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Polonius3   
11 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

I don't have to live

If it's not against the law you are free to live however you want. But what'+s wrong wtih knowing some facts and some odds. If you're a stunt driver you're life expectancy is considerably is shorter (if you get an insurance policy) than that of a desk-job person. If you enter an informal relationship there are greater odds that it won't last as long as the average married relationship. But, hey, who said you're after a serious life-long relationship. Some people do not want to commit and prefer fly-by-night arrangements. Since everything has its upside and downside, such a non-commital lifestyle can indeed make one feel footloose and fancy free. On the other hand, it's good knowing that statistically married men have fewer health problems than old bachelors. The choice is yours!
Polonius3   
11 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

the guy was a good catholic

If he was a Hindu or atheist that would not affect langustic analysis of his name. If it OK for me to answer your query here?
Polonius3   
11 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

no discussion about informal relationships

Maybe there should be. Sweeping things under the rug is never a good solution. Openly discussing all the pros and cons of any situation should be the aim of any good discussion forum.

Don't you think too many people these days mindlessly and conformistically "go with the flow" without thinkng and analysing anything. At best they'll mouth a few "trendy" buzzwords they have heard.
Polonius3   
11 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

Indeed, Karłowicz & Co. list the Turkish words filiżan or findżan (Polish phonetic rendering) as its source.
BTW did you know no native Polish word or name ever starts with the letter "f". Names (Filip, Franciszek, Fabian, Felicjan) and words (fontanna, fala, fiołek, farmazon, fotografia, filc, etc.) are all foreign loanwords.
Polonius3   
11 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

doping

That's still not as bad as the made-up French term footing (for jogging).
A joke goes that two Poles travelled to England not knowing a word of English.They saw a sign that said NO SMOKING. One asked the other: "What does it mean?" "I'm not sure but I think ti means your'e not allowed in wearing a dinner jacket."
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

quote some from Poland

It's the negligence of Polish reserarch that's to blame. If Polish studies were available, everybody could refer to them. Unfortunately, they are not.

But let's be frank. If there were Polsih studies conclsuively proving that informal relationships produce more violence, crime, infidelity and instabiltiy and were not suitable settings to raise children in, your beloved pro-promiscutiy faction would stil find some way to disavow it. They are unreliable, insufficient sampling, bla-bla-bla. Let's stop play-acting. This isn't about proof. This about proclaiming one of the PC dictatorship's priorities: PROMISCUOUS COUNTERCULTURE MUST PREVAIL WITH NO IFS, ANDS OR BUTS, AND ATCH WITH HER LAME EXCUSES KNOWS THAT AS WELL AS ANYONE ELSE!
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

same with married couples

Abuse and infidelity
University of Chicago sociologist Linda Waite [86] found that "16 percent of cohabiting women reported that arguments with their partners became physical during the past year, while only 5 percent of married women had similar experiences." Waite's surveys also demonstrated that 20 percent of cohabiting women reported having secondary sex partners, compared to only 4 percent of married women.

There are tonnes of such evidence online. Yes, married couples have problems, but as the above study has shown shackers-up WERE MORE THEN THREE TIMES AS LIKELY TO EXPERIENCE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Married women also break their vow of fidelity, but LIVE-IN LOVERS ARE FIVE TIMES LESS FAITHFUL TO THEIR PARTNERS.

In your view, which setting is better to raise children in?

But what do the pro-debauchery faction care about studies, facts, figures and statistics. Their slogan is PROMISCUITY FIRST AND FOREMOST and they will keep mouthing it until they're blue in the face!!
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

murder in a marriage

Quite. Because murders in marriage, although they can also occur, are far rarer than in fly-by-night liaisons. The same us true of domestic violence not leading to homicide. There seems no lack of people on PF ready to attack windmills in defence of promicuous hook-up and shack-up lifestyles.

One can't help but wonder whether that is strictly an abstarct, intellectual reaction on their part or do they themselves actually engage in such shameless debauchery?
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

you really do come across

That occurrence was merely an example of what frequently occurs in such circles. You come across as a person not content to wallow in your own perversity. Just becuase you were dealt that particularly sad hand of cards, you seem to want to get even (but with whom since you don't believe in God?!) by foisting the toxins of unrestrained "anything goes" debauchery and disintegration on the rest of society.
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Poland's election winning party: PIS proclamations [229]

what you think

Looks to be a promising line-up, although I'm not familiar with all the newcomers. But let's not forget that the Platfus losers will keep doing everything in their power to stoke the Polish-Polish war. The tiniest misstep, gaffe or sour expression and the nitpickers will zoom in and stir up a fuss. After all these years, they're qutie good at that. Fortunately, all the Platformers can do is rant, rave and fume in impotent frustration and fury.
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

unfortunate family

What have you done to support and console that family? Have you sent them a generous przekaz pieniężny from your post office to help tide them over in their bereavement? More likely than not you have limtied yourself to more smart-alecky trolling (doesn't cost a thing!) and shedding a crocodile tear or two.
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Have PO (Platforma) operatives in Poland fallen into a panic? [332]

excellent premier

So Kopacz in your view was not and would not?

