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A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

What people being beheaded or people throwing stones at others, no it really does have to happen, would be a bit weird if it never happened.

Well, I'm happy to be weird then, living in my weird country where none of this happens.

;)
A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

Magda.. 608 543 2345

I know you, she's probably the one I shouldn't want to know! I know a Magda from Kraków though, and she only lives three blocks away! So you're saying she has super-powers? Should we call our national security?

xD
A J   
7 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Mission impossible...at least for her. ;-)

You're not going to believe me, but I think she has potential.

:)
A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

When you consider it, atheists are narrow minded and closed off to the possibilities existing in outer space.

When you consider it, the Church never wanted any kind of progression, and this is why quite a few scientists and books were put to the torch, so yes you have the atheists to thank for all their curiousity and questioning, and also for the fact that you people now know something about outer space in the first place. Thank you.
A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

I gave up telling the story to any Tom, Dick or Harry a long time ago.

Probably for the best.

Thats back to the perfect world scenario, it has to happen to mortalise our existence.

Well, let's just say that to me it's pretty obvious that it doesn't have to happen. (I mean, look around you?)
A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

Exactly the point, your grasp on what is real and right in front of you prevents a higher power or spiritual existence from being realistic.

Nothing prevents me, because I'm actually very open-minded to the idea of a God, just not in a religious manner. Because one of the things I *do* know, is that God never told me to throw stones at people, or to behead them, or to condemn their behavior.

On some levels yes, i have personal proof also.

I'd be interested in hearing it. (Without ridiculing you.) But if that's a no-no for you I'd understand.

Maybe is correct, im capable of admitting either way my life is far from over, opinions change.

Fair enough.
A J   
7 Jan 2011
News / Poland's atheist loonies have had their 5 minutes [239]

They are not capable of admitting that life simply doesnt make sense, doesnt make sense at all.

I am. Here: It doesn't make any sense at all. (Yet.) But there's no lie which is suppressing our conscience or whatever. That's just you trying to convince yourself that your existence has to have a special, deeper and profound meaning. So maybe you're not capable of admitting that we could very well be one of the many coincedences in the bigger picture of all things? Look, whatever the entire truth is, I don't claim to know it. I stick to what I *do* know, and that's all I'm saying.
A J   
7 Jan 2011
Love / Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland? [74]

Everybody happy here?

Very likely. (But I guess you can't fathom that much.)

Guy is probably feeling heavy, fat, health problem.

One of my close friends is also a heavy fellow. He seems happy enough though, and he's a forklift driver at a small factory. (Also has a slim, shorter and nice looking girlfriend.) I know they're happy too, so why shouldn't this couple be?

Gal is probably counting the hours she has to pass with him.

Really? Can you read her mind now? What if this guy is extremely sweet and knows how to please her? What if she sees something in him that you don't see? Huh? Ever thought about that? You sound like someone who believes that it's only the money that counts. I wonder who the Capitalist is here? (Not me!)

Ha, there is photographer who took this picture. Guess, he is her pimp who is counting money who will take from his gf.

For all you know it's her mom or her girlfriend who took that picture. Did you see these two people kissing by the way? (Who says they're a couple?)

Is he too happy?

Maybe you should ask her? Did you even read what JustysiaS posted about her friend and her younger husband? I'm willing to bet they're happy with eachother. Oh, and what about Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore? (Think about it!) They're both filthy rich, so they can't have picked eachother for the money..

(stay away from me. I have teeth behind my lips.)

Hey, I'm just replying to your questions buddy, so you know what to do if what I say bothers you. You can start a thread about our whole society and system in another thread if you like, because this one is about age differences in relationships. (Not about pimps, crime, abuse and economics or whatever you wish to bring into this.)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland? [74]

So, crimes by richer communities are usually done globally, out of their own countries.

