADY UNDERWAY

Be an active voter. Start thinking about your participation in the U.S. 2012 elections today!

New absentee voting laws are in effect for the 2012 elections. You will no longer automatically receive ballots based on a previous absentee ballot request. All U.S. citizens outside the United States who want to vote by absentee ballot in the 2012 primary and general elections must complete a new Federal Post Card Application (FPCA) every year if they wish to vote from abroad. States are now required to send out ballots 45 days before an election. No matter what state you vote in, you can now ask your local election officials to provide your blank ballots to you electronically (by email, internet download, or fax, depending on your state). You can now also confirm your registration and ballot delivery on-line.

republicansabroad.org/voting_info.php

If you have additional questions or concerns, you may contact the U.S. Embassy's American Citizen Services unit either by telephone at (48) (22) 504-2784 or e-mail at acswarsaw@state.gov. The after-hours telephone number is (48) (22) 504-2000. The U.S. Embassy in Warsaw is located at Aleje Ujazdowskie 29/31. The Consular Section entrance is located around the corner at ulica Piękna 12.

American Citizen Services
U.S. Embassy Warsaw, Poland
poland.usembassy.gov
tel. +48 22 504 2784
fax +48 22 504 2122
dhrynio   
29 Feb 2012
Life / Polish plantlife and similar flora where you live. [81]

Thanks gumishu!!

Very helpful! as for trees, we were very lucky that the land we bought had lots of trees. I am planning some bushes though! Pigwa for nalewka will go inthis spring!
dhrynio   
13 Jul 2012
Life / English speaking nursery in Poznan [3]

kinderki.com.pl - Prywatne Przedszkole Anglojęzyczne Poznań

But do not be afraid to sign your child up in a regular Polish preschool. He/she will pick Polish up so quickly and will be just fine, that and the second language is so good for them!