Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I've noticed this, saw this girl just after Christmas, got her a present, seemed affectionate but by the end of the night, after Cinema (a place where you don't talk anyway) we somehow got in a moody conversation about personalities and differences etc, then the next day said she doesn't want to talk again. Probably best to not get so into these girls and get new ones on the go, you're right, else would go mad. Where are you living?

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I had good communication first time around until the end, then it was cut off ice-cold, but this time with this friend, just really hard to talk to. What's your experience then King?

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I'm writing here because they were Polish so it's related. I am not saying 19 million women are the same, just that the ones I met have something in common. The first was a relationship, that broke down due to distance, so I was partly to blame, but the friend I have, I am surprised. Just we fell out because I had a low mood and happened to repeat some things. But after 8 months as friend I'm surprised that it can't be talked about. She refused me any chance to talk about it. I am just saying that the girls I knew all did the same thing, not giving a chance to talk, just cutting off any chance even to reason with them. I am as surprised as anyone, as I honestly can say I didn't do anything so bad to make these girls just want to never speak again, and doubly surprised due to how great many Polish I met were.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I keep hearing this about Polish women not being different, but I really don't know what to call it then. I've seen English girls, a German girl, Czech girl, all very nice and the main thing they felt no need to totally ignore me and cut me off after the relationship ended. Then I see 2 Polish girls, one as a girlfriend one as a friend, a third I knew much shorter time, all very nice girls, but all with one thing in common... all feel they need to totally ignore me and cut me off all with little reason, all about things which could be sorted with communcation, that I would get when I fell out with the English girls or the German girl. How can people tell me they aren't different?? How can there be so much coincidence?

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

busy here eh

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

My friend, this guy, has a wife and just sees escorts sometimes, haha, crazy but maybe better than getting emotions for new girls so can feel like sh1t when she sh1ts on you.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

just a bit too in-depth sometimes for my tired brain, where are you from?

please, pay attention to the topic.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I can never quite understand everything you're saying nom

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I am seeing a girl, but it's not serious at the moment. I even speak to her about my friend and falling out with her. She understands I have or had a female friend.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

surely you guys have some girls just as friends too, so I'm speaking in that way really. Still, men and women fall out for good, where as I've male friends I've known for a few years. Funny eh? Any female friends, mostly just come and go.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

The point is that we were just friends, I actually am seeing another girl. So I just wanted to keep this girl as a friend only

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Well we were just friends, maybe it would be different if I had different circumstances this last year (I've been out of work much of it) but it's hypothetical. She is actually an Au-pair and moving soon, getting a new number, so I'm wondering whether to go and confront her, or just wait for her contact or just e-mail her at some point.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

it's not money, she is seeing someone now, that's part of the reason, other is just we didn't get on great last time. I have asked real friends too, and no i'm English. See I'm anxious because last year I went out with a Polish girl who decided never to speak again, and she really meant it. So I am afraid that this one will be the same But surely they aren't clones right, they can't all be exactly the same. I'm hoping there will be room for negotiation with this one.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

What would you guys do, if a girl you were getting on fine with said she didn't want to meet or speak again? Since it's an overreation, would you chase her, or think that she would get back to you?

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

I don't care if she gets other one, just want a way to talk to her again, then whatever happens. Just interesting to observe her. Sex isnt possible right now, theres other girls, but that one has my mind a bit, for now. Now we are not talking, i don't want to chase her but if i don't she may not talk again. Just strange to fall out with another Polish.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Shes seeing someone, maybe why doesnt want to meet me again. Its like law of averages. Had an insanely gorgeous pole in 2008 who was really better looking girl than i get usually, although bad ending. Then see one who is pretty and my type in 2009. Got nothing more than a kiss and a screwed mind, haha

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Hmm, sometimes she seems smart, sometimes braindead, she intrigues me, she's changeable like the weather. Oh and i am 30. I know, should know better, but those feelings cause havoc at any age

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Yes i believe that. Man i just wish i could show you these experiences, show you how this girl is, i can't explain it, i can't understand it, but it's something different.

King, i have definitely given more than i took. Just friends with the latest one. This girl has now decided we can't meet or talk again. A day after i bought her an xmas present. Something about me repeating things, and she cant understand me. Even tho we got on well recently. Was shocked, must have been in a bad mood. Wow she is up and down. But before she said we can't be friends, 2 days later changed her mind. Don't know what to think, maybe is serious this time.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

Sorry, her words, how polish are 'honest' therefore not thinking of others' feelings when saying or doing some things. Its made me feel bad from 2 people now. Maybe just me, i should see it as honesty

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

The more i think whats happening with me now, the more angry i get. I start to think if its ok in the Polish mindset to treat people badly, then it can be ok in mine.

Love / Can't get over "the Polish experience" [21]

Yeah russians can imagine that alright! certainly not us

Love / Can't get over "the Polish experience" [21]

I am losing it a bit today, going crazy in my mind

Love / Can't get over "the Polish experience" [21]

I wish i had never met the last polish woman i met, i think poles and brits just dont mix well. Too different.

Love / All Polish women can't be nutters can they? [257]

One thing i have seen is that Polish women seem to like to just make a decision to stop talking to someone, and not even talk and reason with that person. Well, i can say that for three i have known. Although time will show if its true of my current friend too. Is it part of culture or coincidence? I didnt experience it with any girl from other country.

Heh, i just read the first page more, i've met some nice ones, just they have a different mentality, god knows culture difference maybe. They seem to have a unique brand of mentalness. i had a mental experience with a pretty Polish girl and was lucky not to get her pregnant. She got her new black guy to get me to leave while grinning at me, and never spoke to me again. I can laugh now, poor guy, they have a baby and guess what, the guys American, and she wants marriage, hahaha. Must laugh.

Met a very nice girl recently, just friends but wow talk about changeable, its very tricky to talk to her. For the thread starter, remember you can fight back and be evil too. You will know more for next time, and maybe use them. Most importantly, you will feel better...

Love / Polish girlfriend going back to Poland if I dont buy engagment ring [85]

Damn right ruda, we need to take charge more, too often the woman is making the choices.

Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

She was gorgeous, i'm not so bad but she was tall, pretty, nice figure. I suppose i will never know for sure, she seemed genuine.

Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

It wasnt so sudden last year, this year it just didnt happen when i thought it should. It is maybe a factor

Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

Funny thing is, last year i had a posh city centre flat and a nice car, and a gorgeous polish girl. I was rejecting girls, had my choice. This year, i havent got those things, cant get a permanent job, living back home, and can't get a girl, they're rejecting me, interesting.

Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

I actually havent right now, she sees that, but she doesnt know that i will have more, i didnt tell her in case it made the situation false

Love / My recent experience with a Polish girl. [231]

They're complicated creatures, i see what you mean not look at them and get to know them. I got feelings for a girl who is really cute but now i know her better, isnt quite as perfect as i thought, so now finding that hurts.