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Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her [620]
Question was done respectfully, if you dont ask you dont get a answer
so he went about it properly, and she talked calmly with him, I see nothing wrong
with it, I dont think ken needs so much advice as you do on how to treat
You don't get it.He should not feel better.He should feel worse because he lost a chance.
He feels better because now he can excuse himself.He thinks it was O.K. I had not asked her so long because in any case she had a boyfriend.Now I am relieved.
In his position I would think.What a stupid man I am.I hesitated so long only to discover she has a boyfriend.I lost so much time,so many thoughts without a reason.And now I am again in the beginning.
You lose and win,you cannot always win.
If you mention boyfriend,she already thinks,oh my boyfriend,how did I forget him,and will tell she has a boyfriend even if she has none.And if she tells that,it is difficult then to find out if it is true or not.
That was what I tried to tell him,not to mention boyfriend,not to trigger a negative reaction from her side.From men's side it is war,you do not see that because you are a woman and see only the results.
This is my small,personal opinion.