Macierewicz as Minister of Defence

How he manages in that post remains to be seen and it's up to Polish voters (not smart-alecky PF know-alls!) to pass their verdict at the polling stations.

But had his 1992 "police-file-opening" project been allowed to run its course, we would have had maybe 2-3 years of confusion and disruptiion while the grain was being separated from the chaff, but eventually the dust would have settled and Poland could have moved forward. All the other ex-commie countries somehow managed. By staging his parliamentary coup to nip that project in the bud, Wałęsa ushered in a quarter-century-long Polish-Polish War and there's no end in sight. Looks like it will end only after PO drops off the political stage altogether. In the meantime, the Polish nation appears to be in for years of more wasted time, effort, newsprint, air time and money in yet another sterile bout of senseless, pointless and fruitless mud-slinging.

Merged: Despite KOD-ist betrayal Wojciechowski appointed to auditors' panel

According to a long-standing gentlemen's agreement, all Polish MEPs regardless of party affiliation have traditonally backed back Polish candidates to European office. Even the ex-commies played ball and voted for PO, PiS and PSL candidates. But not the frustrated Platfus-Petru losers' camp who broke the agreement and voted against Janusz Wojciechowski SIMPLY BECAUSE he was from PiS. Luckily the whole thing backfired becuase the "opposition" are so befuddled by their blind hatred that they don't even seem to know how the EU operates. It was the EU Council that appointed Wojciechowski to the Euroepan Tribunal of Auditors, ignoring the pitiful Schetyna-Petru attempt to blackball him in the EP. Just born losers all the way, those KOD-ists are!
Polonius3   
10 Nov 2015
News / Have PO (Platforma) operatives in Poland fallen into a panic? [332]

self-destruction

Have you noticed the gradual disintegration of the PO losers' camp. Kopacz refuses to represent Poland in Malta because she's afraid her party will elect someone else as parliamentary club chairperson. The current PO parliamentary club leader is undermining Kopacz's efforts to replace him. Schetyna is building up his base of support and just waiting in the wings for Kopacz to slip up. Outgoing digitisaiton minister Halicki is already praising and scoring brownie points with his PiS replacement, apparently hoping to land a nice fatcat job. Many PO MPs are considering transferring to Petru or even PiS. It's every man and woman for themselves! There's a good chance that in the next election the Platformers won't even clear the 5% threshold.

BTW this thread is not about PiS but about panci in the Platfus camp!
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

without actually saying anything positive

Positive are faithful loving spouses selflessly devoted to their youngsters, concerned about their proper upbringing, education, physical development and spiritual life, teaching them the importance of disinterested altruism for its own sake. Such behaviour should be lauded and propagated because multiplied millions of times over it helps create the ethical consensus on which to build a decent, safe, wholesome and healthy society. The antithesis -- selfish, fly-by-night instant gratification, selfish, here & now hedonism -- does not build but destroys individuals, families and the very fabric of society, creating chaos and confusion.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

But there are tons of dysfunctional families with married parents.

Yes, but even more in unmarried cohabitations, fatherless homes, unwed mothers and boyfriends, etc. That comparison is the key. And all available studies and stats show that children in dysfunctional settings suffer more, witness more domestic violence, do poorer in school adn have mroe frequent run-ins with the law those from fully parented households. Your reaction will doubtless be "yes, but fully parented households also experience violence, substance abuse, drunken rages, etc." They do indeed, but on average LESS, and in this case LESS IS BETTER THAN MORE! It's that simple.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

socio-economic group there's factors such as whether there are other issues like alcohol or substance abuse, a history of mental health problems

Taking all those factors into consideration my hunch is that children are better off and are exposed to less domestic violence living in a non-dysfunctional family with their own married parents. What is your hunch about that?
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

not proper

It's a generational thing. Thsoe raised in PRL accepted the de-germanised words as their own. Their parents' and grandparents' generation often used the ones they were brought up with.

Prior tot eh OSldiarity era everybody said Związek Radziecki abnd socjaliznm, not Sowiety and komuna. In the West slang and colloquial speech are largely shaped by pop culture, in the East ideolgoy played a big part.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

watching TVN24?!

