Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]


yes, it isnt the wifes responsiblity to do all of it.

There is no doubt that we like to do things for others, because thats in our nature, but its
wrong to take advantage of this person that you love.

:)

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]


I can tell you what irritates me the most.. maybe this is her feelings too.

We dont like to make the meals and then have to clean up afterwards while someone else sits
on their behind and gets to relax.

its very tiring to make a nice meal and then do the clean up work alone. maybe you just need to
help around the home a little more , she would probably appreciate that you care enough to make
it easy for her so she can rest too.

in my home our whole family helps, and it makes for a nice evening for everyone.

there is a saying that if momma isnt happy, then nobodys happy :)

lol

Genealogy / Searching for the HUDZIAK and MAZUREK family [14]


Franciszka


does your father still have Marriage cert? this might show your grandmothers maiden name.

if he is still in contact with family, they would be your best source of information, get the church
address and write to them and make donation to ask for your family line. give details so they
can match your family , because there will be duplicate surnames and given names. :)

for your grandmothers side, without the maiden name it would be hard to find anything.
you could ask your father what old documents he might have that you can look through
and pictures. maybe old letters, anything helps :)

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]


just make sure that you have time to yourselfs.

its nice to be around family, but sometimes when its just the two of you its
serene, because you can finally relax and when your around family, they want all your time.

so make sure its a trip for Zahi and wife alone. ;)

PS.. Not that family isnt nice to visit, but this trip is about you and her, when your around family
on either side, it tends to put a little more pressure on you both , as it does with many when visiting.
The Less Pressure and stress, both of you will feel more comfortable. :)

Genealogy / Tuzinowska from Gruta area and Wojtowicz of Radom area [7]


your request is pretty big, you want information and give very little.

One thing to remember is that the only people that know your family is your family.

I also want to point out you left out dates. is your grandfather still alive? any uncles still alive?

have you spoken with extended family here in the states?

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]


zahi, you have to remember that this is not the only thing that makes a marriage happy

she might need a romantic vacation with full body massage and someone waiting on
her and pedicure and manicure and you feeding her grapes :))) LOL

I am sure she would be cured.

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]


;)


I was thinking that too..He mentioned how he makes love all the time.

but she prob is feeling lonely and not as confident in herself. so she is blaming him
instead of lookin inside and feeling comfortable with the woman in the mirror.

but then again, we are only getting half the story. I bet if she came in here, it will be another
Jerry Springer saga. :) lol

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]

well, good luck, glad you have solved the problem.

one thing I can say, it doesnt make a happy marriage if you cant relax a little.

My husband and I have a strange and wonderful relationship :)

He is strange and I am wonderful LOL !!

Love / 12 years of marriage my Polish wife still doubts me [74]

Zahi,

have you ever given her reason to doubt you in any way?

maybe you were out with some friends, maybe some other girl was giving you the eye and she
seen how you reacted ?

Genealogy / Family name Kustosz [13]


lodz if he knew he has such a great cousin, he would be on the plane :) I am jealous cause I
dont share your family name, but I will sneak it in there cause I have already adopted you :) LOL

when you want to, I can look. I dont mind :)

Genealogy / Family name "Olejarz" [12]

ashley, one thing I will tell you there will be decrepancies in most documents.

dates can be off by two years or so with the information you gave me, I would give it a 90%

the above is them.

Genealogy / Unanswered Polish names requests - anyone have information on the following? [21]

When asking for information on your family , you must provide more information then just the surname
and they came from poland.

if someone is willing to help, the more information provided will verify what is already known about
this family and any documents here will lead to the names of towns and other family that might be
in the current area.

Genealogy / Family name Kustosz [13]


you know I will seach for them.. you have my full services and they are always free

email me the given and surnames ( all ) and where abouts they landed.

every detail you can about who and I can track them down via my ancestry

unless it was recent.. which I dont have any way of tracking recent arrivals. :)

Genealogy / Family name "Olejarz" [12]

well I will get you something to get started on..

so I am going to say the first name I found would be him?

you cant say they always lived.. because they lived in poland and moved..

family stories cant be misleading, they help, but sometimes they are not always correct
since 2001 I have found numerous decrepancies in my familys recollections.

