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southern   
9 Jun 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Haha! Good answer! Its funny that it came up as "easier" though. What I originally meant is which is the bigger slut. But I guess thats a bit offensive. Although, i overheard someone say that Polish chicks are pretty slutty and throw themselves on foreigners. Is this a steriotypical biased approach or are chicks in poland generally...err...slutty or just really sexually active?

The latter.They are the same with Poles and foreigners.Slavic soul,we all need a bit of that.
southern   
9 Jun 2007
Travel / Best clubs in Krakow? No tourist traps. [64]

Are there any clubs with big toilets,large chill out and some dark,very dark rooms for intimate relax?
O.K. Krakow clubs rock.Polish girls take care for that.
southern   
9 Jun 2007
Love / Polish Girls vs Russian Girls [813]

Which is easier? Polish or Russian girls?

Very good question.Depends on the amount of money you are going to spend.For russian girls you divide the money by a factor.For polish girls there is an upper limit.
southern   
30 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you.So if for example a woman is after divorce and thinks all men are pigs you will look like a pig to her no matter how handsome you are.

If she thinks that sb called Ken has to be a great lover,you will look as a cazanova to her.You never know the strange world in womens' mind.
southern   
30 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

lovely and tall though!

I think the average height in Holland is the biggest on earth.184 cm on average for men and 172 cm for women if I remember,that is about 15% of dutch women are above 180cm!

And among young generation possibly about 25% of dutch women stand over 180 cm.
southern   
30 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

This is exactly the point.Exactly.This is the advantage of both polish and english girls.They cut you to the quick.
The difference is that english girls tend to do it in a rough way,so you need guts to approach the next while the polish girls do it so politely that you find it amusing to approach the next.Meeting one girl brings you closer to the next one.

Contrary to swedish or dutch girls who talk to you for hours without any (quality) result.
southern   
27 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Sarging means spend time to meet girls.It is the whole process,walking in campus,going to clubs etc.
Kino means kinesthetic approach.Basically is touching.You have to know when and where to touch a girl because by touching you transmit powerful messages in emotional level.

the most important skill is to be able to create an air of extreme confidence, even it is artificial and even misplaced. In that sense it is no different than what a salesman needs to do when he gives himself / herself a pep talk before an important call. And keep smilling at all time no matter how outrageous

Yes generally.But there are a lot more than that.
Peacocking,the art to make yourself distinct within the crowd,to draw attention.
Mirroring to coordinate with girls' moves and body language.
There is a lot of stuff to master.
southern   
27 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

[quote=Lobo] Does all of this sound extremely manipulative and Machiavellian? Well it is! and it goes on, and on a daily basis. Sorry girls about spoiling a bit of the romance of your chance encounters with the perfect men…

You hyperanalyze.Point is when she says I have a boyfriend she may mean
1.I do not like you so I tell you I have a boyfriend to leave me alone
2.I have a boyfriend who I am serious with
3.I like you very much but I am afraid to cheat my boyfriend
4.I like you very much,I do not have a boyfriend but I do not want to proceed very quickly.I want to know you better

5.I like you,I do not have boyfriend but I will test you.I will tell you I have a boyfriend and wait your reaction.Will you be consistent?How will you react?

6.I have a boyfriend but I do not like him very much I prefer you,so it would be possible to go on
7.I would like to have a boyfriend,all girls should have a boyfriend,pity I do not have one but I tell you I have a boyfriend not to think I am easy or not popular

And the list goes on.
So the simple sentence I have a boyfriend if translated from chick's language means a lot more than it implies from first sight.To find out what it means you need some skills,which experienced players have in abudance but we the common mortals lack.
southern   
26 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

Question was done respectfully, if you dont ask you dont get a answer
so he went about it properly, and she talked calmly with him, I see nothing wrong
with it, I dont think ken needs so much advice as you do on how to treat

You don't get it.He should not feel better.He should feel worse because he lost a chance.
He feels better because now he can excuse himself.He thinks it was O.K. I had not asked her so long because in any case she had a boyfriend.Now I am relieved.

In his position I would think.What a stupid man I am.I hesitated so long only to discover she has a boyfriend.I lost so much time,so many thoughts without a reason.And now I am again in the beginning.

You lose and win,you cannot always win.
If you mention boyfriend,she already thinks,oh my boyfriend,how did I forget him,and will tell she has a boyfriend even if she has none.And if she tells that,it is difficult then to find out if it is true or not.

That was what I tried to tell him,not to mention boyfriend,not to trigger a negative reaction from her side.From men's side it is war,you do not see that because you are a woman and see only the results.

This is my small,personal opinion.
southern   
26 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

southern. hes content, it was more then actually dating her, which is what he accomplished, hes on a road to a better place..

He asked a pathetic question if her boss was her boyfriend.Very wrong.Never ask about a boyfriend on the first place.I mean Ken you are the one who chatted with her,what did her boyfriend have to do?Next time do not mention any boyfriend again.It is simple.Now she sees Ken in front of her,not anyone else.
southern   
26 May 2007
Love / Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]

This amused her alot and she said that she has a boyfriend of six years and they both are over here working and hope to stay for a couple of years.
So, there you go.

This is difficult case for you.Difficult to destroy her boyfriend.However you could ask for her number just in case...