UK, Ireland / Fish and chips - do Polish people in the UK like this? [108]

i did say nice pub didn't i

Love / What are Polish Women like? Just started to date one. [256]

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did she dump you a minute ago? the ungrateful b!tch! rotfl

Love / Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression? [360]


if you can't cook, clean and if you can out drink him then he will be very unimpressed and won't call you again. ha ha but seriously if you're not up yourself, if you don't make him feel inferior cos of his nationality and if you laugh at his jokes (i know they may not be funny but do try. ha ha sorry i just cant stop) and listen to him it will certainly be more than enough to get his attention.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


i'm a big softy. after all i'm a female and i'm weak ;)


i can't believe teddy told you this, i feel so betrayed! he's not sleeping in my bed anymore!! and as for the dog, no walks for a week, talk about man's best friend hmmm! ;)


not bought, treated. then we can treat you to a home cooked dinner or pick up the bill on the next date. that's how i do it anyway.


not all women are feminists or selective feminists. there are still many domesticated, warm women out there who very much deserve to be treated by the man in their life. it's not my fault there are so many money grabbing leeches out there these days.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]

only for a woman you love, not for some chick you wanna fvck, she's not worth it. treat 'em mean to keep 'em keen.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


sometimes when im out and someone upsets me and i don't wanna let it show i sneak out to the ladies and cry my eyes out, then i come out and party like nothing happened. or i talk to my favourite teddybear and my dog, they always understand me and offer their unconditional love.

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it could be if it's the right bait ;)


trust you turn up when there's talk about paying restaurant bills lol. a gentleman will always pay and won't expect anything in return. with your knowledge and skills collected over the years i'm sure that by now you can spot a golddigger within a 5 miles radius so please use those skills and don't tar all the men who pay on a date with the same old mangina brush.


you buy her a mobile phone to call you and then she takes out the simcard, puts a different one in and you never hear from her again. i reckon this is much worse than paying actually, it's a very silly thing to do.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]

Southern, you admitted you paid women just to have sex with you and it doesnt matter whether they were prostitutes or not. Going for a date and buying them a drink or a dinner is not the same thing at all, if a girl chooses to sleep with you after that it's because she wants to, not because you paid her to do it. You pay women to sleep with you, we already established that, so hang your head in shame.

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


not at just about anything, and we would avoid fights and arguements over it too ;)


don't you think it's sad that you have to pay for female company?

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


all my *diatribes* were not jokes i'll have you know. seriously though, i like to wind Polish men up and see them get all defensive lol it's so predictable


even Polish prostitutes have a sense of humour. how much did she charge you for the tour?

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


i love Polish humour and so many jokes i know are not even half as funny in English as they are in Polish. but then you can't compare anything to the British sarcasm and irony... with Polish men, you have to be a bit careful with what you joke about ;) they might take it the wrong way.

UK, Ireland / Fish and chips - do Polish people in the UK like this? [108]


i've been told you should have pickled eggs with pickle flavoured monster munch crisps?!?! lol


i tried both and i find them too greasy, a perfect recipe to make yourself sick after a night out too ha ha (not talking from personal experience!). oh and i NEVER had a kebab, those things just look rank.


exactly thats why i like it, not covered in fat. add some chunky chips and petit pois, perfect! :)

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]

they take jokey comments about themselves way too seriously

UK, Ireland / Fish and chips - do Polish people in the UK like this? [108]


from a nice pub yeah ok, but from a chip shop no thanks, too greasy :/

Life / 80% of Polish people are boring or can't party, why? [179]


you do realise Polish men have no sense of humour ;)

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


that's kinda sad and pretty much the end in my books if it gets to this, i mean why hold hands with someone you can't even look at lol

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]

quite the contrary i had very good grades at school and i could've gone to uni daytime as i passed the exams but i'd be stuck there for years without a proper job or income and i'm not the type to sponge off my folks in my adulthood. i wouldn't work in macdonalds either to make ends meet. evening classes are a rip off and employers look differently at people who didn't do daytime university, everybody knows that. i'm glad to be out of that country and away from the miserable people, prefer the smiley cheesey Britain even if the smiles are a bit fake. i don't do physical labour i'm a girl you muppet, i have a cosy job with a steady decent income, i earn more than univesity graduates in Poland and i don't need a piece of paper to validate my self worth. and i still think Polish men suck big time :).

