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enkidu   
22 Jul 2010
Love / India guy Polish girl [57]

It may be... Quite sad actually.
He already started to eat flesh and become more "European" (or even "Polish"). All of it for this strange girl. I wouldn't want to be this guy when his mother get to know the truth.
enkidu   
21 Jul 2010
History / Polish-Turkish alliance. Is it mistake, joke or real love? [35]

Well... Polish and Turkish nations have got a rather nasty war for more-or-less 500 years.
We had learned some mutual respect in the process.
As a Polish guy I may say that I don't like the Turkish.
But I am respect them anyway.
enkidu   
21 Jul 2010
Love / Polish Girl & Me...Is She Interested? [57]

I worry she might be providing services to people for money which is truly disguisting.

I think you may be over-sensitive on this point. All these expensive clothes she wore may be borrowed. Polish girls are known to be life-wise. They are live in a close-knit community and it may be possible that she borrowed all this stuff in order to impress you. To be pretty for you. It may seems that they are live a little over-the-top. You just can't presume that she is a kind of prostitute without any hard proofs. It is unwise and unfair. The statistics in Poland shows that for the last 30 years we spend more than we earn. It's magic. It's our tradition.

Nonetheless - be careful. Polish girl is far away from what you know. But don't judge too fast. Be wise.
enkidu   
20 Jul 2010
Love / Polish Girl & Me...Is She Interested? [57]

1. Is it traditional for Polish men to pay for literally everything? I mean, are Polish men that accomodating toward their partner?

I am sure that some modern, open-minded, and feminist people wouldn't agree, but the answer, I am afraid, is YES! Traditionally, as a man, you are expected to cover all restaurant bills, entry tickets etc from your pocket. Traditionally - woman is treated like a princess. This tradition is pretty weak and quite old-school in Poland, but still exist. IMPORTANT NOTE: This not include clothes, jewellery or other kind of gifts.

2. Does she appear to have traditional values or am I being used for something else? ...something she is not telling me.

If she is a person who cherished "traditional values", she wouldn't agree any sex before marriage. Well... Not so soon anyway. You know her better. Answer this question yourself.

3. Do Polish girls like American men?

Yes, I think that overall that Polish girls like Americans.
You have to understand that Poland is a monolith nation. More or less - everyone in Poland looks, speaks and behave the same way. We haven't got any significant minorities in Poland. That's why Polish girls tend to fell in love in a men who are different from what they know. Let me warn you that, although these feelings are genuine in most of the cases, some cultural differences may be hard to overcome in the long run.

This is the first Polish girl I have dated so please pardon my ignorance.

There is no reason to "pardon".
Let me give you some advice. Mark it - this is just my Polish gut-feeling and it may be entirely wrong, but my words for you is: RUN!

Run as fast and as far as you can from this girl.
enkidu   
18 Jul 2010
Love / India guy Polish girl [57]

am an Indian guy in US... met a Polish girl in New York City

Of course - you realise she doesn't belongs to any caste? She is not even a Dalit.
I wonder what your family thinks about that?
enkidu   
18 Jul 2010
Life / As EuroPride visits Warsaw - is it the start of overdue social change in Poland? (homosexuality promotion) [144]

Here is a series of short clips from the Warsaw Parade.

So for partnerships and unions, because Poland is the most important - it is one of the terms under which the streets of Warsaw on Saturday passed a parade Europride 2010 According to police estimates, was attended by approx. 8 thousand . people. There were some kontrmanifestacji - the largest organized Polish Youth .

I find it quite hard to spot a "fighting for the equal rights" element on these clips. lol
enkidu   
18 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

Gay means a poltical agenda which inlcudes pro-homosexual propaganda, activities and PR campaigns.

That is how they procreate!
enkidu   
16 Jul 2010
Po polsku / Nowa książka wydawnictwa Fronda [13]

Zarówno w Ameryce, Kanadzie i Polsce prawie wcale nie spotkałem ideowych ateistów czy agnostyków.

Bo ateizm to nie jest jeszcze jedna wiara, która wymagałaby ideologicznego ognia. Z resztą - moim zdaniem - wojujący ateisci to żałosna sprawa. Niczym nie różnią się od wojujących fanatyków religijnych.

Ja tam szanuję ludzi, którzy sami są wiarą niezainteresowani ale potrafią okazać zrozumienie i szacunek dla wierzących.