Name: Michal Olejarz
Titles & Terms:
Event: Marriage
Event Date: 23 Nov 1907
Event Place: Lowell, , Massachusetts
Gender: Male
Age: 27
Marital Status:
Race:
Birth Date: 1880
Birthplace: , , Austria
Marriage Registration Year:
Marriage Registration Place: Lowell, , Massachusetts
Estimated Birth Year: 1880
Father: Jan Olejarz
Father's Titles & Terms:
Mother: Maryanna Kowilska
Mother's Titles & Terms:
Spouse: Katarzyna Murzwska
Spouse's Titles & Terms:
Spouse's Race:
Spouse's Marital Status:
Spouse's Father: Wojciech Murzwska
Spouse's Father's Titles & Terms:
Spouse's Mother: Maryanna Golda
Spouse's Mother's Titles & Terms:

there is also a sister of michal.. named agata

Here is the information
Groom's Name: John Moranski
Groom's Birth Date: 1883
Groom's Birthplace:
Groom's Age: 21
Bride's Name: Agata Olejarz
Bride's Birth Date: 1886
Bride's Birthplace:
Bride's Age: 18
Marriage Date: 08 May 1904
Marriage Place: Lowell, Middlesex, Massachusetts
Groom's Father's Name: George Moranski
Groom's Mother's Name: Mary Kondiolka
Bride's Father's Name: John Olejarz
Bride's Mother's Name: Maryanna Kowalska

they have same parents so this is his sister..

I just recieved a phone call from my manager asking me to come in early to work because
its very busy and many sick people. so duty calls :)

I will try to get back later tonight or tomorrow with some more information.
if you would like I can just email it to you
sometimes I find documents and save them, I will email any I find so your father can look
at them :)

have a great day

Genealogy / Ratajczyk/Guzniczak Surnames [5]

Stefan Ratajczyk
Home in 1930: Evanston, Cook, Illinois
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Age: 43
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1887
Birthplace: Poland
Relation to Head of House: Head
Race: White

Name: Stefan Ratajczyk
Arrival Date: 27 Mar 1933
Birth Year: abt 1887
Birth Location: Poland
Birth Location Other: warelesyn
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Ethnicity/Race­/Nationality: Polish
Port of Departure: Gdynia, Poland
Port of Arrival: New York, New York
Ship Name: Pulaski


on the passenger list which I can copy to you its states Grodsiec ? Konin Poland.

Stephen Ratajczyk
Marriage Date: 3 Oct 1955
Spouse: Stella Swendrowski

Cecelia- are you sure this is female, on the immigration for 1933 when he is bringing helen
its showing a boy 5 years of age traveling with them.

ok I think I am spent tonight.. I hope this helps some.

best of luck in all your searches. :)

Frank Ratajczyk
Birth Date: 09 Sep 1918
Birthplace: Evanston
Gender: Male
Race:
Father's Name: Stefan Ratajczyk
Father's Birthplace:
Father's Age: 33
Mother's Name: Josephine Guzniczak
Mother's Birthplace:
Mother's Age: 25
Christening Date:

you can get this record online at the familysearch.org

Genealogy / Paternal grandparents Feldman/Prochnak born 1879, married Waipahu, Hawaii 1899 [10]


this date


this date make no sense.

are you saying your grandfather was born in 1897 and married in 1899 at the tender age of two?

:)

I know its confusing at times. alot of dates and alot of names to remember ;) lol

Genealogy / Family name Kustosz [13]


Never say never ;)

Genealogy / Family name "Olejarz" [12]

Micheal Olejarz
Home in 1930: New Bedford, Bristol, Massachusetts
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Age: 54
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1876
Birthplace: Poland
Relation to Head of House: Head
Spouse's Name: Mary Olejarz
Race: White

John Olejarz
Home in 1930: Acushnet, Bristol, Massachusetts
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Age: 50
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1880
Birthplace: Poland
Relation to Head of House: Head
Spouse's Name: Mary Olejarz
Race: White

Without a given name I am looking at pretty much all the surnames in Mass.