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


my friends often ask me for advice cos of my brutal honesty. if i ever had a shrink i'd make him need a shrink after a few sessions. do you think the pf-syndrome is the newest mental disability around? ;) just add it to the list! ;. divorces are always sad. have you ever thought that the money spent on therapy to heal the emotional pain would've beeen better spent if you just hired a hitman ;D


i quite like the yankee candles, not sure about the love :P


lol nice! it's either arrogant tossers or under the thumb mommys boys. there are a few exceptions of course but they just prove the rule :)

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


you really REALLY think that your pathetic judgements about me are true and seriously, you can think and type all you want because you know nothing and you're just trying to be hurtful. it's not working and if you say you're so smart (smarter than me cos A* you're from a city B* you live in Poland and i moved cos i "couldn't make it there") surely you can figure out that with my English i wouldn't be scrubbing toilets or making salads for a living.


the difference between what? what difference? you just said they're all the same so this sentence makes no sense. not everyone is the same, there are traits people may have in common but not personalities or appearances. oh and a nice comment about blondes there, now you're gonna say all blondes are the same too? lol


i don't give a flying f*ck what other men think about the guy i'm interested in, that's just stupid. what matters is what i think about him. you can do your 'ooga booga me mean me strong' all day, you cavemen.


yes i can trust him because if i couldn't he's not the man for me, and yes he takes care of me like a decent man should


it's a very unattractive trait in a man to belittle everyone in order to make themselves look better. this Polish guy at work who would not leave me alone kept saying i should get myself a proper man, not and English fanny. comes from a guy who's a divorced father of one with a drinking problem and a load of debts, yeahhhh that's a proper man. he's only ever mean and smug when nobody's around, at work and outside of it he's kissing everyone's ass so they like him.


i never tried to 'make it' there for your information, i finished school, packed my bags and left and looking at the situation there, with the situation in UK not being exactly rosey either, i would never go back permamently despite being offered a few jobs there. it's good to visit cos of the family but i prefer not to participate in the rat race and this mindless social status bickering that seem to be the inevitable parts of living in Poland.


my only issues are too much stress and people like you with their inflated egos. i never had a relationship with a Polish guy, trust me. i'd rather jump off a cliff.


ha ha i don't know any Americans in person but who knows?? never say never ;)


i doubt it :) everytime i say something negative about Polish men, even if it's just a joke, he appears and tries to upset me. do you realise how much money i have already spent on sessions with my shrink to get rid of all my issues caused by him? i think i'm mentally scarred forever ;). but thank you for trying ;)

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


i was talking about Polish men in UK, and i did say it was NOT all of them. i'm yet to meet a Polish guy in UK who has no issues and who's just a normal chap with no agenda, making a living and not sounding like a smug know-it-all twit. this Polish guy who is married to one of my work colleagues was doing my head in today, being such an expert in fields ranging from English language to cotraception. i hardly know the guy, he was just coming up with all those random statements out of the blue as if he was trying to show off but damn it was one fail after another. and it was all me me me. why can't they just be themselves without this smug and arrogance, i'm sure on the inside guys like him are really nice men, there is no need for this!! i have never been in a serious relationship with a Polish guy, this front they put on and how they always make fools out of themselves really put me off. and i think i'm hooked on British accents, Wulkan and his mates can try theirs for me anytime, i'm sure it'd be a good laugh ;).


i did not see a future for myself out there, plus i was falling out with my parents way too much. moving was the best thing i ever did, i've never been happier and as a family we get on so much better now that we're miles apart and only see each other few times a year ha ha...


yes definitely, there's a well in my folks yard too, and the dogs and cats i miss them too, funny how they still recognise me when i come to visit :). i don't like the noise, crowds and traffic of a big city, Salisbury isn't that big and i live in the quiet bit with a few parks just a short walk from my flat. still, not the same as the country!