Ale przycisnąć takiego, a zazwyczaj nie będzie w stanie naukowo uzasadnić swojej niewiary, nic nie czytał na ten temat, nie zna czołowych koryfeuszy ateizmu…

Uważam, że wiara lub brak wiary jest sprawą ściśle prywatną. I nieładnie jest "przyciskać" kogokolwiek. Poza tym - wiara nie wymaga logicznego uzasadnienia (niektórzy nawet twierdzą, że logika szkodzi wierze). Trzeba uszanować, że ktos wierzy i tyle.

Widzę, że Ty pojmujesz ateizm jako jakiś ruch, organizację. Z własnymi prorokami czy świętymi księgami. Myślę, że tak nie jest.
enkidu   
16 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

As I don't go on a regular basis to PL, I base my opinion partly on what I read here, partly on what I hear from Polish gay friends.

I hope that you are aware of the fact that there are very few Polish posters here. The overwhelming majority of posters on PF have got no or very little connections with Poland.

That's why the PF is more a game of imagination and stereotypes than a source of reliable informations.
I have got some gay friends too. And they just love to exaggerate how discriminated they are. I think this makes them feel special.

And the comments on gay ppl, foreigners, etc. on this forum is highly conservative, bordering disgusting at times. See the point now when I said some time ago that all racists, anti semites and more of that vermin have to be banned from this forum? This forum is supposed to be a sort of business card for PL, ah well, I am sure you catch my drift.

Yeah I understand you. But I can't agree with the conception of a "visit card". Obviously - there are some good things in Poland and some bad too. As long as these are discussed on the basis of facts - I have got nothing against it.

I just can't stand the effects of wild imagination of some of the posters. That is why there is a conception for some time that it would be a good idea to have at least one Polish moderator (preferably living in Poland) who would know the realities of Poland from personal experience. Such a person would be easily able to sort out the facts from the "stories".
enkidu   
16 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

IMHO there is a way too many topics on Poland where the only and one argument is "we all know that". That is why I think that some facts wouldn't make any harm.

How do you know that the Poland is conservative? And what do you mean by that?
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
Po polsku / Nowa książka wydawnictwa Fronda [13]

O - i to jest prawdziwie postepowe myślenie.
Napisałem "wyprowadzić z błędu" bo dla Sokratesa kazdy, kto nie myśli tak, jak on jest w błędzie. ( w domyśle matacz, idiota, manipulator, młyn na wodę odwetowców)
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
Po polsku / Nowa książka wydawnictwa Fronda [13]

szkalując Kaczyńskich

Ciężkie słowa.

hipokryzja

I znowu

a po drugie co w tej książce jest jednostronnego?

A czytałeś? Bo jak nie - to nie ma o czym gadać.

każda książka o Bogu

Więc to jest książka o Bogu? Popatrz, popatrz - jaka niespodzianka. Mógłbyś rozwinąć swoja myśl?

pierdolenie ateistów

No i znowu to samo. No zrozum - są ludzie, którzy mają inne poglady niż Ty. Po co ich obrazać. Trzeba ich wyprowadzić z błędu. Argumentami - nie obelgami.

Chyba jednak takich nie ma bo usłyszlibyśmy o ich publikacjach.

To jak czegoś nie słychać i nie widać - to tego nie ma? I Ty to mówisz? Taki religijny człowiek? Nie wiem, co o tym myśleć.
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

Getting really gay here! hahaha

Well, you are clearly reading it in your own way ;) ;)

That's one thing I cannot and will not be is gay. The whole idea of sodomy is just weird for me.

Really - the mvefa is perfectly right on this.
Seanus - there is nothing to be ashamed of.
It's NATURAL, you know?
Go out of the closed. Be free!
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
Po polsku / Nowa książka wydawnictwa Fronda [13]

A są tacy? Ja nie słyszałem o naukowcu który poprzez naukę został ateistą, (...)

Ja też nie słyszałem. Ale pewnie tacy są. I fajnie byłoby przedstawić ich punkt widzenia.
Jednostronne przedstawianie prawdy (nawet, jezeli jest to Prawda, przez duże pe) nie bez powodu nazywane jest propagandą.
A rozsądny człowiek nie powinien ulegać propagandzie.
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
Life / To ex-pats living in Poland. Hanging around more with Poles or other expats? [20]

That's what I'm here for.

What about swans?
I understand that breaking the fabrics of society is a demanding and rather time-consuming task, but I have to admit, that I am a little bit disappointed that you are obviously unable to find some time to take care of these beautiful (and delicious) birds.

Shame...

How can you call yourself an immigrant? You fail even that.
enkidu   
15 Jul 2010
Life / To ex-pats living in Poland. Hanging around more with Poles or other expats? [20]

expats?

