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Southern Ontario (Cambridge, Kitchener, Waterloo) and Polish Women [32]
Nobody has written anything after the last, rather racist I would say, comment so I decided to express my opinion.
I’ve been checking this thread every few months I just haven’t been saying anything because I decided to not use this forum so much after reading many concerning threads. As for the “rather racist” comments – reality is racist. I’d also be going off topic, maybe a little too far off topic. I guess I have no choice but to go on the defensive now. This has to be done in two posts. Not very many people use this forum and quite a few are not Polish. There was a thread that got the truth out of who’s what.
After “deportation”’s comments I was gonna write something big that would make him/her/it cry but it was too far off topic, and way too long.
As for this “deportation” guy/girl. His/her remarks were not racist, as it is safe to assume that a 6th generation Canadian is white, as are us Eastern Europeans, therefore those are not racist remarks, just remarks from someone blinded by patriotism for a country that has changed so much on every level its not recognisable any more in a non-positive way. Many more people agree with me than disagree.
Guys, you well deserved that after all you have written about Canadians or rather all non Eastern Europen people in Canada (and I am a Eastern European […] ). Let's make it clear, I do not approve what that person has done. What I want to say is - you made him angry. Now he or she is going to be even more racist than before and some of us, Eastern Europeans, may suffer because of it.
He/she/it/they said Eastern Europeans. It would safe to think we’re all Poles writing that stuff. This is meant to be Polish forums, therefore that person should expect (s)he’s hearing from Poles, not eastern Europeans in general. Last time I checked we do not represent Eastern Europe as a whole any more than Finns or Slovenes do.
In general I wasn’t speaking fondly about Canadians. In general “Canadians” haven’t acted in a reputable way towards me or my people or even Eastern Europeans so naturally I’m not going to think/speak fondly of them. The people that do act towards us in a reputable way consider themselves to be a European Background more-so than Canadian or they’re from one of the parts of Canada that gives a stronger heritage-identity than generalising themselves as Canadian. See the next post.
I wasn’t badmouthing non-Eastern Europeans.
I said:
Well, let’s just say that Polish women are more ‘compatible’ with me, they’re better looking, more intelligent and they are just as sketchy as me.
-“better looking” is poor wording… I should have said: I find Polish (and in general, Slavic) women extremely appealing on many levels, including physical, as most people find their own kind more appealing regardless of what group they’re from.
FYI I'm not knocking Northern and Eastern European Cultures and Peoples.. I like most of them ;) )
-Northern Europe = Western Europe, Scandinavia, and as I found out later, most of Eastern Europe. I said I like them… Western Europe.
Random Question, somewhat related:
Does anyone know where to find nice, pretty, white, single, approachable, Christian, (maybe even "racist") women age 21-26 that are not useless vaign selfish fat and stuck up in Cambridge or Kitchener, regardless of white background (but not English).
Again, White, which includes Western European descendants. I have good reason for excluding English, Portuguese and Italians (I have nothing against Italian people or culture. From a genetic point of view mixing Mediterranean and Slavic people isn’t a good idea, from either ethnicity’s point of view, and my genetics are AT LEAST 92% Slavic). The emphasis was supposed to be on the Christian AND Single part. Every Christian woman my age I’ve met has not been single.
1. Nice, sensitive girls are looking for nice, sensitive guys, so maybe it is better not to insult anybody while advertising yourself because it is possible that this way you discourage some open-minded, non-racist girls from contacting you.
I appreciate your advice, as any advice coming from an Easter European is welcome. However, I have noticed a serious lack of Eastern Europeans and Eastern European women use a different rule book than general Canadians from this area. Failure will come from getting the books mixed up. For some reason God does not put me in situations where I find myself around any E.Es
1 - But then you gotta remember, in this upside down place women say they want nice, sensitive men only after they’re in a relationship with a man that had the ability to catch them, but not the ability to keep them. When they dump said hlopak they revert to passing up nice sensitive men for another man like hlopak, unless they were cheating on hlopak with a nice sensitive man, dump hlopak, and hook up with Sensativo McNice but then he can never trust her because she cheated to get him and he always suspects she’s not happy and cheating. I’ve been down that road. I’ve seen others go down it, one of my friends is doing that now despite all my warnings. I know you’re older and older women are different from the younger ones. Not all the youngins are bad but there are more questionable individuals in that crowd than in the older one. The older crowd is where I started my dating career (older than me, probably younger than you). It was much different.