I switch between TVP Info and TVN24 and actually check out the Selective Gazette. Their online set-up is more user friendly than Rzepa's. Also Nasz Dziennik, Polityka, Wprost, Niedziela, TV Republika, Polska the Times, Krytyka Polityczna and others. How else can get a feel for the country without knowing what both decent Poles and the PiS-bashers are doing?
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

Being married made no difference.

Please prove with your Eurostats that there is exactly the same amount of violence amongst married couples as shackers-up.

poor family

So the poor are excused from behaving decently and are free to act liek animals. Knowing your "anything goes as long as it's libertine" philosophy of life, you probably believe that the better-to-do are also excused from being decent. Feel free.There's no law against believing such crap.

Now let's see which loud-mouthed Brit Bully first springs to your defence?
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

No one tells the hour this way in Poland

You apparently never watch the news on TVN24. One news reader says that all the time.
Amongst joiners of the older generation a sztamajza (łom or dłuto) is what a crowbar or chisel is called.
Waserwaga (pziomica) is a spirit level.
After the war the commie regime tried to de-Germanise Polish. For instance, manufacturers of colanders were ordered to call them a cedzak rather than the widely used druszlak.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

be the couples are married or not

It's easy to downplay or slough off the married or unmarried factor, but the whole point is to show that for all their problems nuclear families centred round married parents in general provide the best environment to raise happy, well-balanced youngsters in. Governments can encourage them through family-friendly tax policies and, conversely, discourage them by preferentially treating singles. Today's extremely influential and opinion-moulding popular culture could do a great deal to popularise the decent, well-integrated, complete family but often prefers to sensationalise and titillate their audiences by glamourising various dysfunctiomal, often scandalous counter-culture alternatives.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
History / How come Polonization never works? [87]

Bereza Kartuska

Bereza was no Boy Scout camp to be sure, and harsh methods had to be used there are elsehwere in those troubled, precarious times. Poland was wedged in between two hostile powers -- Soviet Russia and Nazi Germany -- and faced numerous internal threats. These included the Nazi fifth column, an effective Soviet fifth column -- the illegal, subversive, Jewish-dominated Communist Party of Poland, as well as Ukrainian terrorists and saboteurs who had assassinated a senior Polish official. What would you have done under the circumstances -- held a weekly picnic for the mortal enemies of Poland?
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

Not related to Poland

As America goes, so goes Poland, Ireland and the world. It's only a question of time. Those screaming "unrelated" seem to be mainly trying to defend today's "cool" and "trendy" shack-up arrangements in an attempt to cloud the sad truth about them and their adverse affect on children.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
Genealogy / The village of Surazkowo in Poland (Chomczyk, Czaban, Sawicki) [20]

surname

CZABAN or CABAN: encountered in various foms across southern Poland, Urkaine and Wallachia. Several meanings: a large ram or sheep; a Turkish shepherd; a market vendor; clumsy oaf or fool (village idiot).
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

do happen in lowest socio-economic classes

Not only. Did you know domestic violence also occurs among educated, better-to-do professionals, doctors, lawyers, engineers, entertainers, etc. Do you think there is more or less in married households or among live-in lovers? What's your gut feeling about that? Got any evidence to back your claim?
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
History / How come Polonization never works? [87]

villagers

Is killing a Nazi or Bolshevik under conditons of civil strife genocide? Those largely Ukrainian villagers had collabroated with the Nazis. When the other occupation force, the Red Army, arrived, they welcomed the new invaders and joined the Soviet-backed secret police. A strong communist cell existed in the village. The memory of the Wołyń Massacre of Poles by rampaging Ukrainian nationalists was still very fresh and its Polish survivors were among the Polish combatants. Whenever hostilities haev an additional overlay of criss-crossing ethnicities and ideologies, nothing is simple and straighforward.
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
News / Warsaw's silent march in support of 5th Commandment - Thou shalt not kill [75]

you have no evidence to support it

Citing the research I wrote that "children of divorced and never-married parents are far more likely to have been exposed to domestic violence than children in married two-parent families."

What more evidence do you want? I sure as hell amnot going to interview 95,000 families just to satisfy your curiosity!
Polonius3   
9 Nov 2015
Language / Too many English words in the Polish language! [709]

who is the authorit

Every conscious user. I will never use destynacja, 20 do jedenastej, dwa w jednym or od Wedel.
A few years back a Language Police was set up. They wanted to do away with English shop signs and replace them with Polish ones. They haven't been heard from in quite some time. The Académie Française are also having a hard time combating franglais...