The correct word is "immigrants". Not "ex-pats".
They are bloody foreigners who are stealing OUR jobs. They show no respect for Polish tradition or culture. They don't integrate. They moan all the time how s**tty place the Poland is. They destroy fabrics of our society.

And they hunt swans.
That's what they are. Bloody immigrants.

Yeah.
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
Po polsku / Nowa książka wydawnictwa Fronda [13]

To jest o tak zwanym "Bogu fizyków". Czyli o tym jak najbardziel materialistycznie nastawieni ludzie stwierdzaja dzięki nauce, ze widzą we wszechświcie ślad osobowości twórczej.

IMHO - książka byłaby bardziej interesująca, gdyby mówiła też o naukowcach, którzy stracili wiarę.
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

for instance by Lech Wałęsa

Who was Kaczynski's close friend and associate for many years. Together they fighting red spiders. He may know the truth.
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

The main exception being that they can be fired from a job on the grounds of sexuality with no redress.

This is a title of one of the chapters in the great book "Gay mythology for dummies". lol

Did you EVER heard about any real example of this kind of situation in Poland?
I did not.

For instance my dad who claims that he is a homophobe he said to me that there would be no problem for him if one of his children would be homosexual.

Did you jump on this chance? ;-)
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

Except pensions, inheritance taxes, employment rights - and most specifically the legislative situation in certain countries - some still have and use the death penalty.

Yeah. I was under the impression that we discuss the situation in Poland. I am afraid I know nothing about the realities in the "certain countries".
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

"They" want equality treatment under the law - not better; not worse; only equal, as do we all.

I don't see any discrimination against them. Really.
I think the want a special rights for themselves.
For instance a right to be accepted and liked. Everyone would like that!
But reality is that some people just don't like others. That is a fact of life.
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

I have a friend in Warsaw too! :-) He was badly beaten by some thugs on the street. But he is not gay, so there is no propaganda potential in this story.

Seriously though - I know some gay men. And most of them blame everyone for homophobia all the time. Like: "They didn't allow me into the club. Because I'm gay."

Or: "This lady starring at me. That's because I'm gay." Or "I didn't get this job. It's homophobic discrimination."

Dammit: I know a guy, who used to introduce himself like: "My name is Marek. I'm a gay"
The usual response was "My name is xxxxx. I'm not."
Such a homophobic nation Poles are! :-)
enkidu   
14 Jul 2010
UK, Ireland / The secret Polish gay men in the U.K [133]

But still seem to live very secret gay lives quietly, why?

I am quietly living hetero. I am not ashamed. I just think that my sexual preferences are my private business.

Cause I know in Poland being gay is something most people thinks needs to be cured and are bullied by the authorities.

Come on. You can't support this statement with any facts, can you?
enkidu   
13 Jul 2010
Food / WHY IN POLAND PEOPLE DON'T USE ICE? [142]

In USA and other country you dont see that...

And the answer is: Because Poland is not the USA or "other country".
Poland is Poland. Any comparison leads to a certain FAIL.
enkidu   
13 Jul 2010
History / The Untold Battle of Britain [205]

As bible say murder is a sin and killing is not that is how the war is justify

To rely on the words of the Bible is a tricky business.
Here is one of my favourite quotes:

"Then I heard the LORD say to the other men,
"Follow him through the city and kill everyone whose forehead is not marked. Show no mercy; have no pity! Kill them all – old and young, girls and women and little children.

But do not touch anyone with the mark. Begin your task right here at the Temple."
So they began by killing the seventy leaders.

"Defile the Temple!" the LORD commanded. "Fill its courtyards with the bodies of those you kill! Go!" So they went throughout the city and did as they were told."

(Ezekiel 9:5-7 NLT)
enkidu   
10 Jul 2010
Love / Is this dress good for a Polish wedding? [15]

The most amazing dress I have ever seen. Its sexy and prudent at the same time. In my opinion the most perfect style of dress ever invented:
enkidu   
10 Jul 2010
Love / Is this dress good for a Polish wedding? [15]

The dress is OK. Only advice - It would be nice if you cover your shoulders where in Church. Of course - it's not necessary but I am sure that it gesture vould be appreciated.
enkidu   
9 Jul 2010
Life / Importance of Religion in Poland [187]

I loved that 'No More Bush' campaign where women shaved their bits :) :)

Let say it clear and loudly:
The Scripture says about burned bush. Not about the shaved one.
I know - it sounds painful. But it is necessary for some very important religious reason.
Otherwise - something tragic will happen to the whole world.
Or something very good will happen.
Or it it wont.
I am not sure.

Dammit! First burn your bush and the we'll see ok?
It's important.