2 - You have to be careful with open-mindedness. There are two possible meaning, one good one bad.
3 - Now how do we tell when someone is racist or not? The last thing I’d want is a girl who’d get red in the face, start foaming at the mouth, get all huffy and start saying “that’s so racist” at so much as someone who’s White noticing someone is a different race, or some little insignificant thing that’s not racist at all, and who goes around hating white people and worshiping all non-Whites because she’s been fed a bunch of whoopty-doo and flibbity-jibbit in school, who believes if you dislike a person they have to be the same race as you or else you’re racist, who believes only dating members of the same race is racist. Those people are not pleasant and I cannot tolerate them so naturally I don’t want one. I can’t help but notice everyone who isn’t one of them gets labelled as racist, which is why I said id prefer a racist girl. That is the shortest summary I can make.
4-I’m not advertising myself on here, I simply wanted to know if the Polish Community was still active and if I had a chance at finding a Polish woman in today’s Canada or if I should give up on that. Thank you to everyone who replied, I really appreciate it I only threw in a couple email addresses after others did for the remote chance there is a great girl out there who through the grace of God showing mercy on me would contact me without knowing anything about me and without seeing a picture of me who isn’t an African princess/heiress to $20,000,000+ USD currently living in refugee camp in….
2. I think I understand why you would like a Polish girl but you really sound negative when you say something like 'others are not nice'
In all honesty I didn’t even begin to scratch the surface in regards to why I want a Polish girl. And Yes the other stuff is very negative and considering this is written not spoken I shouldn’t be so negative because it doesn’t have the same effect. The wording I use despite the negativity works to my advantage when this stuff is spoken ~ I have an amazing sense of humour that doesn’t carry over to writing… usually.
3. The same comment to your 'not useless vaign selfish fat'. It sounds really negative. People who are selfish quite often do not know about it and may contact you anyway. Girls very often think that they are fat when in fact they are not at all. Better not discourage them. You can judge it when you meet them and decide then, if it is of such importance to you.
I think it was a dedicated thread to compare Polish people to the rest in the world. No one had anything positive to say about Canadian women, including Canadian men. I don’t know who but a female member summed up Canadian women as useless, vaign, selfish and fat (there was another negative word I don’t remember). A Polish woman or two said she/they really felt sorry for Canadian men because they don’t deserve it… even though I think they do, they’re exactly the same (except for the oblivious physical differences of course) I was just repeating what I read, I though it would give a few people a good laugh. Everyone from the original source absolutely loved the original posts. Not all Canadian women are bad, just like not all Russian women are blonde. In certain areas you will find different ratios.
Looking back I really shouldn’t have said that but I completely forgot most people have the opposite opinion of themselves. Thanks for reminding me.
4. As for prettiness, I have noticed that when I meet someone for the first time, I may say 'that gilr is not really pretty' but after […] the first meeting but you let say enjoyed talking to her.
When I meet a girl as soon as I get a good look at her close up I can tell if I find her attractive (pretty) on a physical level or not. Pictures never wow me, they are pretty much just a rough guide and to be honest I can’t tell anything from them. Her non-physical qualities will not change the ‘friends only’ attractiveness I feel, just as physical attraction will not make up for a lack of non-physical attraction. Looks aren’t everything but they’re still as necessary as all the other individual aspects. If I’m not physically attracted to a woman but she has other qualities once I know her I cannot describe her in any negative way, the worst I could say about women in this situation is, physically, she’s not my type. One of my friends has a girlfriend that I think is beautiful. We can talk and we get along as friends, but from past relationships I know that she doesn’t have the non-physical qualities to have a good relationship with me, so I didn’t pursue her before my friend did… the other ones date the type of women I try my hardest to avoid.
For anyone that’s interested a great place to meet/find great women of various European descents, I would guess a great number of them are Polish, is Oktoberfest in Kitchener. I only went once when I was 20 and it was a blast. The final event they have in Kitchener’s Memorial Stadium (I think that’s where it is) is really good, but expensive.. I think beer was $6.00/bottle but I was drinking Heineken and Corona ($6 in 2007). I haven’t gone in the last few years because something always comes up to prevent me from going to any event anywhere. If you plan on going get your tickets now, if you still can. This is a good one to add to the list growing list of ideas. If you’re from out of town I’d suggest finding the date of the event and booking a hotel room now.