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]



Polish city boys who think they are better than everyone else who is not from a city. "Jestem z miasta, to widać..." There might be a lot of rednecks coming from small villages but there sure is a mighty high percentage of ar*seholes originating from the cities! I haven't really noticed the British city people looking down on the villagers, but Polish people do it all the time, even abroad. I come from a town, not too big not too small just a town, and my parents bought a house on a farm when i was 13 and i lived there till i moved to UK 5.5 years ago. It's not a proper big farm but yes they have piglets, chickens, ducks, goats and a couple of cows and a pond full of fish and a piece of a forest. Am i ashamed of this? Not at all and you can feel free to call me a redneck all you want but i don't really give a f*ck because the only opinion that matters to me is the opinion of people who matter.

If all you foreign girls are still merely attracted to Polish guys, please read their comments above to see just how charming they are. That's how they get after the initial infatuation :). Maybe there are a few sweet villagers left but once they move abroad they think they are on top of the game and turn into arrogant pr*cks. Very sad.


i don't attempt to it just comes so naturally to me to be a civilised nice person, not an arrogant rude Eastern-European like you :). i have a very arrogant side but i leave that for special occasions and unruly work colleagues :)


oh i am so hurt, and you'll be even more hurt to find i don't wash the dishes for a living despite of the fact i quite enjoy washing up and housework. at the moment i really don't see a future for myself in Poland, too many smug tossers like you in there keep me at bay too.


yet still they earn more than you, washing the dishes or sweeping the streets of UK for example ;). in Poland to get a cleaning or hotel job you have to be university educated and fluent in foreign languages, uni graduates struggle for work too. i really don't see the point.


i remember when i visited my late snobbish aunt from a big city once and she was explaining me the mysteries of a mop ha ha. she was serious, too.


i used to date a Brummy guy for a long while he was really cool actually and his accent didn't bother me at all. what else you like in your gf's mouth Wulkan, your volcano erruption? ha ha sorry couldn't help myself, must be the redneck in me.


why not? ;)

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


if i said "lies, f*ck you" your retort would be just the same :)


no point denying it and definitely no point trying to pin the blame on either just men or women

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


OOOHHHH have i touched a nerve? So all Polish men are nice and educated and all Polish girls are rednecks, interesting stuff coming from a Polish man! I didn't say it was all Polish men who were like that but you just took it all personally like any silly paranoid boy would. Maybe you should change your usual weekend haunts if all you find is Polish slappers. You 'immitate English accent', now that is a phenonenon as Polish guys' accent is so rough they always sound like Borat but i do admire your creativity, it's loud in a club and the drinks do their trick so maybe you're not as good at it as you think you are :). Aww poor Polish guys, having to put on an English accent to pull Polish girls, and sounding like Russians trying to pull the English ones :). You obviously hang out around chavvy bars full of chavvy women, just the type you and your mates like to pick up on nights out perhaps? Oh wait am i wrong, you just sit there in the corner and talk about computers all night whilst sipping on lemonade ;).

From my personal observations the majority of Polish guys in UK are losers, ass*holes, cheaters and drunks. You may say that the majority of Polish women in UK are slappers and of course there is truth in that it doesn't offend me, there are a lot of slappers around, but there are also many, many Polish rednecks and jerks who are men and you simply can not deny that. Oh, and for the record just because some Polish girls prefer foreign men doesn't make them chavs or rednecks. How does it work that if we prefer foreigners we're rednecks, but if you prefer foreing girls you've got excellent taste? There is no need for personal insults. Doesn't it make you that bit sad that Polish girls are only happy for you to chat them up if you pretend you're not Polish? I really don't care whom you prefer to date, i think there is a lot of truth in my previous statement but it had a lot of irony in it too. You obviously can't see it and choose to attack, and some say Polish guys are so chivalrous and good with women. You make it sound like you're better off than your Polish mate who has a Polish wife for gods sake. Sorry to say this, but you're a dick. And your Englis sucks too.

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]


I find that very hard to believe, i know quite a few Poles living here in UK and the girls definitely speak better English than the guys. Normally women speak more so they will learn more. Polish guys are rarely talkative, i dunno if they think that being 'mysterious' like this is attractive or something but so many women even on this forum say they can't quite figure out Polish men because of this. Maybe being so vague is to cover up their limited English skills ;)?


They are all mean and manly and up for a fight when with their mates or p*ssed up like i said. With women or with their boss, they will b*tch behind their backs but will be yes men to their face.


Exactly what i just described, they are all distant and overly polite at first and then you can't frickin get rid of them. The more you want them to feck off the more they latch onto you, cos they think you're just playing hard to get. They have a penchant for stalking too :).