That's right, and there's not always *that* much the average individual can do about that, but let's not forget there are also influential groups of elites who actually have more positive views, and that those groups actually *do* want to change things for the better? (So it's not like all hope is lost!) It starts with how we treat eachother at the bottom. If we somehow manage to get a little bit smarter and a little bit more educated as a collective about such things, or atleast more aware of our surroundings and get a little more involved, then many good things may come of that, although I suppose it will never be perfect.

Age difference has nothing to do with poorness and richness?

I'm sure it has something to do with it in some cases, but definitely not always, no. I'm sure you know that most people choose someone from their own social sphere. I guess some women who belong to working-class are a bit luckier than guys when it comes to ''dating up'', but I think women are starting to realise they can have a younger guy too, just like men can have a younger girl. Everybody happy, right? Hey, whatever you may think of it, it sure beats loneliness?

This is such an economy system in the world in which love can not be lived.

That's what you say. I'm definitely saying something else. If you can't or refuse to believe in love, then you won't find it. There are plenty people who do find love with someone else, but let's be realistic about it, love doesn't always last. It's sad sometimes, but it doesn't always have to be such a big drama? (Just be thankful for all those moments when you do find some warmth!) I'm sure your mother loved you. I'm sure your father loved you. I'm sure someone loved you. Love doesn't always have to be a man-woman relationship you know! But to say you can't live it? That's a bridge too far for me.

:)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Smart! I wish I was *that* smart, but it seems I prefer chicks with questionable morals, preferably bi-sexual pûrn-actresses. Just saying, if they possess an I.Q. above 20 they're *way* too complicated for me! And morals? Bah! That is such a cheap excuse not to do anything you normally wouldn't do!

;)

Just kidding.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
News / Today's holiday ("Three Kings") - Is everything closed in Poland? [25]

And AJ, you also thanks.

You're welcome bro. Just try to stop angering yourself over other people and go find yourself a chick who *does* like the sight of you. (Or try making at least a few friends outside of your usual network.) No need to stress out over anything, because I'm sure you'll get rejected another dozen times before you actually succeed. (Just like anyone else!) Just trying to help. (Don't ask me why though!)

And for me a bar or club with only a handful of people inside is the same as a closed place; i quickly walk away! ;)

Only a handful? I can't say I have much problems with that! (A, B, C, D, DD, whatever!)

;)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland? [74]

Sure, we have the internet now. But, basical things have not changed really. (See other topic, girls still making make-ups as in old days. Why do they have to do that? Men need to question themselves.)

There are plenty of basic things which have changed though. (Or do you still hunt Mammoths with a spear?) I guess most girls actually like their make-up, and enjoy their private moments of taking care of themselves.

You mentioning Holland, probably as an example of an highly developed country of today world, right?

I'm not arrogant, although I might pose, boast and joke about my own country sometimes, but that's not always serious. I'm pretty happy to live here most of the time, we still have reasonably low crime rates, and there's not too much violence. I disagree about the direction in which some politicians are trying to take us, but apart from all of that I'm proud of our country, our big mouths, our mentality and our way of dealing with things. I'm well aware of the fact that Holland used to be one of the most conservative countries in Europe in the past though!

I guess Sweden is not much different. (but, still, they are about same old thing, sexual abuse, etc.)

Unfortunately, violence, hatred, abuse and sexual abuse occurs in all countries, with no exceptions, which is why we shouldn't sweep those subjects under the rug and pretend it's not happening. I think the more open a society gets though, the lesser we'll see of this ugly behavior. So that's a good thing about trying to be a transparant, progressive and open-minded society, instead of being an overly proud nation who can't deal with the truth because it might ''shame them'' in any way. I mean, whatever horrible things someone else does, it's not my shame to bear, but I won't look the other way if I can help it.

Yes, we hear higher divorce rates, etc more in Western Europe in particular and in developed West in general.

Yes, and I've mentioned the main reasons for that, which isn't necessarily a negative thing given the circumstances. Or do you think we should go back to our old ways, and overpopulate the whole world, and start even more wars because we're running out of resources and living space? Being single or having no children isn't necessarily a negative thing. (You have freedom.)

