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PolkaTagAlong   
6 Jul 2012
Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

I was very Proud to be of Polish ethnicity but finding out im not that Polish and im more German is a little crazy

It could be that you're not very German and because of what they measured in racial tests they thought your ancestors were more German than they were but they never examined the records like they did with some people. They may have put Polish because that was the nationality of his ancestors for a long time, but assumed he had German pheasant blood because of his appearance.

A lot of times when there wasn't enough information to prove someone they were Germanizing was Aryan (like gaps in the family tree), they would simply do racial tests (face measurements) and base someone's acceptability on that. You technically did have to have pure German ancestry to be considered aryan like the other member said, but if you passed a racial test you were assumed to be. There were loopholes in that. This may be the reason it says "Polen" instead of Polish on his hitler youth card. I don't think you should feel affected by what you found out about your ancestors, because chances are, they maybe had some little connection to Germany and were just doing what was mandatory to survive.
PolkaTagAlong   
5 Jul 2012
Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

Because that was probably the nationality of his ancestors going back a few generations, but if they thought you had Germanic blood of pheasants that migrated there and you passed racial tests they could make it mandatory that you be Germanized. They needed to increase their birth rate so they were trying to get all the flesh and blood they could. You couldn't survive Germanization without being deemed "Aryan" and all Aryans were required to join the hitler youth.
PolkaTagAlong   
5 Jul 2012
Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

At the start of the war his Mother fled to Germany with my grandfather and his sister where they attended German school.

Is it possible the mother moved to Germany because it was mandatory that they be Germanized and she had the choice not to leave them or was it just because she had nowhere else to go because of the war?
PolkaTagAlong   
5 Jul 2012
Genealogy / my Polish Grandfather in Hitler Youth? HOW? [65]

You think people had to be stolen children in order to cooperate with the regime?

I didn't know they wanted Poles cooperating with them. To join the Hitler youth I assumed you had to be purebed German or pass as Germanic from their racial tests.

By the way,those children who were stolen were usually babies and toddlers, and

In rare cases they took children as old as 12.
PolkaTagAlong   
4 Jul 2012
Language / Learn Polish or Russian [86]

No, I meant there is no Polish community so it would be a useless skill. Its no fun unless you use it in everyday life to talk to people, like for part time jobs or a career. The language is really fun to speak and interesting, not like boring Spanish or German.
PolkaTagAlong   
4 Jul 2012
Language / Learn Polish or Russian [86]

I think Polish could be a very fun language to learn in my spare time. The problem is it would really be a total waste of time because there would be no one to speak it with. What is most difficult about the language? I don't think I'd have a hard time with the prununciation, but if the grammar is really complicated like German for example it would give me a problem. If I ever moved to like Chicago or something I would def try to learn it.
PolkaTagAlong   
4 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

I'm not crazy. I was joking when I wrote the thread. Emily wants to be in the spotlight and continue her southern bell legacy, I said this a million times. Even though Arie is not very American, he's a race car driver and that's enough to continue her southern bell lifestyle. She lost attraction to chris long before she dumped him. Her portraying Ricky as the center of everything is only supposed to distract from her real intentions about wanting to be more famous.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

I don't know how life was in Poland in the early 1900's.This was the turning point of close knit Polish families in America

Very interesting...

I want to know how access to the media makes a culture more individualistic? LOL.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

I was kind of semi-joking when I made this thread? Why does everyone on here take these things so seriously? It's just a dumb show.

Chris is an attractive man, I kind of get the feeling that emily is a little biased because she likes southern men. She wants to continue her southern bell legacy. I think she's going to go for sean for that reason. She just kept Arrie on there over Chris because he's a race car driver.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

That's not what it was, earlier in the show she admitted that he was good looking; there was just something about him that she wasn't as attracted to. Probably that he's sensitive and came across as kind of a nut. He also came across quite stand-offish, which wouldn't be a good quality in a father figure for Ricky. Most women don't like men who are too sensitive either. Women are just more attracted to certain men than others. It could be any number of things- pheremones, looks, personality etc. He just has to find the right kind of woman for him, some do well with a sensitive personality.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

Nah I don't think he got dumped for being Polish. He got dumped because he was the least attractive, period.

Yeah, that's probably true. She didn't seem very attracted to him. The sister probably noticed this and that's why she told her to let him go. He was more attractive than Jef IMO though when you take away the nervous energy and sensitive personality. If I were in her position I would have probably picked Arie in the end, Sean has no personality and seems very boring to me, despite being the best looking.

what a sad sad thread.who the heck watches that stupid show anyway.

People who don't have an exciting life lol. My sister and her group of lawyer friends have a girl party every week and watch this show together.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

White Americans think people are not American just because Polish is their culture! As soon as they get this "feeling" that someone isn't completely like them they stay away. They're not even consciously thinking that they're rejecting them because they're Polish.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
USA, Canada / Chris Gets Dumped on the Bachelorette for Being Polish! [52]

Polish people always get rejected once they are found out. It is sad. No one wants to have anything to do with a Pole. I have no doubt now that all the discrimination I thought I might be imagining is real.

I have to say though, he has this energy that is really annoying and off putting despite him being good looking and everything.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

Thinking about it now, I guess it makes total sense. I think of Russians as one of the most anti-individualistic societies on the planet, so I assumed all Eastern Europeans had similar leanings, but that doesn't make any sense. I suppose that's why Russians and Poles despize each other.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

When all is well, it's every man for himself... ;-)

I guess I tend to think of religion as a collectivist tool. The more religious the people the more self-sacrifice and social dogma to think a certain way there is. Since Polish people are so religious and they place such emphasis on family I assume they would be kind of collectivist.

Things have changed a helluva lot since the fall of Communism and there is a lot of individualism in Polish society now compared to 30 years ago.

Yeah, but it's different in the modern world when they are not Polish citizens anymore. Polish culture is very tight knit among families. Maybe they are just not good examples. For example, I hear stories about Polish-Americans who tell their family member something and they can't keep a secret. Every extended relative will know.
PolkaTagAlong   
3 Jul 2012
Life / Individualism in Polish culture...Is it almost Nonexistant? [170]

The tight knit nature of the Polish family is one of the best things about their culture. The emphasis on loyalty to and pride in one's family and nation can't be any stronger. Although these are great things to have, doesn't Polish cultural mindset allow enough for people as individuals? If so, is this a recent thing or something jews brought to the table? In comparison with other nations, would you say that Poles are collectivists at heart?