Lawerence Olejarz
Home in 1930: Chicopee, Hampden, Massachusetts
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Age: 47
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1883
Birthplace: Poland

Joseph Olejarz
Home in 1930: Boston, Suffolk, Massachusetts
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Age: 44
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1886
Birthplace: Poland

The cencus shows 120. but these are also family members included.

if you give more information I might be able to get you started in the right direction of finding
your grandpa's past documents. At least I will try. ;)

Genealogy / Family name Kustosz [13]


is your grandfathers name John as well?

born June 3 1883?

just taking a guess, when your suppyling information, you should always give both given and surname
and as much information you can when asking for help.

I found this as well which could be another variation of the name

Thaddäus Kustosik
Birth Place: Ostro/Ce

Jan Kustosz
Arrival Date: 18 Jul 1899
Birth Year: abt 1882
Age: 17
Gender: Male
Ethnicity/Race­/Nationality: Russian
Port of Departure: Rotterdam
Port of Arrival: New York, New York
Ship Name: Amsterdam

possibly him, not sure, not enough information.

he is going to see brother either T or F kustosz 32 sefreid street? * hard to read*
Providence Rhode Island..

wow, same place my grandpa went. :) if indeed its him.


He prob was and maybe he lived in another town?

with what I had to go on, I think this is him. or its someone's ancestor! :))

Genealogy / Jackowski, Wieckowski - Ancestors Search in Mława Poland [19]

Ross, Sorry for not replying right away, no I live in the U.S. :)

Genealogy / can one find any info if they do not know the Polish parish where ancestors were born? [4]


what do you have in terms of documents? just immigration records?

Off-Topic / Penn and all I owe you an explanation... ref to Polish vs. British vs. American [38]


I am.. I am getting on my plane right now . Be afraid,, be very very afraid.. lol

and if Im not there on time, start without me.. make sure I give you a left and a right and
drop kick.

lol. :)

Language / Polish - Absolute Beginner Questions. Study plan. [75]

Polish Lessons Units

we have our own here, this can be helpful for you.

Genealogy / Aleksiewicz Surname - Looking for my ancestors [10]


ahhhhh I am glad.. i sent my email , so soon as you reply back I will send you the
record :)))

I will keep looking.. if you have any thoughts on how the name might be mis spelled
I will give emm a try.. thats usually the problem with finding records on ancestry or ellis
cause the people are reading very smeared writing.. its hard to get accurate name spelling.

and also those taking the names ( during that time) also mispelled them.

:)

Genealogy / Jackowski, Wieckowski - Ancestors Search in Mława Poland [19]


Well if you look on the JRI poland they have indexed records at the FHC for records from
Birth Marriage and death from 1829 to 1865 and 1866-1896 and 1897-1903.

The records are prob in Russian , so they might not have wanted to search for the surname
its very hard with some of the older script.

jewishgen.org/jri-pl/psa/psamlawa.htm

Genealogy / Aleksiewicz Surname - Looking for my ancestors [10]

I was trying last night to locate some clues.. this one is little harder.

my only find that might be something for you ( maybe you have)

there is a joann laperle and henry alek *

married 1950

in vermont. she is from canada though.

I copied it in case you want it in a few days or so.. I dont have room on my computer
for it all cause i have my own large amount of family history. so let me know I will
email it to you otherwise it will get deleted :)

Love / Polish men are their own special breed ... [96]


Anyone can be difficult if you rub them the wrong way...

Love / Polish men are their own special breed ... [96]


lol isnt that the truth.. once they get comfortable girls.... watch out!!

and we were just having discussions about land mines , oh no that was land marks.. lol

Love / Polish girls pretend to be sick and ill most of the time [35]


lmao, she cant get pregnant just looking at you!

UK, Ireland / POLISH CITIZENS FOUND DEAD IN UK... [36]



nope, in reading this over and over and seeing that the area is not a good area,
I think they were just a regular couple that were trying to make ends meet in a bad
neighborhood, theres alot of stories similar, there was another couple found and
two young children found alone and the parents were dead, and another polish
lorry driver in same area, town.

I dont doubt that who ever did this might have wanted money from them for drugs
but I dont think it was them.

The area itself is a bad area, and this story screams homicide.