We also hear higher rate of different sexual orientations such as transsexuals, etc etc. You think these are changes?

No I don't, because I know that people who have different sexual orientations have always existed, for as long as humanity has. Before Christianity came to Europe, people viewed this behavior as socially acceptable.

No, we just hear voices from richer communities more.

Which isn't necessarily a bad thing in general.

There is nothing to be done by a poor.

You couldn't be more wrong. If you look at history, you'll see that it's actually poor people who have changed a lot, for better and worse. Napoleon Bonaparte was nothing more than a Corporal. Vladimir Putin came from an extremely poor family, and even had to eat rats for dinner sometimes. Lech Wałęsa was a simple Electrician who decided he had it with the way things were going. Barack Obama was the son of an immigrant, who left his family and went back to Kenia. (Just to mention a few people!) Sure, political figures are sometimes nothing more than a puppet to their richer manipulators/sponsors/masters, but they do change a lot of things, and not always in the way that the elite wants them to. Take Adolf Hitler for example, he failed his education miserably, and had even been homeless for periods of time. Not exactly someone you would expect to end up as one of the worst dictators in European history, would you? So if there's one thing we can learn from our history, it's that we should never underestimate anyone just because they're poor or unsuccesful.

But let's not deviate too much from the topic, shall we? (I'm afraid none of this has anything to do with age differences in relationships!)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

You look pretty good but your style is kinda messin' you up, what's with the whole punk rock look?

I think it shows character, and she does seem a bit more adventurous that way. I'm willing to bet she could be more fun to be with than some of those ''classy'' models. Besides, I'm pretty sure those models walk around in their easy pants and sloppy pyjama's as well, having a bad hair day when the rest of aren't looking!

dye your hair brown and grow it long, wear something classy, this is the look you should be going for..

Okay, you have your preferences, but whatever looks good on someone might not work for someone else. (One size definitely doesn't fit all!)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland? [74]

my friend is 38 and her husband is 27, she told me the same thing lol... i've never been attracted to older men or young boys so i shall stick to 'my' age range ;)

Well, she's right! (Of course there's nothing wrong with your own age range!) Never? Not even when they're millionaires and kind of handsome-ish? Think Daniel Craig or something? (James Bond.) No?

No, I don't know. I am in another world.

Ah. Okay, I'll try to explain it to you then. (But only because I've got nothing better to do at the moment!)

Poor guy having a gf? having a decent job?

I wouldn't say decent, but you should keep in mind that about 40% of the European population works for minimum wage.

that will help him buy even a decent house straight away?

If he has to buy it alone he can't. If he has a girlfriend who also has a job they might find a pretty decent house. (Not too big or anything!) Especially in the less popular, rural areas. Of course you also have the option of renting a house here, so you don't always have to secure a contract.

How possible? Heard mortgage. By that way?

Yes. Loans, mortgages or just renting.

I am aware of younger generation anywhere in the world is staying away "marriage", perhaps, due to its perceive of marriage as religious concept, sacred-ized especially after these Abraham religions.

Young people chat a lot, and read a lot, and wise up about relationship stuff a little faster than previous generations. That's one. There are a lot more people on today's planet than in the past, so of course we can't continue this traditional ideal of marrying and having huge families of our own. That's two. Of course women are allowed an education, and can work for themselves now, so the need for an institutional marriage for security reasons became less important. That's three.

Female humans are conditioning "I have to have a house at least first."

Says who? I know plenty of single women who live on their own! (And they would probably welcome a boyfriend in *their* homes.)

This is no problem, but, guys born in poor families will have to work for 20-30 years to have a house, hence, automatically 15-20 years age difference between majority of single girls and such a man with age over 40.

Nope. In most cases, you need to pay a surety, or two or three months rent in advance and you'll have a place of your own. It may take people a while to apply for a place though, because there are long waiting lists in some cities and towns.