Now that sounds more like it ;D. Plus Polish men have a terrible, terrible dress sense and some seriously dodgy dance moves.


Ha ha but how can i possibly be one :P. Polish guys who are living and working abroad are best to be avoided as they are most likely attached and earning money to support their family back home, but they so often omit that part of their life when meeting new exciting foreign women :).

Love / Are Polish men romantic and caring or... "plain"? [85]

Most Polish guys i know act like they always know it all, put this irritating voice on when they are talking to women as if it was to show them they are smarter, talk down to women in general, they're full of unfunny jokes, they find it impossible to admit to any mistakes or admit the woman is right. They're only tough guys when they're p*ssed up. And they try to cover up their lack of hygiene/alcohol problems with a larger than usual amount of cheap aftershave or deodorant. They want their girlfriend to be just like their mommy and once you become an item they let themselves go and start dressing like their senile uncle, lovin the high waisted trousers and socks with sandals :D. So girls, if you like men with poor English and poor nearly everything else, a Polish man is your man! :D :D

Love / Polish professional man in interracial dating relationship...withdraws [27]

i'll second that, play their game girl!

Love / Polish professional man in interracial dating relationship...withdraws [27]

Please don't fall into this trap of 'taking things slow' or 'seeing how it goes'. I've been in the exact same situation and i can tell you that if a guy is unavailable and coming up with excuses - as much plausible they may sound - you could be dealing with a player. I'm not saying dump his ass, he may be genuine and honest, but don't let your guard down just yet, it really hurts when you learn to trust someone and they use it against you. Bit late for this advice now as you're obviously head over heels lol but do take care and make sure you get just as much back for what you give, and i'm talking about feelings here! As long as the communication between you two is good, and by the looks of it it is, you can get through any obstacles that might get in the way. Just watch out for the signs, watch out for the excuses, enjoy the time you spend together and make nice memories :). Good luck :).

Love / Polish professional man in interracial dating relationship...withdraws [27]

By the sounds of it you either spooked the guy or he just wasn't looking for anything 'deep'. As for coming back on the dating website where you two met and being online all the time chatting to other single women (you know he is), that kind of speaks for itself. If he wanted space and time apart but still liked you, he wouldn't blatantly get back on the dating scene, it's not like he doesn't realise that you will see what he is doing. If he wanted/cared to talk to you, trust me he would get out of his way to do so. Please try and move on, i know it's very hard and it's easy to tell someone to forget and ignore the feelings you have but you will just get hurt more if you dwell on this guy. He gave this a shot, gone to church with you and was a gentleman but he obviously didn't feel the way you started feeling and didn't want for you to get involved even more. But still it makes him quite the coward for avoiding confrontation or making it clear to you that he is not interested. His actions say so, but i think you deserve some closure. Nevertheless by the sound of it you're just not going to get that from him. That's life and you're just gonna have to accept that this is how it ends. At least you didn't get physical, and it finished early. He's just not the guy for you, but there's plenty more fish in the sea! Chin up :)

UK, Ireland / Female health in Britain - Polish view [105]

I never really had that much of a problem with doctors in UK. Haven't you heard about walk-in clinics Ksysia? You just come in and wait your turn. It's pretty straightforward. I've heard some bad stuff about the care of pregnant women in UK and know a few Polish women who actually went back to Poland for the last few months of their pregnancy because their GP refused to look into or check something cos they couldn't be bothered or said it's 'fine'. The only time i ever had a problem is when i went for a consultation and i've been told i'll be having a scan afterwards, so i assumed they'd book me in for a scan but when i got to the X-ray dept they turned me away and said i have to book it myself and that they have no more appointments on the day of my consultation. Kinda stupid, considering the hospital actually told me i WILL be having a scan. My friend's teenage son broke his arm and the A&E staff drugged him up on morphine for a good few hours before anyone bothered to look at him. His arm swell up about 3 times the normal size and he was hallucinating, crying and passing out throughout that time. Oh and please don't get me started on emergency dentist appointments!

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

if they cheat on you once shame on them, if they cheat on you twice shame on you

Language / The usage of "dwoje" [11]

dwoje ludzi, dwoje dzieci... when talking about people basically :) i think anyway don't know what's the rule