I hope, Slovianski, you have found somebody already
Thanks, that was nice of you to say but I haven’t. The girls I met in clubs and at parties were not relationship material. I haven’t done any clubs where I didn’t hide at a table w/ my friends since spring 2008 (or sometime in 2007) and I haven’t done any parties since 2006. Aside from that I’ve been relying on internet dating sites and the women from internet dating have made fear meeting women from online sources (I’ve given up). The good ones that contact me are always from the States which happens to be too far away. My attitude towards finding a girl now is: if it happens, great! If not… there is no ‘if not.’
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here is a suggestion.....how about you all leave canada and go back to the countries you came from. i'm 6th generation canadian and hate how most of you come here to commit crimes instead of bettering yourselves. Not a right, it's a priviledge to be in Canada and you eastern europeans, especially the Serbs take advantage of that. Someone had to say it. LEAVE CANADA!
Its funny how so many multi-generation Canadians regard Poles (that were born here, that had originally considered themselves Canadian, who only knew they’re descended from Poles but beyond that it meant nothing to, who are technically 3rd generation Canadians), ALL other Eastern Europeans, and most Western Europeans as sub human trash, ridicule and insult us at every opportunity, make us outcasts causing us to experience cultural/ethnic revival and seek our own kind, treat us like crap, see us and make us out to be uneducated, unsophisticated, stupid, nearly retarded, backwoods bumpkins, then get all huffy and p*issy and go off crying into a bucket of hockey pucks when we talk about leaving the country that has been nothing but an oppressor to us, and, when we mention we don’t like the people who treat us poorly. You sure can dish it out, but you sure can’t take it. Reality is Canada is going down the crapper just like it’s been doing for decades. Everyone (the good Canadians and Europeans alike) say the same, everyone who isn’t blinded by missfounded patriotism can see it. Canada is a nation of abundant everything with a supposedly intellectual population yet there are things happening that should never, ever take place in such a nation like Canada unless pure stupidity becomes the dominant force behind the decision making process and is present within the general population. I’m sorry you get so offended and start crying when someone says anything besides “Canada’s the best nation in the world! YAY Canada!” Truth be told, there is no such thing as truly good country in the world today. It’s a matter of what you need and what a country has.
Now, being in Canada isn’t a privilege at all. You see, Poland’s allies have done nothing but repeatedly scr*w Poland and the Polish people over and stab us in the back. Canada is included in this. One such event of backstabbing resulted in many members of a subgroup of another subgroup Polish people getting forcefully relocated to Canada (and the US and Australia). I am descended from this particular group. Then on top of that they get treated as I described above, as do their descendants. I don’t call that a privilege, I call that a curse.
Eastern Europeans are not criminals; you have us mistaken for someone else. Most EE’s that come here are well educated and despite all odds get jobs and do better themselves, even when it means changing their last name to something that’s untraceable because no one will hire you when you have a last name that’s of definite Caucasian extract used only by very Caucasoid people.
YOU take advantage of US. E.Europeans (especially Poles, Ukrainians, Czechs and Russians) are sought after by modeling agencies and other questionable sources to exploit our bodies and use our physical attributes for perverted reasons, and we’re seen as nothing but objects for perverted actions and intentions. Our profound intellect and abilities are not acknowledged and gets wasted.
Leave the Serbs alone. Canada (and many other countries) scr*w*d them and that whole area big time, they have a right to be P.O-d.
And how about You leave MY country, after all, this land is more-so mine that it is yours. And by that I mean, Go to what ever miserable land your criminal ancestors got kicked out of and stay there Mr/Ms 6th generation.
So in summary to any other of the overly patriotic variety of Canadians who have not but a cloud of pot smoke where their brain once was (notice I’m describing not all Canadians, just the troublesome ones. There are many great Canadians out there, this is not aimed at any of them (you?)) that are going to get all huffy and p*ssy, I say this: You reap what you sew, planting thorns and thistles wasn’t a good idea, was it? Why do you expect someone to like you when you treat them very badly?