Sure, there must be rare girls who are still single in their 40s. They already have paid the cost of this economy system of, physically healthy, but, mentally spastics.

Not so rare, really. The divorce rate in Holland was 38.7% in 2007, and I suspect it's higher today. And that's from all the people who marry, because a lot of the younger people just decide to try and live together these days, and quite a few of them sign some sort of a contract with eachother, although it's not the same arrangement as a marriage. But I think it's better this way. Times have changed, situations have changed, people have changed, the mentality has changed, so I guess there are a couple of traditions which just have to change. That's not a bad thing.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

Yea and it's mostly not the good looking ones so who cares, as for the Polish girls and Tunisia there's much less of them.

I figured I'd mention that, before Jarnowa gets all jumpy and aggy again!

Well girls who wear that much make up do so to cover imperfections up not to look slutty, more makeup more need to hide something.

They don't always use so much make-up to cover up imperfections, although it's very true in most cases.

Like i said before girl in the morning after shower, that's her true beauty.

Yup. I prefer their natural look though, maybe that's one of those weird things about me, but they look more like an actual person that way. (Instead of looking like a painting!)

You think? Why wouldn't a woman want some guy who wants to be paid for his time?

Because most women want attention, and most women feel the need to be wanted. That's one of those little differences between men and women I guess. It usually turns women on when they know they're turning a guy on. You can try to convince me otherwise, but I'm not exactly a Rookie anymore. Of course women can be a bit simple too sometimes, just not as simple as men! It differs from person to person really, but I'd say that in general, women do have slightly more needs than men.

she looked quite rough with her hair down but in a ponytail she looked nice. this makeup suits her in a weird way, i never even used lip liner or purple eyeshadow...

What she did to her lips and her eyes wasn't too bad, but whatever she smeared on her face, it's not appealing to me!

for me to look alright without makeup i need to have a REALLY good sleep, otherwise even a slightest shadow of circles under my eyes (very prone to those) makes me look like i slept in lol

Well, I can't really make any judgement calls about that, can I now? I'm not entirely anti make-up or anything, but I just think a lot of girls are overdoing it these days. I mean, sometimes it's almost like they have a plastic face or something the way it gleams, which just looks highly unnatural.

English girls without make up look horrible.

No, they don't. They look like a woman. I mean, do you look horrible without make-up? (I think horrible is a big word, really.)
A J   
6 Jan 2011
News / Gazeta Wyborcza of Poland losing readers [301]

that is more like it.

Hey, we all know real arguments are unwanted here, since we're dealing with some people who frequent the Stormfront forums.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

And my info says western European middle ages women spend theirs on black boys in Jamaica

I've clicked your link out of curiousity, and it seems there are a few thousand women who do, from both America and Europe. I'd say out of few hundred million women, those aren't many. No surprise there anyway, because it's certainly no mystery that a lot of younger girls also like scoring dates on Holidays, probably because they don't have to worry about their reputations like they do back home. (Which I think is total nonsense anyway!) I think most women prefer a partner over a Holiday-Gigolo though.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
News / Gazeta Wyborcza of Poland losing readers [301]

The truth is that all newspapers lose readers, and all radio and television stations lose listeners and viewers thanks to the internet, and those dropping numbers can also be accredited to the dwindling birth-rates of the last few decades, which is now only beginning to make a noticable difference. So I think it's pretty realistic to expect more numbers to drop in the not-so-distant future.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
News / Why is Poland developing so slowly or in the wrong direction? Who is responsible ? [317]

What was the message to voters? What were their expectations when they joined the EU? Curious what that 80% signed up for. Ignorance is of course no excuse, but I'm curious how it was sold.

Actually, the information campaign in my country was very decent and informative. The pro-EU propaganda in the media wasn't though! It was basically fear-mongering about how Holland wouldn't survive without the EU currency. They actually delivered pamphlets door-to-door, or you could pick them up somewhere else. We could actually read the whole EU constitution in those pamphlets, which is exactly what made us vote against the EU. We voted against the Euro currency as well before they presented the EU constitution to us, and we all remembered how that currency got shoved down our throats anyway, eventhough an overwhelming majority voted against. Which is also why an overwhelming majority voted no. (We don't respond too well to non-democratic tactics.) Same with the EU constitution. I think about 70% voted against. It got shoved down our throats anyway, when our leaders decided to sign the Lisbon treaty behind our backs anyway. Which is also why Geert Wilders gained popularity. (Eventhough our hard left is also firmly against the EU.) Bottom line is: The majority of the people in the other EU countries feels the same. It's obvious they had no say in this.
A J   
6 Jan 2011
Love / Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland? [74]

Lets calculate.

Sure! (Let me counter-balance a little?)

A boy born in a poor family can have a reasonable house in about 20-30 years if he works hard and if he is tight hand enough about money to be able to have a house.

You know, houses are far more expensive in Holland, but if a poor guy meets a poor girl and they both have a job, they're definitely able to rent or even buy a decent house almost straight away. (Unless they feel like saving up a little money for furniture first!)

So, he will be single till about 40 years old.

If he believes your story applies to everyone, that is.

When he has a house finally, he may look around to marry a woman. It won't be easy for him to find a girl close to his age as girls usually marry when they are between 20-25 years old.

We have about four million singles in my country, which means that most younger people don't feel like marrying. Oh, and there's another flaw in your theory: Just ask around on this forum, because I'm pretty damn sure that most women who chose for a career are, or have been single during their thirties.

So, automatically, there will be age difference of 15-20 years.

Automatically? I beg to differ.

Add a year or two to his age if she also wants a car beside house as he has to work for a year or two to be able to have a car.

Consider this: Most younger people move to the bigger cities, and most people who live in the bigger cities don't have, or even want a car. (Nor do they really need one!)

So, a man born in a poor family are automatically disqualified by this economy system or if you still somehow marry, you will be seen as strange by the community due to such relatively big age gap. Some mention love, but, I don't know what it is.

If you live in some backwater town maybe, but otherwise, I tend to disagree if I just look around me. Most people these days are pretty relaxed about such things, and I suspect the younger generations will care even less about someone else's choice of partners. As it should be. I mean, it's your life and no one else's, and you're the one who actually has to live with the person.

Nothing should stand in the way of love, but if you're dating someone older than your parents then it is, i dunno, a bit wrong?

Unless your mom was 13 when she had you! I think age differences ranging from 10 to 15 years don't matter too much, wether the man is older or the woman is.

It's probably best if the older person is young at heart and the younger is *mature* ;)

I think you're right about that, but there *is* something else which makes sense. Women are at their sexual peak somewhere between the age of 35 to 45, while men are at their sexual peak somewhere between the age of 25 to 35, so when it comes to sexuality it's actually not a bad idea.
A J   
5 Jan 2011
Love / Why are Polish women so sexy ? [390]

You'll just have to excuse us then! (I mean, can you honestly tell us about a subject we didn't have here already?) Of course we wouldn't want to tick you off today, because today is a happy day, so what is it that she wishes to converse about?

:)
A J   
5 Jan 2011
Love / Good looking Polish women with ugly men [416]

That's pretty snugly for a family affair.... Maybe he's Greek? Or she just looks damn hot for 60?!

Well, they sure look like they could be Greek! You think? How many facelifts and silicones would that take I wonder? It would certainly raise my eyebrows if she was! (Without using any Botox!)

:O
A J   
5 Jan 2011
Love / Good looking Polish women with ugly men [416]

He is rich...and the girl is an Albanian transexual..????

I actually took this from a popular Dutch forum. One guy mentioned he's not rich at all, and has a really crappy job! Maybe, who knows?? I've never seen a blonde Albanian though! (But I'm sure someone's going to prove me wrong!)

Or a nice couple like this...

If that *is* his girl, and not his daughter, then I'm sure she's cheating!

xD